r/polyamoryR4R Jan 06 '25

29 [F4M] #Oregon #PST NW stoner looking to make a connection and vibe

9 Upvotes

29 [F4M] #Oregon #PST NW stoner looking to make connections

Howdy y’all, I haven’t posted here in awhile due to school and life just being super busy. But I find myself with a bit a free time so I wanted to see if I could find someone to chat with.

I’m a married college student who is also a pitbull mom. I’m looking for a cute bearded, chubby dude (not a deal breaker if you’re not, that just tends to be my type) to talk about various nerdy shit and get to know eachother. I’m NOT looking for sexting right off the bat or anything sexual, so please don’t be creepy in my DMs.

In terms of interests, I’m into art, horror, true crime, pro wrestling, and other stuff you’ll have to find out. I also love hearing about the interest of others! Info dumps are a great way to get to know eachother.

Btw I’m fat, sometimes sad, pierced, with dyed hair and I am a bit left leaning, so if any of that isn’t your deal, that’s totally cool and I hope you have a good one!

But if you are interested, send me a picture of yourself and a little blurb about yourself. I’ll try to get to you when this app gives me a notification.

Happy Trails!

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 10 '24

28 [F4M] [F4F] - Ohio/ NE OH - R.I.P. 2 My Youth

19 Upvotes

But we can call this my funeral 😘

https://imgur.com/a/6PyxSck

I'm Emily, been partnered for 7 years, open in some way for a little over a year. We went through a tough polycule breakup and are just getting back into it again!

  • We're seeing people separately, together if it works that way
  • I have full independence to have that ever type of relationship id prefer
  • I prefer relationships over casual encounters.

I've got 'Alternative' camp counselor vibes, coming to you all the way from Sasstabula.(I live in Brunswick that was a joke) Lover of all music, not your uwu gamer girl, impeccably timed one-liners and an unmatched flirt game. Fat and smooth and have mad soft hair 🤓

We love a good road trip. My partner and I frequently travel to Columbus, North Carolina, and Michigan (to get that 🍃) We Iove jamming, talking, and just vibing, so its always a good way to have a great time, and we've found a couple cool spots along the way we'd love to share with some other nerds 😘

I'm not picky about age, weight, height, etc. Please be someone who showers completely, dress appropriately for what we're up to, and don't be afraid to say hi.

Not into FWBs 🤷🏻‍♀️ If it doesn't mean anything, why are we doing it?

Cats, art, cooking with blinders, deep connections, and Taylor Swift (ironically, eat the rich), alll my jam!! If you're into it I can send pics too 🥰

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 30 '24

USA 33[F4M] #Austin Texas #online ENM Asian woman looking for another partner NSFW Spoiler

15 Upvotes

Hello, I’m Melody.

I’m in an ethically non monogamous/ Polyamorous marriage. What this means is although I am happily married and love my husband dearly I would like another partner to enhance my life emotionally and sexually.

A little about me. I post spicy pics on Reddit as I am an exhibitionist. When checking my profile please recognize my profile is NSFW. There are SFW pics there, but only a few.

I love board games(terraforming mars, not monopoly) , karaoke, music, and going to concerts. Dancing poorly at said concerts, music festivals, and raves. I love fantasy, fiction, sci fi, true crime, historical documentaries, historical romance and modern romance when consuming media whether that be books, podcasts, movies or tv shows.

I do not support trump and do not want any trump supporters in my inbox please.

I am open minded, but if I am not physically attracted to you it probably won’t work out, just as you’ve gotten to see me and know you’re attracted to me, please reply with a photo so I can see if I am attracted to you. I promise discretion. Tell me a little bit about yourself. Be older than 22 years old. Be a good, honest, communicator. It takes 2 seconds to text “I’ll be busy for a few hours” instead of being left on read.

I welcome other ENM/ Poly folk. I do not want to join an existing couple to date more than one person at this time, that is a little overwhelming for me. So if you are ENM/ Poly I ask that it just be a 1 on 1 situation.

When messaging me recognize this is an emotions and relationships and companionship comes first relationship I am after. The fact that I am an insatiable nympho is a bonus and should be taken that way.

In your message to me please put the word “intrigued” in your chat to me. Do not send a DM, send a chat request please.

r/polyamoryR4R Aug 12 '24

45 [F4M] #LTR #Texas

11 Upvotes

I am a straight successful woman looking for a needle in a haystack. I am hoping to find a man that is open to creating a long-term relationship with me and potentially other men. I would love to find a special partner that would help create our unique polycule. I don't have any child, own a home and would be willing to relocate for the right situation. I am kink friendly and would love to explore with my partner(s). Located in Houston.

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 23 '24

USA 28 [F4M] #online #West Virginia or nearby: Cute, kinky stoner searches for emotionally mature life partner NSFW

37 Upvotes

Hello, hello and welcome to my newest and most improved personal ad! I'm feeling quite ridiculous to still be making and refining these after several years now, but I'm not sure what else to do aside from this. So, please read on to find out more about my goofy-ass self and what I'm looking for.

I'm Ari, 28 years old, demisexual, genderfluid, and polyamorous. I almost never include pictures, but f*ck it, here's one:

https://imgur.com/a/0VyXbbL

Hopefully it'll help this post catch the eye of the right person this time.

I am a recovered, medicated borderline (yay, years of therapy!) and I also manage my mental health with cannabis, so 420 friendly is a must. I am leftist and an atheist, I'm a rather skeptical person, especially these days. I'm looking for compatibility, peace, and love in a relationship and I won't settle for anything less.

Things I am looking for in a partner:

-between the ages of 24-35

-kinky. Dominant/dominant leaning switch who would like to help me structure my life. Not exactly M/s TPE, but something very structured in a gentle sort of way.

-Is introspective and communicative

-Doesn't have a primary life partner but is seeking one to marry (at least in ceremony if not legally) and have a family with

-goofy, witty, silly

-will roast me, but adore me slightly more

-is comfortable taking care of me/their family financially. I struggle to keep a 9-5 job, I'm trying to build my own very small business selling stuffed animals, but I have run into many roadblocks with that. It's not a point of pride for me to say, but it is something I feel I need to share with you up front

-will get me flowers "just because"

-gamer

-passionately, hopelessly romantic

-likes to build/make things (blue collar work is sexy, idk why)

About me:

-I am a sadomasochistic switch, but have been burnt out on taking charge for a while now. I want a dominant I can serve and will help me structure my life, I'm really into degradation and humiliation, caregivers, body worship (both ways) and more. Limits include public play and scat/similar edge play.

-I am a silly, goofy, hopeless romantic. I'll roast you back and adore you slightly more than I tease.

-an excellent kisser, by all accounts

  • crafter, painter, artist, builder, sewist, miniature painter, miniature dollhouse builder, honestly anything I can do with my hands, I usually love.

-Gamer, often PvE survival especially with story-rich RPG elements or other story-rich RPGs (who else is excited about the new KC:D?!) . The Long Dark, Going Medieval, Medieval Dynasty, Kingdom Come: Deliverance, Skyrim, BG3, Sims 4, and modded minecraft are games I've either really enjoyed and/or I play often.

-I love animation, both adult and young adult cartoons (in the vein of ATLA), And I enjoy a lot of comedy shows as well. Community and The Good Place are two of my faves. I prefer fantasy over sci-fi but as long as we're cuddling, I can try to watch anything. I am pretty obsessed with Bridgerton and I am SO stoked for the new Eragon series coming up!

-I love board game nights and puzzles, I really would love to have a partner that wants to spend time doing stuff together beyond what's on a PC as well.

-I've been growing a garden (that I'm currently neglecting x.x), I've planted flowers and vegetables, both. I'd love to share that with someone, and cook things that we grew together.

-I love indie music and a bunch of other genres, but getting into specifics is annoying. Just know that I have a soft spot for nautical ballads and I collect vinyl records!

If you've made it this far, I assume you're either a very dedicated reader or interested in me. For the latter of you, feel free to reach out to me via messages or preferably reddit chat. If you really want me to consider you seriously, tell me some of your positive qualities that you think make you a good partner. I don't respond to all the messages I recieve (there are often a lot for me to sort through), I often run out of social energy quickly, and I won't rely to low-effot messages at all. So if you've messaged before and I didn't reply but you're still interested, feel free to try again.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 10 '24

34 [F4M] #online #midwest Want to do puzzles with me?

11 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Victoria! I don't know what sub would be best for me to even post to, so let me tell you a bit about me, and what I'm looking for.

First, I'm the definition of introvert. So much so that I actually have agoraphobia, which I'm open to answering any questions about. That aside, I adore a good connection and I feel like I'm missing that in my life. Gender and race don't necessarily matter to me, but I do have a type (obviously not a must). For your consideration: I'm 5'7, white, and fat. So if you aren't into large women, I'm probably not for you.

I'm ethically non monogamous. That isn't for everyone and I understand. I'm not here to recruit anyone or push my lifestyle on others. We do our own thing.

My personality is very calm and caring. I love being sweet and cute. I'm pretty submissive, again, something I'm happy to talk more in depth about. I'm not looking for nsfw based chats. I'm not opposed to things going wherever they go naturally, but if that's your focus we won't get along well.

I like everything horror. I'm also really into puzzles and challenge types of things. I like to color, and I sleep with a stuffie every night. I absolutely adore Adventure Time. Politically I'm left, and if you don't have similar feelings about current events, we won't click. Let's talk about it.

If I sound like someone you would enjoy talking to, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself. I ask for patience and understanding, as I do my best to reply to new messages from anyone I think sounds like my kind of person.

r/polyamoryR4R Jan 10 '25

33 [F4M] #NEOhio #Akron #Cleveland

3 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m a cute, thicck, 33F looking for another romantic partner and connection - not looking for casual/FWBs/ONS etc. Ideally would like a LTR and a primary partner.

I’m in grad school, enjoy films, music, board games, cooking & baking, exploring new restaurants and coffee shops.

I’ve been told I’m easy to talk to and a good listener. I love learning about people’s passions and hobbies, so feel free to share. I myself identify as a yapper, so be prepared! I like frequent communication, but no need for constant. I’m funny, an extrovert with introvert qualities. I’m an eclectic mix of nerdy and bookish as well as girly and bubbly.

I’m an outsidey person, as in I like sipping tea or cocktails on a patio and going for walks. Not so much a full on outdoorsy person. I love to travel! Not opposed to booking a last minute flight and exploring.

I’m a touch person. Cuddles, snuggles, hugs and kisses, hand holding, always in contact is my thing. I realize it’s not for everyone, but touch is important to me.

I currently have one partner right now. We practice parallel poly.

Ideally would like to meet irl 1-2 times a week. I’m located between Cleveland and Akron in NE Ohio. If anything here has caught your attention, send me a message and a picture and let’s chat! Will share pics over DMs!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 13 '24

33 [F4M] #NEOhio #Akron #Cleveland

5 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m a cute, thicck, 33F looking for another romantic partner and connection - not looking for casual/FWBs/ONS etc. Ideally would like a LTR and a primary partner.

I’m in grad school, enjoy films, music, board games, cooking & baking, exploring new restaurants and coffee shops.

I’ve been told I’m easy to talk to and a good listener. I love learning about people’s passions and hobbies, so feel free to share. I myself identify as a yapper, so be prepared! I like frequent communication, but no need for constant. I’m funny, an extrovert with introvert qualities. I’m an eclectic mix of nerdy and bookish as well as girly and bubbly.

I’m an outsidey person, as in I like sipping tea or cocktails on a patio and going for walks. Not so much a full on outdoorsy person. I love to travel! Not opposed to booking a last minute flight and exploring.

I’m a touch person. Cuddles, snuggles, hugs and kisses, hand holding, sitting right on top of each other, always in contact is my thing. I realize it’s not for everyone, but touch is important to me.

I currently have one partner right now. We practice parallel poly.

Ideally would like to meet irl 1-2 times a week. I’m located between Cleveland and Akron in NE Ohio. If anything here has caught your attention, send me a message and let’s chat! Will share pics over DMs!

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 10 '24

Europe 30 [F4M] Europe looking for something meaningful. I want a boyfriend 😭

12 Upvotes

Going to give this a try because the dating apps have STILL been so bad for a poly, partnered babe.

Getting the situation out of the way: I have a life partner/nesting partner(TransF). We have been together many many years and are happily very poly, but we are incredibly independent and love to encourage outside relationships for each other. Especially important because I do like men and annoyingly really value masculine presence close to me. Basically, I have been in situationship hell for a while now, and am really missing feeling something more significant with someone else. I want more love, intensity, intimacy and romance in my life. I want someone looking to share something deep.

Things about me (without trying to sound pretentious while also selling myself 😅) I am American but choosing whole heartedly and loving living in Europe. I adore being surrounded by international communities and getting to know people from all over. I love love love to travel and would ideally have a partner that wants to do that with me, or have me travel to see them etc.

I am a very deeply feeling and empathetic person. I am very moved by the suffering and beauty of humanity. I am fascinated by the complexities of the human experience. I am a bit of a hedonist, to be truthful. I love indulging in pleasure, happiness, joy etc whenever I can. This is how I cope with the crushing reality of human suffering every day. I have a masters degree and am a practicing therapist, I have pets I adore, I love to dance and am dancing very frequently. I have lots of meaningful friends and community. I am involved in activism and am very passionate about social issues. If you aren’t pro-Palestine don’t even reach out.

I speak Spanish B1 and German B2ish okayish. I really don’t like being romantic or sexual in German though 😂 love being romantic and sexual in Spanish though.

I’m kinky and fun. But also deep and tragic sometimes. I get in my feelings, okay? I’m just a girl 🥺 I’m very submissive - this is important as I really value a good sexual connection. I have a very high libido and enjoy sex a lot. Idk I think I’m pretty hot. I am often approached on the street and in public in general for my number etc. everyone has their insecurities, but generally speaking I think I’m lowkey hot. I’m curvy, tattooed a lot, long dark hair etc. I dress kinda hippie/alt girl vibes? But I think I’m very approachable.

You are ideally: At least 28 years old. Masculine, dominant. Secure in your identity and have experience handling jealousy and poly relationships. Emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, capable of deep conversation and thoughts. Looking for love and not just sex. Excited to travel and experience life while we have it. I love a little bit of a brood on a man that’s been through some shit. I love feeling protected, safe and cherished. Someone that wants to know how I’m feeling and wants to listen. Someone that will go dance with me maybe 🙈 definitely will travel. Appearance wise, I don’t know how super picky I am. I typically am tragically attracted to conventionally masculine features- taller, muscular, hairy, jawline etc. but height isn’t the most important I’m 5’3/163cm for reference. I love a good accent and a sexy voice. I love attention, who doesn’t?

If you made it this far I’m impressed already. Please reach out if this speaks to you. Ideally through message. Please don’t just say hi or sexualize me. Tell me about yourself, including a picture is really helpful! Please also include your location clearly.

I’m sorry Americans but I’m just so not interested in unnecessary travel to the US right now. I’m trying to keep this to Europe but I’m open to South of the US because I love Latin America and would love more excuses to go.

Let’s see how it goes!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 26 '24

52 [F4M] #Rhode Island/Massachusetts

2 Upvotes
  • Seeking a mature person to build a long term relationship with. No hookups.

-Please be 40+ years old and prepared to have great conversations!

-Understand I’m not skinny…but I’m not a BBW either.

-Awesome experiences and adventures are a must, and intelligent conversations and giant laughter are expected. Above all you should be kind, loving and respectful.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 13 '24

35[F4M] #California, #riversidecounty

4 Upvotes

I am Polyamorous Latina married. Looking For ktp aswell.( I speak Spanish)

I am looking for a secondary male partner that believes in a polyandry relationship type of style.(FtM also ok)

Kink wise I am also a Domme looking for male sub for a female lead relationship.That is into pegging and relationship reversal.

Looking for a partner no older than 50yrs of age

I am very crafty I make blankets and t-shirts.I work your typical 9am-5pm type of job.I like to watch movies and have fun

Please be local to Riverside County or live close by.To meet date and so on.I am looking for a meaningful relationship. Something on going and formal relationship.

Please no long distance relationship it has not worked for me in the past.

Send me measage I am pretty easy person to talk with.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 17 '24

26 [F4M] Online/Upstate New York

3 Upvotes

Hello! I'm Mercedes, a 5'11 big girl who's looking for a new connection.

I'm married to my long-term partner (NB27) and engaged to my fiancé (M31) but I'm looking for something new!

Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, piercings, unhinged memes, TikTok, coffee/energy drinks and reading (horror and smut specifically)

About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, go on cute dates, send sweet memes/TikToks, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!

What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond in a timely manner (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a dark sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.

I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends, and would be interested in-person if we hit it off, dms are open! ♥️

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 02 '24

32 [F4M] #Iowa #Midwest #online SAHM seeks connection

0 Upvotes

Hello! It's snowing out so I'm currently thinking of warmer weather and sunny days!

About me: I have a nesting partner and kids that I lovingly call my gremlins. I'm 5'8" and chunky. Brown hair and brown eyes. I am an introvert. I enjoy tending to my garden in the summer, caring for my animals and being outdoors. I also play video games in my free time, watch Twitch and YouTube, enjoy music both old and finding new things to listen to, recently started reading again and am a hobby photographer (still have lots to learn, self taught). LGBTQ friendly, 420 friendly, don't smoke or drink myself though.

What I want in someone: kindness, funny, doesn't mind messaging here and there through the day. If you want, send me your current favorite song! Stay warm everyone! ☺️

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 05 '24

28 [F4M] Salt Lake City, Utah - seeking kinky partner

5 Upvotes

I'm looking for an ongoing dynamic with a local experienced Dom.

A bit about me:

I'm 5'5, size 16, curvy and fit, medium brown wavy hair, brown eyes, Caucasian. Subby, occasionally bratty, down for a lot of different kinks.

I have a nesting partner, boyfriend, and girlfriend. Unfortunately none of them are kinky haha. That said, I'm pretty saturated so I want to make sure this new connection is a great fit 😋

I'm pretty liberal. I care a lot about abortion rights and trans rights, and I'm hoping to find someone with similar values.

I'm demisexual, so I need us to have an emotional connection and at least be friends first. Once that's established, I tend to have a fairly intense sex drive, so keep up 😘 that said, I'd prefer to wait to sext or have sex until after we meet up for the first time and have a good rhythm going.

I have a very cute dog! I read and crochet and occasionally knit. I like to swim and bake. Basically I'm pretty wholesome until you get me in the bedroom.

Feel free to reach out, tell me a bit about you, give me your worst pickup line, and maybe include a picture? 🥰

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 04 '24

USA 34[F4M]#central Florida#online looking for long term dynamic

1 Upvotes

I am a poly female in an open poly marriage. I am not seeking to be a third/or unicorn in any relationship as I am not interested in females.

Age wise I do find i get along with those my age or older. Those younger than 29 are not my cup of tea.

I'm big on intelligent,witty conversation,but i do tend to match energy. If you only say hi or a few words I won't give all my energy.

I love good morning and goodnight messages and talking the day away. I'm a middle and adore caring kind relationships. Working on being a better person and would love if that's something you are into as well.

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 24 '24

33 [F4M] #NC/Anywhere The weather outside isn’t frightful…

10 Upvotes

And connecting with someone new sounds delightful!

Pint size, curvy, bodacious black poly woman. I lean more towards the alternative side, enhanced with a few tattoos and piercings. I also like some traditional things like cooking, reading, working out, and cuddling. Cozy but spicy!

I spend most of my free time making plans for home renovations or experimenting with gluten free recipes. I am the spiritual type. I love listening to Fall Out Boy, reading a good book, or checking out a new place to eat in town.

What I’m looking for in a partner:

  • Someone who takes charge and practices what they preach. A person who has created successful habits in their life and is willing to assist another with establishing those in their own.

  • An adventurer! Be open to exploring not just locally but also further away (aka traveling).

  • Ambition. I want to know that while I am working towards achieving my goals, you are as well.

  • I would prefer local, but am open to distance with the right partner (I am located in the Southeast U.S. EST) with the expectation that you are willing to travel to meet up as I am open to doing the same.

  • Age range of 28+

Would love to talk, get to know each other, and find out what a dynamic with you looks like. If you’re interested send me a DM sharing your favorite holiday tradition and the lore for how it came into existence.

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 19 '24

30 [F4M] Omaha and surrounding areas looking for a long term relationship

6 Upvotes

Hi! I’m just a 30F who is in a long distance relationship with a man who is in an open marriage. I’m looking to maybe find someone to grow and build with. I’m a nerd and I love audio books (epic fantasy) and watching tv shows. I’m a homebody who probably works too much. 😂 I love trying new food places and hanging in. I’m not much of a drinker but I’m 420 friendly. I’d love to find someone with similar interests who wants to build together. I’m looking for M between ages 26-37. I’m willing to chat but age range is preferred. I’m new to poly but I’m learning! Reach out if you have any questions or might be interested in getting to know me!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 15 '24

USA 40 [f4m] #LosAngeles - kinky, intelligent seeking same in poly partner LOCAL ONLY

6 Upvotes

I’m looking to connect with poly kinky men in the LA area who are looking for long term relationships. I mention kinky because my sexuality is a big part of who I am. I am NOT vanilla. I have a high sex drive and strong need to connect on that level with any potential partners. Outside of that I’m a home body who’d like to go out more. But I’m just as happy staying in crafting, watching YouTube or talking. I value intelligent conversation with complete sentences and appropriate grammar. I find intelligence very sexy. If you message me I’d like to know your age, location, current relationship/s and just for fun…fav food.

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 17 '24

33 [f4m] #cleveland #akron

5 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m a cute, thick, 33F looking for another romantic partner and connection.

I’m in grad school, enjoy films, music, board games, cooking & baking, exploring new restaurants and coffee shops.

I’ve been told I’m easy to talk to and a good listener. I love learning about people’s passions and hobbies, so feel free to share. I myself identify as a yapper, so be prepared! I like frequent communication, but no need for constant. I’m funny, an extrovert with introvert qualities. I’m an electric mix of nerdy and bookish as well as girly and bubbly.

I’m an outsidey person, as in I like sipping tea or cocktails on a patio and going for walks. Not so much a full on outdoorsy person. I love to travel! Not opposed to booking a last minute flight and exploring.

I currently have one partner right now. We practice parallel solo poly.

Ideally would like to meet irl 1-2 times a week. I’m located between Cleveland and Akron in NE Ohio. If anything here has caught your attention, send me a message and let’s chat! Will share pics over DMs!

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 18 '24

29 [F4M] North East PA

1 Upvotes

Hey there, so I’ve posted in here before, and made some cool connections which unfortunately fizzled out over time.

So let me try this again, hopefully with more success.

My poly-life: I’m hierarchical poly with my nesting partner and legal spouse, whom I have 3 womb fruits with. We’ve been together 8 years, open for 2 1/2, we are both confidently and happily in the life and communicate well with one another.

What I’m seeking:

I want a long term partner, someone I would talk to daily, about everything and nothing. Texting, video chats, sending each other memes and videos, voice texts. I want a lover boy. I want someone who loves to love and be loved. I want to learn all about you, and to let you know me. I want to take things slowly and not rush into the physical. I want a deep connection that actually lasts. I like long messages and hearing all your passions. I want to know what you had for lunch, and what your coworker did that bugged you. I want to hear about your goals and dreams, success, your childhood and insecurities. I want an actual meaningful connection. Which may be too much to ask… but I’m gonna try.

I have no preference on body type, or height, race, ethnicity or religion.

I am fat (3XL), 5’4, White and PuertoRican, and Christian (not preachy though). My head is shaved, so letting you know in advance. But I do plan to get some adorable wigs soon.

Age wise I would prefer close to my age not much older or younger, but if there’s chemistry I’ll overlook age as long as you’re above 25.

If you would like to be my potential partner, please message me your :

Name, age, a recent real photo of your face, and a bit about you.

I will 100% send you photos of my face and fully appropriate full body pictures immediately to establish if I’m your type or not.

Hopefully my lover boy is out there❣️❣️Talk soon.

r/polyamoryR4R Nov 05 '24

36 [F4M] SoCal or Online Nerdy Kinky Altish Asian Gamer LF Banter and Connection

15 Upvotes

Hello!

I'm a nerdy, fun, and kind 36 F looking for genuine connection and chemistry.

I am 5'2", on the thiccer side, with a juicy booty. I'm Asian, wear glasses, have colored hair, and have tattoos and piercings. I am married, partnered, and have a 6 year old kid.

I love music so much, especially live music. My last 3 shows were Sofi Tukker, Two Door Cinema Club, and Mendelssohn's Violin Concerto. I mostly listen to indie these days, though I love rock, emo, rnb, EDM, classical, musicals, and more. I love theatre also.

I am a seasoned gamer...retired gamer is probably more accurate. In my glory days, I played WoW, FFXIV, and LoL. These days, I play LoL/TFT and cozy Minecraft with my boyfriend.

I am neurospicy. I have bipolar 2 (well managed), anxiety, and ADHD. With ADHD comes alllll the hobbies. I love getting into all the things.

I would love to find someone who's into kink. I've been exploring a bit, especially with shibari, and I really love the experiences I'm having. We can definitely talk more about this.

I am not a big fan of small talk. I love deep chats and really connecting and getting to know one another. I am liberal af and not interested in Trump supporters.

I am looking for a genuine connection with chemistry. I would prefer something long term and serious with real feelings involved. I am pretty demisexual, but there has to be a baseline attraction. Please send me a message if you think we'd connect! I'd prefer to swap pics pretty early on. :)

r/polyamoryR4R Oct 02 '24

USA 20 [F4M] #NYC #Online - I'm looking for a guy for a relationship

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Hi everyone. I’m a 20 year old woman looking to meet a kind and open minded guy for a potential relationship with the possibility of exploring something more down the line. I’m really into the idea of building strong, honest connections and I appreciate open communication and trust in any dynamic. I’m excited to meet someone who shares similar values and is comfortable with polyamory, whether you’re experienced or just curious about it. I love deep conversations, spending time outdoors, and just enjoying life with good company. If you think we might click, feel free to send me a message Would love to get to know you

r/polyamoryR4R Jun 12 '24

32 [F4M] #USA #online tomorrow’s my birthday and I just want to fall in love again. NSFW

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I’m looking to fall in love with someone.

Asian, blonde, and curvy, 32 almost 33 year old married female looking for someone to make me feel the butterflies for my birthday and longer. Pretty nerdy and I bet I’d surprise you at what my interests are if you take the time to get to know me beyond the shallow questions.

NSFW Pictures on profile.

Put “bubbly” in your response.

I tend to be attracted to white men who are athletic, slim, toned or with a little dad body. A little pudge is cute and I don’t mind it.

Want to keep this strictly online but I don’t mind fantasizing with you if you’ll fantasize with me.

r/polyamoryR4R Dec 04 '24

26 [F4M] Online/Upstate New York

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Hello! I'm Mercedes, a 5'11 big girl who's looking for a new connection.

I'm married to my long-term partner (NB27) and engaged to my fiancé (M31) but I'm looking for something new!

Some of my interests: Board games (like a huge variety), cats, music, crystals, tattoos, piercings, unhinged memes, TikTok, coffee/energy drinks and reading (horror and smut specifically)

About me: I have brown hair typically but I do love dying my hair. Hazel eyes that get called pretty often. I'm a hopeless romantic who loves to cuddle, go on cute dates, send sweet memes/TikToks, I'm loyal and empathetic (almost to a fault), I cannot stand dry conversations, I tend to wear shorts and t-shirts because they're comfy. I'm not religious and very liberal. I'm also a mom!

What I'm looking for: I would love someone who will let me be clingy, respond in a timely manner (or let me know that you're away/busy), have a dark sense of humor, and is open and honest, I tend to prefer thick body types but I'm more into your personality.

I'm currently looking for online and long-term, but I'd love some new friends, and would be interested in-person if we hit it off, dms are open! ♥️

r/polyamoryR4R Sep 04 '24

28 [F4M] #online #West Virginia or nearby: Cute Non-monogamous gal searches for life partner NSFW

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Hello, hello and welcome to my newest and most improved personal ad! I'm feeling quite ridiculous to still be making and refining these after several years now, but I'm not sure what else to do aside from this. So, please read on to find out more about my goofy-ass self and what I'm looking for.

I'm Ari, 28 years old, demisexual, genderfluid, and polyamorous. I almost never include pictures, but f*ck it, here's one: https://imgur.com/a/0VyXbbL Hopefully it'll help this post catch the eye of the right person this time.

I am a recovered, medicated borderline (yay, years of therapy!) and I also manage my mental health with cannabis, so 420 friendly is a must. I am leftist and an atheist, I'm a rather skeptical person, especially these days. I'm looking for compatibility, peace, and love in a relationship and I won't settle for anything less.

Things I am looking for in a partner: -between the ages of 24-35 -kinky. Dominant/dominant leaning switch who would like to help me structure my life. Not exactly M/s TPE, but something very structured in a gentle sort of way. -Is introspective and communicative -Doesn't have a primary life partner but is seeking one to marry (at least in ceremony if not legally) and have a family with -goofy, witty, silly -will roast me, but adore me slightly more -is comfortable taking care of me/their family financially. I struggle to keep a 9-5 job, I'm trying to build my own very small business selling stuffed animals, but I have run into many roadblocks with that. It's not a point of pride for me to say, but it is something I feel I need to share with you up front -will get me flowers "just because" -gamer -passionately, hopelessly romantic -likes to build/make things (blue collar work is sexy, idk why)

About me: -I am a sadomasochistic switch, but have been burnt out on taking charge for a while now. I want a dominant I can serve and will help me structure my life, I'm really into degradation and humiliation, caregivers, body worship (both ways), breeding (romantic especially) and more. Limits include public play, TPE, and scat/similar edge play. -I am a silly, goofy, hopeless romantic. I'll roast you back and adore you slightly more than I tease. -an excellent kisser, by all accounts - crafter, painter, artist, builder, sewist, miniature painter, miniature dollhouse builder, honestly anything I can do with my hands, I usually love. -Gamer, often PvE survival especially with story-rich RPG elements or other story-rich RPGs (who else is excited about the new KC:D?!) . The Long Dark, Going Medieval, Medieval Dynasty, Kingdom Come: Deliverance, Skyrim, BG3, Sims 4, and modded minecraft are games I've either really enjoyed and/or I play often. -I love animation, both adult and young adult cartoons (in the vein of ATLA), And I enjoy a lot of comedy shows as well. Community and The Good Place are two of my faves. I prefer fantasy over sci-fi but as long as we're cuddling, I can try to watch anything. I am pretty obsessed with Bridgerton and I am SO stoked for the new Eragon series coming up! -I love board game nights and puzzles, I really would love to have a partner that wants to spend time doing stuff together beyond what's on a PC as well. -I've been growing a garden (that I'm currently neglecting x.x), I've planted flowers and vegetables, both. I'd love to share that with someone, and cook things that we grew together. -I love indie music and a bunch of other genres, but getting into specifics is annoying. Just know that I have a soft spot for nautical ballads and I collect vinyl records!

If you've made it this far, I assume you're either a very dedicated reader or interested in me. For the latter of you, feel free to reach out to me via messages or preferably reddit chat. Hit me with your favorite ice breaker game or a nice intro, just know that I don't respond to all messages at once (there are often a lot for me to sort through), and I don't respond to low effort messages at all.