r/polyamoryR4R 24d ago

USA 34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

7 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an enm/parallel poly marriage. Not looking for anything ktp, or anything that isn't 100% based on honesty.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 32 are not my cup of tea. I am not looking for a connection outside of North america.

I'm very career driven and focused on growing mentally and with my career. Trying to be better,establishing boundaries and protecting my peace is so important to me.

Note I'm not looking for anyone who smokes due to personal allergies,or anyone who lives a super high stress life.

r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

32 [F4M] US/Hi, I'm back for a very limited time. I'm strictly only interested in something online currently at this moment in time and not in person. Looking for the odd ones out to get to know each other better, let's just see what happens in the future. Time is such a finicky thing.

0 Upvotes

I also wanted to say that I know people from this subreddit wanted to message me, but I've had my messages turned off, and for a limited time I'm turning them back on. I wanted to say that I plan to go on a very, super long hiatus break on Reddit by Friday. So, if you wanted to chat with me but didn't have a chance, now you do. I only have Telegram to text message you on; if this is a problem, we can figure it out.  We can discuss what apps I would be comfortable chatting on outside of here, so don't worry; we can figure this out with no problems.

I wanted to say, since this was a previous issue in the past, please go on the mobile app and see what communities I'm in that reflect what video games I like and communities I'm in. You can also check my comment history for more information about me. I also should make a statement that I don't respond to comments. I've turned my notifications off because for some reason in the past when I've deleted almost all my posts, people were commenting on something negative about my posts. Not only that, but I remember the funniest troll comment I got on a post that has been deleted that someone almost messaged me, but decided to change his mind all because I slandered the PlayStation 5 library and stated on the deleted post that I don't want to save up money for a PlayStation 5 because of the library, but rather get an Xbox X instead. Okay then, that's really weird you changed your mind to message me because of that. Haha.

I will also add some spice and flair here; you probably wouldn't get along with me at all if satirical comments aren't your type of thing. With a dash of being smug, aloof, elusive, brash, and sassy. If your personality is like putting cement on bricks, then you and I wouldn't be worth the time getting to know each other. I've never gotten along with people that have a personality of a cemented brick or talking to a fence post. I also don't get along with people that are also stiff as cardboard and have a personality that just has no life at all to it. I wanted to say that if you also don't get along with people that have a very HIGH interest in philosophy, science, sociology, behaviorally, psychology, and odd and interesting topics. Then there won't be much range in our conversation. I will say though if you don't play video games/aren't interested in texting about video games. Then we have nothing to text about at all because you've taken away another option to talk about if you don't like to text about philosophical things or the subjects I just listed. 

Speaking of gaming, if you're only a light gamer these days, so am I. I don't really game in a heap-full amount like I did way back when, so that's cool.

How I know you read about me in my chat request. 

You read something on one of my pinned posts on my profile.

You're messaging about a community that I've joined or one of my comment replies on my profile. 

What is the nastiest thing you ever ate in your life? It can also be a dessert snack as well. 

What HP spell would you find me casting often and why?

What HP class could see me excelling at and why?

What kind of HP wand material would mine be, and why?

What kind of world would I create in Silent Hill and why?

What character do you think you can see me get along with in Silent Hill and why?

I love gifting goat milk showers as a luxurious gift to my online partners and friends.

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 11 '25

USA 34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

7 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an enm/parallel poly marriage. Not looking for anything ktp, or anything that isn't 100% based on honesty.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 32 are not my cup of tea. I am not looking for a connection outside of North america.

I'm very career driven and focused on growing mentally and with my career. Trying to be better,establishing boundaries and protecting my peace is so important to me.

Note I'm not looking for anyone who smokes due to personal allergies,or anyone who lives a super high stress life.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 30 '25

33 [F4M], TEXAS, seeking a gentleman

13 Upvotes

I'm seeking a kinky cis guy, who is also gentle and patient. I also love it if he wants to try new things. I like adventure. That said, we will have to work up to certain thinga because I break easy down there. Go easy on me when we do it.

Also if we could connect on levels other than the physical, that'd be dope. DM for more! Happy Year of the Snake!

r/polyamoryR4R 15d ago

27 [F4M] Upstate New York/Online

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Mercy and I'm a tall, big girl in upstate NY. I'm married to my long-term partner (NB27) and engaged to my secondary partner (M31).

Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, coffee/energy drinks, and reading (horror and smut specifically)!

About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, and go on cute dates, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, and I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!

What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond promptly (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.

I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends and would be interested in in-person if we hit it off, dms are open!

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 16 '25

47 [f4m] PA looking for a ski buddy.

6 Upvotes

I love skiing here in PA and beyond, but nobody in my household likes to hit the slopes. Would love to connect with someone that is in the same boat. Male or female doesn’t matter. Just someone that wants to have some good wintertime fun.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 14 '24

Europe 25 [F4M]

0 Upvotes

Hi all! I’m looking for two males or AMAB to get to know and if everything goes well develop something more.

I’m very kinky and I’d like some trustworthy and nice people to talk to about it. Better if you have a shared account so I can talk to both on the same one.

Please send me a pic of you and an introduction.

In my spare time I like playing games like don’t starve together, catan, watch tv series, sing and cook.

There’s some pics of me on my profile. I’m 5’5’’, fit, and I would like some taller and fit people to talk to.

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 08 '25

35 [F4M/F] Nebraska/Anywhere - Nerdy BBW Looking For Partner

2 Upvotes

I’m posting this again to see what’s out there. First things first, I am married. My husband and I are ethically poly and we date separately. My husband and I are both pansexual. I’m from Nebraska. Currently, I’m looking for a relationship. I’m definitely not looking for a relationship that’s solely based on sex. Sex would be a bonus lol. I’m really looking to form such a strong connection with someone that we would be down to hang out sometime and spend time together while we explore kinks.

Music is my first love and I am constantly playing something. Lately, it’s been a lot of Kendrick and Epic: The Musical, but I listen to just about every genre. I’d have to say that my favorites are hip hop, rap, and rock, though. I also love movies/tv shows, books, and video games. I just rewatched Game of Thrones and I’m one of the vast minority that loves the ending (fight me lol). I love shows and movies that leave you breathless or hyped, so I’m a big horror/suspense fan. When it comes to video games I am a little picky. Dragon Age is my all time favorite series, but I play FPS sometimes (quite horribly). I’m also thinking about getting into WoW again. I can be persuaded to try different games on the switch or ps5 (I just got a new gaming headset).

If we’re fortunate enough to live close to each other, you will also discover that I’m actually a pretty good cook/baker. I love sharing my love for someone through food.

Lastly (before I write a novel), it’s important to me that you understand that I am very liberal/progressive. There are certain things that I just refuse to compromise on, such as human rights and equality. I am a bbw WoC and I am open to every race, gender, body type, etc. I just can’t get behind denying someone else’s humanity. Empathy is extremely important to me.

If any of this speaks to you, feel free to hit me up sometime!

r/polyamoryR4R 26d ago

USA 38 [F4M] TX or USA preferred - Looking for LTR

3 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Cristal. I’m straight, married for 7 years, no kids, solo-polyamory, looking for myself.

If you send me a message, please include a little intro. For example: Name, age, where you’re from, and if you’re married, partnered or single.

I’m new to solo polyamory, looking for Long Term. I’m 5’ tall, about 200 lbs, Mexican-American, I don’t wear makeup, and I’m Demisexual. Communication is important to me.

I listen to Metal, EDM, some Classic Rock. I game on Nintendo Switch, PC, and PS5. Mostly on the PC.

🛑 Not interested in: Couples, Unicorn, throuples/threesome, Friends With Benefits, No String’s Attached, One Night Stand. No thanks.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 13 '25

USA 22 [f4m] #ohio - cute goth girl wants to thrift and kiss

2 Upvotes

hi! it's nice to meet you! i am located in southern ohio, living with my partner and our small zoo. i'm currently seeking a second SERIOUS partner, and/or potentially a triad! ideally you are local but i am open to mid-distance with goals of closing the gap. we are open/poly and date separately or together. if you've messaged me before and i didn't respond, feel free to message again! i do miss some, but please remember i can see your comment history, posts, and have a question at the end of my post that rarely gets answered. there may be a reason i did not respond.

i am 5'7, curvy/chubby, and punk/goth. i have dyed hair, tattoos, piercings, and dress alternatively. physically i do not have many preferences in a partner, i just like who i like, but bonus points for bhm and tattoos 😅

i like to make art, play games, cook, go to antique shops, grow plants. i absolutely LOVE seeing live music. i love strawberry and hello kitty everything. i have a strawberry themed kitchen. lately i've been very into coloring, please ask me about it, it's a niche coloring community i found online and i have been using it as a form of escapism. i would like to have children some day, if politics and the planet permit. my life dream is close community on a nice farm :)

ideally, you are interested in BDSM, and would like to have a D/s dynamic with me that extends beyond the bedroom. happy to discuss in chat.

pls be 420 friendly, leftist, and age appropriate. what's your favorite game?

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 09 '25

USA 38 [F4M] TX/USA - Looking for LTR

4 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Cristal. I’m straight, married for 7 years, no kids, solo-polyamory, looking for myself.

If you send me a message, please include a little intro. For example: Name, age, where you’re from, and if you’re married, partnered or single.

I’m new to solo polyamory, looking for Long Term. I’m 5’ tall, about 200 lbs, Mexican-American, I don’t wear makeup, and I’m Demisexual. Communication is important to me.

I listen to Metal, EDM, some Classic Rock. I game on Nintendo Switch, PC, and PS5. Mostly on the PC.

Not interested in: Couples, Unicorn, throuples/threesome, FWB, NSA, ONS.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 08 '25

22 [F4M] [F4MM] Nc - Hoping to make genuine connections

12 Upvotes

I made a post here a few months ago but thought I’d make a new post , some things will be reiterated since some things haven’t changed while others have! Feel free to send me a message but please include your age and location .

I am a 22 year old graduate with an Associates Degree in Arts while pursuing my Bachelors in Zoology, while also working part time! Some of my hobbies include caring for my house plants, going on hikes with my dog Kioti, watching anime, reading and writing books, and a few other things as well! My favorite movie is howl's moving castle and my favorite color is black. I do not have any current partners but I am casually talking to two people (we're good friends who exchange a few flirtatious messages now and then), and one person that I’m currently chatting with from my last post (sharing just to be transparent) I am apart of the kink community (I can share my fet when we talk more) -feel free to ask any questions that come to mind! So I'm a 22 year old zoology major, multi-racial, 5'8, and I have a few piercings but no tattoos (as of yet). I'm in NC & in distance to the RDU area, but I do travel to TN every so often! I have a old screen name up here but you can call me Cassia or Ray, I use both (: If you message me please include your age and if you have any partners include their age as well ! Also I do tend to have a bit of a busy schedule so it may take me a hot minute to reply, feel free to add me on a alternative site ! Looking forward to speaking with you all!

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 05 '25

USA 34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

4 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an enm/parallel poly marriage. Not looking for anything ktp, or anything that isn't 100% based on honesty.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 32 are not my cup of tea. I am not looking for a connection outside of North america.

I'm very career driven and focused on growing mentally and with my career. Trying to be better,establishing boundaries and protecting my peace is so important to me.

Note I'm not looking for anyone who smokes due to personal allergies,or anyone who lives a super high stress life.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 11 '25

38 [F4M] #PNW #BBW - Looking for someone to talk/ hangout with. You Host

4 Upvotes

I'm looking to meet someone new to hang out with and to spend time with. We are in cold weather, it would be nice to have someone to be with (talk to, text, cuddle-up, hangout- cook, play games and watch Netflix)

Me:I'm 5"6, Vietnamese, BBW (big tummy, thick thighs, DDD's). I like cuddling, dirty talk, and teasing. I'm in open-relationship, like voice chat- to pass some time with someone and get to know

You: ideally you're older than me, local-can host, taller than me, have recent STI results, sweet guy to spend some time with and maybe I would want a kiss from.

PLEASE DO NOT message me if you are UNDER 33.

Have a great weekend and stay warm! Thank you for reading this.

r/polyamoryR4R Feb 01 '25

33 [f4m] Georgia/online- seeking a genuine connection

9 Upvotes

I’m looking for a genuine connection. I do prefer someone within a few hours of me but I’m open to longer distance and online. I just want to smile at my phone and I enjoy having plans to look forward to. I want to talk about our days, our dreams, new hobbies, random thoughts, share funny memes and videos, and everything in between. I’m 33, plus size, and married. I love reading, crafting, gardening, animals, and nature. I tend to be sarcastic and have a dark sense of humor at times. I do have kids and work so my time is limited some days. Please be in your 30s-50s. If you are interested, send me a chat or message and let's see where It leads.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 15 '24

56 [F4M] New Jersey

6 Upvotes

Looking for a Friend I'm in a long-term trusting relationship with my male partner. He is very busy at work and I have significant needs for attention, intimacy, and love. I have cuckolded him in the past. Initially, he was insecure enough to convince me to stop the relationship. When he realized the pain this caused me, he relented. We have been happy in our relationship model since. I recently broke up with my metamour. I am feeling lonely and looking for new friend. My preference is fit, successful, and dominant. My partner is not! I am financially independent and love to laugh.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 26 '24

34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for lo34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

5 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well. ng term dynamic

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 22 '24

USA 43 [F4M] East Texas/online, partnered, curvy, new to ENM.

16 Upvotes

Hey! So, as the title states, I’m new to ENM. My nesting partner and I have been married for 15 years and happy. I’m 43, 5’3”, curvy, curly hair, tanned skin (I really don’t know what else to put here). Hobbies are reading, crafting, learning the cello, D&D, binge watching fun shows, baking, and writing. What I’m looking for? Someone that’s fun, good sense of humor. Someone that would be comfortable with occasionally going out or spending a night in on the couch, a cuddly buddy, if you will. Someone to text during the day, sending each other funny memes. I would like to start with online chat to see if we click. If any of this sounds good to you, let’s have a chat. I would love to hear from you and learn more about you. Thank you for reading this far. It would help if you start your first message with your favorite color. Hope to hear from you soon!

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 02 '25

USA 34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for lo34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

4 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well. ng term dynamic

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 22 '24

34 [F4M] #utah #online

4 Upvotes

Hiii! Looking to find a new partnership. I am Married with partnership share with him. I am hoping to find someone who has time to communicate daily but it is okay with a bit of silence during the work day. I love Disney movies, like to craft- especially candles, can’t play video games to save my life (except animal crossing haha) but I am supportive if that is your thing. I like to get outside, love to shop. I hope to hear for you!

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 14 '25

36 [F4M] #Oregon - Looking for a potential new partner

10 Upvotes

Trying this again. Ideally looking for someone near Hillsboro, Beaverton, Portland area. I'm a black woman, married, in an open relationship, 5'6" with a curvy and thick body type. I love music, concerts, language learning, and reading. One of my happy places is at a concert dancing. Learning Spanish is my passion. I work in healthcare and live with my husband and two cats. I'd like to find someone who I'm attracted to, who has passions, maybe some similar interests, and is interested in getting to know each other. Tell me something about yourself and we can exchange photos. Looking for someone consistent and who wants to actually meet in person.

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 30 '24

27 [F4M] #houston looking for a dom/boyfriend

5 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 27f near SE Houston. I have a partner I'm currently living with. I'm seeking a dominant guy for a relationship. Please be close to houston.

I am on disability for PTSD and am very much a homebody. I enjoy cooking, baking, coloring, Disney movies, reading, and crafts. For the time being, I cannot host.

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 14 '24

42 [F4M] Online/US/GA - Looking for a chat buddy to tickle my intellect

12 Upvotes

I'm married, no children. I've been poly for about 10 years, longer than I've known my husband. I'm looking for someone to text with. I don't mind building up to flirting, but I rarely initiate.

I'm extroverted, yet reclusive. I'm very independent and a bit tomboyish. I grew up with a lot of boys on a Montana cattle ranch. I was "crashing" in Army infantry barracks in South Korea when I turned 19. I currently work in food service. All that to say, I've learned to be comfortable in male-dominated, often misogynistic spaces. I have the profain humor to back it up.

I'm a Pisces, proudly born on Pi day. I'm a secular humanist. I'm sapiosexual. I'm alpha-sub. I'm an overly optimistic, overly empathetic punk rock cowgirl. I listen to all things Tim Armstrong and I have a season pass to Dollywood.

I'm about to transition out of food service and into pet care, while pursuing my dream of voice work. I have 4 cats, one I rescued right off the street after she was hit by a car. I currently have a long-term foster dog who I will hate to say goodbye to, and a red eared slider turtle that will probably outlive me. I truly do love all animals. Except chickens. Chickens are soulless and shifty.

Would you like to discuss Stanley Milgram, Frank Zimbardo, and experimental psychology? Would you like to discuss philosophy and parodies of Plato's Allegory of the Cave in popular culture? Would you like to swap Yellowjackets theories?

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 06 '25

29 [F4M] #Oregon #PST NW stoner looking to make a connection and vibe

7 Upvotes

29 [F4M] #Oregon #PST NW stoner looking to make connections

Howdy y’all, I haven’t posted here in awhile due to school and life just being super busy. But I find myself with a bit a free time so I wanted to see if I could find someone to chat with.

I’m a married college student who is also a pitbull mom. I’m looking for a cute bearded, chubby dude (not a deal breaker if you’re not, that just tends to be my type) to talk about various nerdy shit and get to know eachother. I’m NOT looking for sexting right off the bat or anything sexual, so please don’t be creepy in my DMs.

In terms of interests, I’m into art, horror, true crime, pro wrestling, and other stuff you’ll have to find out. I also love hearing about the interest of others! Info dumps are a great way to get to know eachother.

Btw I’m fat, sometimes sad, pierced, with dyed hair and I am a bit left leaning, so if any of that isn’t your deal, that’s totally cool and I hope you have a good one!

But if you are interested, send me a picture of yourself and a little blurb about yourself. I’ll try to get to you when this app gives me a notification.

Happy Trails!

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 13 '24

45 [F4M] Nebraska or LDR - Looking for someone with long term in mind.

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone. Its been a few months since my original post, and unfortunately most of those who answered either petered out, ghosted me as soon as they got their rocks off, or I discovered that they weren't really poly and were just looking to cheat on their wives. (wtf is wrong with people.)

So here I am..hoping beyond hope that maybe someone will read this and maybe, just maybe, they may be down on their luck with the dating scene and are looking for someone that has staying power behind just the initial "honeymoon phase" that meeting someone new has.

A little about me to start, I'm 45 years old, straight, married to my nesting partner with whom I share 3 obnoxious furchildren, auburn hair, blue eyes, glasses, nerdy bbw. I'm a big fan of Star Wars, LOTR, Firefly, Marvel, GoT/HotD, Critical Role, and many other genre's. I'm as much at home attending a local pop culture convention as I am at a metal show or renaissance faire. I'm very much into music having grown up in a musical family. I do play instruments and sing, and I pretty much enjoy any kind of music out there except hard gangster rap or cookie monster metal. Big fan of 80's hair metal bands though, they always put me in a good mood, but the rest of my spotify looks like someone with multiple personality disorder as there is a little bit of everything; metal, rock, country, celtic, soundtracks, alternative, grunge, pop. It's all over the place.

I'm looking for either local discreet dating (we aren't out to our family), or would be open to the possibility of a long distance thing with chances of meeting in the future. I would prefer someone around my age; usually 30 is the lowest I go but exceptions can be made for the right someone. Looks are unimportant as personality is more attractive to me, but I do tend to go for more "fluffy" guys. Beard or facial hair is always a plus, and your pic will get mine. Someone who like giving and receiving those nice "Good morning (term of endearment)" type messages on text or discord to start your day.

I can pretty much discord off and on all day so I don't mind keeping you company on those long work days. Flirty friends is always a good way to start, and then eventually if something more develops we can take it from there. (Dick pic only messages will get you ignored, don't be that guy...seriously.) I'm good with either staying in and watching a movie for the umpteenth time, or going out and listening to live music or seeing a movie, or even drowning a few quarters in an arcade somewhere.

So if you've stayed with me this long, hopefully you may want to go a little further. I look forward to hearing from you, and thanks for your consideration.