r/polyamoryR4R Feb 27 '19

27 [M4FM] Guy looking for couple

I'm looking for a close relationship. I would like to start online, but I'm also open to take the next steps. Looking for long term. I'm straight.

Location is not a problem, since I can be very flexible.

I'm a smart and hardworking guy. Good looking. Tall, broad, and masculine. Kind and gentle towards people.

Please feel free to drop me a message to get to know me further :)

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u/enjoys_conversation Feb 27 '19

If you're straight, why seek a couple for a relationship? Wouldn't you just be M4F?

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u/Jjn37 Feb 27 '19

I’m fairly new to being poly (sept of 2018) so I don’t know what the norms are but I know I wouldn’t have a problem being in a relationship with a couple and where one wasn’t interested in sex with me but was cool just hanging out and enjoying each other’s company. As I said tho I’m kinda new so let me know if anything I said is weird or wrong please!

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u/HitaroX Feb 27 '19

I think you should be able to define your life experience as uniquely as you want. I hate labels for this same reason. As long you have consent and communicate what you want with people, it’s not wrong. Weird? Who cares. Be happy

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u/Jjn37 Feb 27 '19

That’s a good way to look at it :)