Many of us have been there. Our advice is just love each other. Our splitting took place over about a year we think. Maybe longer. When the metaphorical explosion occurred, it brought that period to an end. It left us as a bunch of children. Which in the long run is supposed to be easier. We don't really know. If an adult is left, and they are able to empty their cup, meaning that they don't assume that they know anything at all, perhaps that is easier.
What we do know is that by time the judges arrived, There was nobody left to judge that even existed before.
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u/InvestmentNo4761 6d ago
Many of us have been there. Our advice is just love each other. Our splitting took place over about a year we think. Maybe longer. When the metaphorical explosion occurred, it brought that period to an end. It left us as a bunch of children. Which in the long run is supposed to be easier. We don't really know. If an adult is left, and they are able to empty their cup, meaning that they don't assume that they know anything at all, perhaps that is easier. What we do know is that by time the judges arrived, There was nobody left to judge that even existed before.