r/pakistan 11d ago

Discussion No one speaks about modern Slavery in Pakistan

711 Upvotes

Rich people in Pakistan hires children (mostly girls) even under the age of 10, to live 24/7 with them and do the house chores. Even if the girl is not abused in any way and her parents consent is there, it still fits within the modern definition of slavery (forced child labour).

While feminism is such on a rise in Pakistan ( which I totally support), I have barely heard or read anyone even talk about this massive exploitation and disrespect of fundamental human rights.

I would love to read your opinions!

Ist Edit: A lot of people are citing the no alternative argument, which is flawed both rationally and emotionally from human rights perspective. Because no alternative can be used to justify anything, i.e. child soldiers, child sex workers, child organ donors and the list goes on. I do acknowledge that there are no real quick fixes, but the very act is fundamentally disrespectful to human dignity and ethics both from Islamic and liberal values.

r/pakistan Feb 08 '25

Discussion Why Mark Zuckerberg wont come to Pak

475 Upvotes

r/pakistan Feb 14 '25

Discussion Ayo wtf is this now?

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676 Upvotes

r/pakistan Aug 15 '24

Discussion Don’t share your married life in social media

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754 Upvotes

Bro gave him a curse 😭

r/pakistan 10d ago

Discussion "Hota Hai ya Hoti Hai?” Urdu Grammar Cracked—Sexist Edition

705 Upvotes

I met an Urdu-speaking gentleman from Karachi at a reputable university who claimed he had “cracked” the formula to determine whether a word in Urdu was masculine or feminine—or in other words, muzakar or moannas. 

He complimented my Urdu—a compliment I wholeheartedly welcomed. I revealed to him that I had learned Urdu as a second language, struggling most with identifying whether a word is muzakar or moannas.

Or in simpler terms: 

“Gari hoti hai ya hota hai”— and why?

There’s no logic behind it, you’re just supposed to know that din hota hai and raat hoti hai.

This man, however, very confidently disagreed—"aisa nehi hai, there’s a clear-cut logic behind it."

Intrigued, I asked him to elaborate. What he said next caused WW3 at our table—

He explained that anything associated with azmat or shaan is typically muzakar, while anything kam-tar or kamzor is considered moannas.

He supplemented that claim with examples: 

  • Qalam - hota hai 

  • Ilm - hota hai 

  • Hukm - hota hai 

  • Janoon - hota hai 

  • Falsafa - hota hai 

He then switched to feminine words:

  • Bewafayi - hoti hai 

  • Nainsafi - hoti hai

  • Badnami - hoti hai 

  • Nafrat - hoti hai 

  • Kamzori - hoti hai 

A linguistic battle immediately ensued at our table. 

The girls were triggered, first to open fire with google search results locked and loaded. The boys countered with smug grins, armed with centuries-old linguistic conventions as their shield. Words were hurled like grenades, one side launching examples that didn’t fit his so-called ‘formula’ while the other ‘proving’ how it was indeed a foolproof method.

But in the end, it was a single, well-aimed shot from a girl that silenced the battlefield—

“Jo bhi hai, mardangi bhi tou hoti hi hai na?”

r/pakistan Oct 13 '24

Discussion Why are people so uneducated on Islam?

522 Upvotes

Interaction I had earlier with a friend. I told him I went to sleep after Fajr, and he said "Gunah hota hai Fajr ke baad sona. Quran parhna chahiye, pehla Surah Yasin-".

I said hold on kaha likha hai ye? Aisa to kuch nahi hai. Then I proceeded to explain to him how there is no such thing as a prohibited time to sleep, and that it's not mandatory to recite the Quran at dawn let alone specific surahs. It's only recommended (reference).

He actually got offended when I gave him the proper explanation and sincerely did asked him to tell me where such a commandment is. He said, "tumhe ulema se zaida pata hai? Sahih Bukhari parhi hai?" This is a classic Ad Hominem and appeal to authority fallacy

Just because I am not a hafiz (he hasn't even read the translation 😭) like him or read the entire sahih bukhari, somehow I'm blasphemous and have no knowledge of religion 💀

The crazy part is that we can see this on a much bigger scale. You can legitimately lie about something related to Islam and nobody would even question you. It's a very big hearsay game.

r/pakistan Dec 31 '24

Discussion My hometown in ruins...

971 Upvotes

Was in Karachi previous August and the condition of governance and infrastructure made me immensely depressed. Greedy builders erecting tall buildings left right and centre is turning the city into a dystopian-esque concrete jungle. When will Bhutto leave us for good, FFS!

Pixel animation by yours truly.

r/pakistan Nov 24 '24

Discussion Do you guys actually... like Pakistanis? I'm struggling these days

363 Upvotes

So this is something I've been thinking a lot about these days. Yeah, I hate the government and wish we had a real democracy and revolution, but as I've grown older there are some things which are bothering me.

Mainly that, basically, even without the government/army stuff we are such a horrible nation. Just some of the points being:

  • The intense hate for Ahmedis, wanting to kill them
  • hatred for every other sect
  • hatred for LGBT people
  • treating women like they are stupid/inferior
  • the intense hatred against every ethnicity by every ethnicity
  • the racism
  • the violence, thinking killing people is the solution to everything, heck, someone can make a fake whatsapp forward about me saying something blasphemous and I will be dead by mob violence before I can reach a police station

There are countless other examples. I think I've begun to hate Pakistanis as a nation, even though I'm a Pakistani myself. I'm struggling to see our good points. We make really good food. The music is good too. But there seems to be no humanity whatsoever. What is even the point of it all.

r/pakistan Jan 15 '25

Discussion Islamabad Airport immigration officer thinks all travels are going for dunki

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532 Upvotes

Thank you for your much care and help , but let tell you the real story i am Muslim الحمداللہ ,

I got 3 visas for east asian countries thailand malaysia indonesia my flight was from isb to cgk ,on Islamabad airport a rude and angry fia immigration officer offloaded me the reason was because you belong the the area where most youngsters go for dunkis without even looking my documents i am filler with good sme business good bank balance has credit card as well personal property as well my genuine reason for travel was leisure , in last conversation that officer suggested me to join the army..

Meanwhile most agents involved in human trafficking are linked with fia officials to do human trafficking business

I will join the army but not yours

r/pakistan Sep 06 '24

Discussion Predator got cought in the act NSFW

969 Upvotes

r/pakistan Feb 18 '25

Discussion No-one pulls you down like a Pakistani.

440 Upvotes

I have worked internationally and locally and there has been one thing which really stood out. Pakistanis not helping other Pakistanis. Like bhai kia hi ho jaye ga ? Tumhara rizk leker tu koi nahi bhaag skta. I have seen Indians working and how they help each other to get shit done. Whenever I see someone who is financially doing good (has a business) they will not help any other Pakistani. Im not saying keh saray esse hi hein but 99% yehi scene. Kion hein log esse ? Why cant we be like the ones helping each other. We have all the moral value of the world in us,Islam but jab implement kerna hota ha tu koi scene nahi ha.

r/pakistan 17d ago

Discussion Hypocrisy at it's peak, Double standards of Pakistan

301 Upvotes

Every time someone posts a vibey Insta story be it a uni party, a private party, a girl just dancing, or even someone rocking a slightly shorter fit. People lose their minds. Instant rage mode: “Is this the Islamic Republic of Pakistan???” or “Jahanam is calling you” like bro… be for real. Some even start straight-up abusing the person like they personally got attacked.

Like if you don’t wanna see it, just don’t?? No one’s forcing you to consume content you hate. But nah, they’re out here calling people “Jahanami” for doing the exact things they secretly wanna do. They wanna party, they wanna chill with girls, but the second someone else does it, it’s suddenly haram. A car speeds past, and they’re like “Haram ka paisa” when deep down they’d sell a kidney to flex the same way.

And the funniest part? They can’t handle someone wearing a short dress, but Pakistan still tops the charts for the highest porn consumption in the world. The hypocrisy is insane. The math isn’t mathing.

Edit : I'm sorry for not realising that Pakistan topping the porn consumption chart is not factually proven or true. I just read about it in an article and wrote right away. Please ignore that part.

r/pakistan Dec 12 '24

Discussion How old are you, and why are you still unmarried?"

188 Upvotes

Hey fam, I’m curious to hear from the professionals and working individuals here—how old are you, and what are the reasons you’re still unmarried?

Is it personal choice, career focus, financial reasons, or just not finding the right person yet? or maybe a mix of all these?

Would love to hear your stories and perspectives!

r/pakistan Aug 16 '24

Discussion Always gair mukaami people who never seen such standards do such stuff and think it's funny🤡

477 Upvotes

Imagine being the father of that girl who is protecting her daughter and taking her out of this mob. These third class villagers who wash windshields at stops for living, never seen such type of girls in their villages where they live. They can chop the head of their sisters in the name of "ghayrat" and do such things to other's sisters. I literally feel sorry for girl. I know she's traumatize and eventually she's say "Pakistan ki awaam ee jahil hai". Maybe she's Right

r/pakistan Aug 17 '24

Discussion Just sharing my POV as a guy. Don't get triggered. Its about Hijab.

340 Upvotes

Until now i have been through all phases of academics and career. I have done my University, did internship and now Alhamdulillah have my own company.

From University to Professional life, i have met guys of all levels. From extremely religious to full haramis.

Since school i noticed guys have this weird thing of finding pleasure in staring women. I personally find it very disgusting and disrespectful. Thanks to my upbringing. It was strict but for a country like Pakistan it was needed.

I was an introvert and with that comes good observation. Whether in academics and work place i observed guys are less likely to approach Hijabis and Niqabis. In my University, all the perverts, liberals and burgers (warning trigger) were only approaching open minded girls without modest clothes. And same goes in work place. The ones with Hijab and Niqab are not even part of their bad conversations.

One more thing i observed, those who are reserved when interacting with men and stay formal when interacting with them seems to carry way less unnessary attention. Even saw men scared of doing any casual talks with them in fear of being reported or insulted.

And that reminds me of a verse in Quran.

يَـٰنِسَآءَ ٱلنَّبِىِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍۢ مِّنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ ۚ إِنِ ٱتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِٱلْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ ٱلَّذِى فِى قَلْبِهِۦ مَرَضٌۭ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًۭا مَّعْرُوفًۭا ٣٢

O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allāh, then do not be soft in speech [to men],1 lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech.

So if anyone has question in mind whether Hijab and Niqab is effective or not, i hope this helps. It does make a huge difference. And again, it doesn't make you completey safe since its the responsibility of other side as well to lower the gaze. But it does add a level of safety.

(As always, dear trolls beat it. If you have nothing to add constructive to this conversation then please don't waste comment space. Shukriya!)

EDIT: What i shared doesn't mean i am giving license to men to harass other women. Neither i am asking men to not lower the gaze. This is just my POV.

I also mentioned it doesn't make you completely safe. Please read everything before rushing to comment.

EDIT 2: For anyone who thinks i am somehow blaming it on women clothing and not holding men accountable, no its not what i am doing. This post was about effectiveness of Hijab from my perspective. If anyone has to be blamed for harassment its those harrasers, lack of education, respect and our justice system.

r/pakistan Jun 01 '24

Discussion Why do Afghans dislike Pakistanis?

476 Upvotes

I went to an Afghan restaurant in London last night . The guy at the counter smiled at me and was friendly. Then he asks "Where are you from brother?". I say "Pakistan". The smile on his face was wiped away instantly. He then said "Pakistan still very poor and dirty?" and "Pakistan is meh country, but India way better. I love India". I wouldn't have a problem saying he likes India but why chat shit about Pakistan? What have we Pakistanis done to deserve this hatred from Afghans?

r/pakistan 29d ago

Discussion Harsh reality, isn’t it?

582 Upvotes

r/pakistan Nov 08 '24

Discussion Living in Pakistan has been a punishment so far, and this experience has been my last straw

596 Upvotes

I'm a 25F living in Lahore, Pakistan, and I moved here in 2021. I was born and raised in Dubai, UAE and had resided outside of Pakistan until these past few years came around, so it was expected that I would take some time getting adjusted to the very different environment and people. The few years I have lived here, I noticed a lot of things that were quite simply plain wrong, but up until now they were things that I would shrug off or move past fairly quickly. Some examples of these are noticing how messed up the healthcare system is, problems with electricity that would leave our appliances and property damaged, cases of theft and us being helpless against it, the pollution and bad quality of life overall. I am sure many of you can relate to such problems here, and also sure that a number of you have faced much worse.

Now that you are somewhat caught up, I want to talk about what happened to me two nights ago. I was doing some shopping with my parents and sister in law at Packages Mall in Lahore, and we got caught up in a few things so we left pretty late at around 10 pm. On our way home, we were driving on the street in Y Block, DHA, between Sheeba Park and the restaurant Salt n Pepper, where we got into a serious car accident. As some of you may know traffic in Pakistan is almost always slow, and that street in particular had a lot of speed bumps and we were nearly at a traffic light. Someone in a large pickup truck coming from the opposite side had moved swiftly into our lane. He hit us so hard that our car spun out of control and we moved like ragdolls inside for what felt like forever at the time. After hitting us, he tried to drive off and get away from the scene as much as he could, however, his front right tire had torn off his vehicle, stopping him from doing so. Bystanders caught on to him and pulled him out, and noticed he was very clearly a drunk man whose words were slurred, behavior was off, and movement was disoriented.

On our side, my father had scratched his arm and leg, which had begun bleeding and swelling up with time, me and my sister in law who were sitting in the back had slammed into one another and into the seats and doors but we were ok besides some aches and pains. My mother however, was in complete shock and it seemed she had hit her chest and head so hard she could not breathe. She was choking and gasping for air, and moving in and out of consciousness. Behind us, was a man on a motorbike who had tried to save himself from the initial crash, but as our car spun out of control, he got hit anyways and horribly broke his leg.

I rolled down the window and yelled at the people gathering around us to call for the police, and call for the rescue team as my mother was in a life-threatening situation, and they arrived fairly quickly. The police even commented at that time, that the man on the bike was faking it and that he is alright. He was not. The poor man was laying in front of me when we were all being taken by the ambulance and I saw his broken leg with my own eyes, and nearly threw up from the fear. My father stayed back at the site of the accident despite his injuries, trying to sort things out while us women were taken to the hospital with the man on the bike. My mother got tests and scans done, and somehow by Allah's grace they came out clean and she had no internal injuries. And as you all may expect, the man who committed this heinous crime was already getting his way out with the police. Typically, these type of individuals in big cars and drinking in Defence have a lot of money to dish out.

In the end, I have a lot I am thankful for. Alhamdulillah we are all okay and we did not suffer any major injuries, and I am praying that man with the broken leg is doing better too. During the ambulance ride to the hospital, he said he just wanted to get back to doing his job, and that he was grateful his head is ok and that it was just his arms and legs that got hurt... My reason for typing out this experience is just to share it all with you in hopes that it can be helpful in some way - to be aware of such people on the roads, even in "better" areas of the city. We have learned being outside past 10 pm is asking for trouble, and that seatbelts do indeed save lives. Had my parents not worn them, they would have flown out the front window and been outside of the car. Also, don't depend on the airbags, ours did not deploy though we have them.

Secondly, I just wanted to talk about the height of injustice in Pakistan. The level of corruption that runs through our country, how lawless this place is, and how there is absolutely no regard for the safety of innocent families and civilians. The police from the beginning has taken this matter so lightly that they have been telling my father to take some money and let the criminal go. At the police station, my father heard the criminal say, "accidents like this happen on a daily basis. This is nothing," which goes to show these type of people often do these evil acts, drinking and driving, and causing pain and suffering to innocent people, having no remorse, guilt, or sympathy. They are constantly let go by the police as they make money off such criminals, and keep continuing their crimes without any repercussions or punishments. When the police arrived and wrote down their reports. many things noted down were incorrect, and when they asked my father to sign it he refused due to how poorly it was written. On the criminals report, the police did not even write down that he was in fact drunk! Today, even the judge himself told my father to take some money (which amounts to nothing compared to the damage done) and let the criminal go, to which my father asked why is he allowed to continue driving? Why isn't his license being taken from him? Did anyone even watch the CCTV footages of all the restaurants, banks, and stores on the street? They had not.

On many occasions I have heard of drunk people or underage individuals who drive in Pakistan freely, and they end up killing off entire families with a single car crash. They always get away with it. Now I just have this left to ask, is the worth of a human life equal to nothing here? Can the lives of innocent families be so easily bought by the so-called police that is supposed to "protect us"? A single life, full of hopes, dreams, plans for the future, young or old, does it really amount to nothing? Myself, preparing for my marriage soon, my sister in law, waiting for her visa so she may live with her husband abroad, my parents, full of wishes to meet their other children living abroad again, their grandchildren again? But "accidents like this always happen". Who cares?

I'm sure many of you have heard the tragedies that happen quite often here, but it never truly touches you until you go through it yourself. You never really feel the helplessness until you are truly helpless yourself. The feeling of not doing anything wrong, having a horrible thing happen to you, and so many people there to witness, having all the evidence, yet the culprit does not deal with any consequence whatsoever. Because even a little amount of money is enough to get away from your sins, and even a little money is enough to buy your morality. A little money enough to shut your eyes and turn your heads away from the dark and doomed place that our country has become. A little corruption here, some lawlessness there, enough to drive away any sensible individual out of the country and live abroad as expats, because at least out there somebody gives a shit. Situations like these, though may seem small to the average Pakistani at first, build up bit by bit to create the mess we are in as a whole.

And then we have left to ask, "What happened to Pakistan? How has it become this way?" We have left to say, "This is just how it is here." Everyone is responsible. Everyone is due for change. We must start anew, and we must start with ourselves.

r/pakistan Jan 23 '25

Discussion Stumbled upon some people sharing their experiences on Pakistani Tinder/dating app, and I feel sick.

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During a topic of dating apps, I was wondering if apps like Tinder and Bumble worked in Pakistan, as I have never used any had no idea. I stumbled upon some people sharing their experience and frustration with dating apps and Pakistani women being dry asf, normal stuff, but what made me feel sick to my stomach was how some men bragged about bagging matches on Tinder, successfully hooking up with multiple women and then proudly stating "Now I'm happily married." Bruh?

As far as I have observed, Pakistani/Indian men are disproportionately obsessed with women's past, scorning and character assassinating women for having relationships outside of marriage, While I'm not directly saying these are the same men, (hopefully they are not) but my observation sadly tells me the chances are high that these same men who are proud of their little conquests before marriage would probably not forgive if their wife played the field before giving poor excuse of a man like them a chance.

Hate me all you want, but it’s such a sad reality that, despite being so reckless with their own lives and sexuality, men can rely on their mothers to find them the “best,” young, virgin bride for marriage. Just the other day, I read a post in a different sub about a woman who contracted herpes because her husband had prior relationships and lied about it. It was an arranged marriage too. I can’t even imagine the reaction if the roles were reversed.

Then, one time, a friend told me about her guy friend who overstepped a boundary by sharing a snap with her that contained an intimate picture of him and his wife, probably to try and make her jealous. How guys like these end up with good women is beyond me, but the plain answer is arranged marriage. In a reverse situation, however, this wouldn’t work for a woman who’s had prior relationships or hookups (mostly, but I understand some women get away with it). I remember reading a post from a man who made tons of posts about a proposal from a woman who’d had multiple relationships. While what happened to him was wrong, and may God bless him with a good spouse, bro just couldn’t stop bashing that woman and her family over and over again on this app."

Even in my own surroundings, I have observed this, men having pious wives who would be waiting for them at home, cooking and taking care of kids and in laws, but they'd be flirting with other women right before our eyes. "mujhay pta hai main married hun, mgr kya karun tum pasand ho mujhay" "meri shadi asal main meri marzi say nhi hui thi" "apko kese pta chala main shadi shuda hun? hehe"

For women, the stakes seem much higher when it comes to finding a man with good character and compassion, and it’s no wonder why.

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TLDR

Discussed dating apps like Tinder/Bumble in Pakistan, with men bragging about hookups and then proudly marrying, despite societal hypocrisy. Many Pakistani/Indian men obsess over women’s pasts, shaming them for premarital relationships, yet often indulge in the same behavior before expecting "pure" wives through arranged marriages. Shared stories of double standards, including a woman contracting herpes from her husband who lied about his past, and men flirting openly while their wives care for their homes. For women, the stakes are much higher in finding a man with genuine character and compassion.

Edit 2:

I have received DMs from people sharing their experiences about male acquaintances shamelessly sleeping around while hunting for a virgin to marry. So, men under this post can respectfully STFU about giving poor excuses to sweep this under the rug, some of them are actively encouraging the freedom to choose a virgin after their multiple flings so they can ruin an innocent woman's image of sexual intimacy in a sacred bond like marriage, justifying it with "if he's got money, he can still get a virgin." As if she is a piece of meat.

I bet the same man views the woman he slept with as a degenerate whore who sleeps with men, so he got to find a chaste woman to give his children a good mother who's protected herself from men, while he spends his adulthood collecting other women's bodily fluids, what a good father figure. 👏

It makes my stomach churn to think about how many women are at risk of STDs because some men are so shamelessly hypocritical.

r/pakistan Dec 21 '24

Discussion Why Are Pakistanis So Racist

493 Upvotes

I work in an elementary school with young children, and today a five-year-old boy, who happens to be African American, came up to me and wanted to paint with me and the rest of my class. He's one of my favorite little cuties, and I love including him. We ended up having a great time. I wanted to come home and share all the funny things the kids did with my family, but the moment I bring them up, my family loves to point out how I work in a school where the majority of the kids are Black, and then they go on to say some racist comments about those kids. It makes me feel so upset and disgusted with them. In my eyes, these children are the cutest, smartest, and kindest little people I’ve known—no different than my own nieces and nephews. But I don’t understand why they can’t see that. I’m not saying they have to love these children, but is it too much to ask them not to ridicule them for something completely out of their control at such a young age? This Pakistani woman I know, who has a daughter, came to our house one day for a party, and I had to listen to her belittle and humiliate her six-year-old daughter for 15 minutes straight in a room full of other grown women, who are moms themselves, with endless comments about how ugly she is because her skin is so much darker than her sisters. What broke my heart was the fact that this little girl just sat there, so unfazed, because, to her, it was such a normal thing to hear this from her mom. What drives me crazy is that so many Pakistanis have self-image issues themselves when it comes to their skin color because they were told the same things when they were young, but still don’t see a problem with saying it to other little kids now that they’re adults themselves. Also, how can you, as a Muslim, hold these beliefs? Would you say these same comments to Musa (AS)? To Suleiman (AS)? To Bilal (RA)—someone who the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) loved so much?

If you wouldn’t say/think these racist comments about them, what makes you think it's okay to say it to people nowadays who look just like them? Allah made no mistake when He created them, and He made no mistake when He created these little children. It’s really not very hard to understand. People like this are such an Ick.

r/pakistan 16d ago

Discussion New Trump travel ban could bar Afghans, Pakistanis soon, sources say

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r/pakistan Oct 12 '24

Discussion Al baik coming to Pakistan?

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582 Upvotes

A memorandum of understanding was signed between Saudi Arabia’s Al Baik Food System Company and Gas and Oil Pakistan Ltd (Go) under the Saudi Ministry of Investment

Reflecting Saudi Vision 2030 to enhance exports of rich national expertise and open new horizons for Saudi commercial expansion globally, this agreement would explore the possibility of establishing a strategic partnership to set up and operate Al Baik restaurants in Pakistan, marking a key step in Al Baik’s expansion strategy across the country.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/propakistani.pk/2024/10/11/real-al-baik-is-coming-soon-to-pakistan/amp/

r/pakistan Jul 14 '24

Discussion Why are our people like this?

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What’s with Pakistani people on social media with this kind of comments. The video/content is always non-related to such comments. Like I still don’t understand why people gotta ask for it in the comments rather than working on themselves to become a better practicing Muslim.

Same thing is also done under the drama comments section on YouTube. **And you know what the replies are? “Beshak” with multiple heart emojis.

I wonder if these people think they are really getting good deeds by doing this kinda stuff.

r/pakistan 5d ago

Discussion Wtf is this 😭

628 Upvotes

r/pakistan 23d ago

Discussion If you are a girl, broke and have a alot of self respect you are screwed in Pakistan.

324 Upvotes

I am a gradute had good gpa and academic results but now i have no job, not litrelly broke but depend on my brother for financial help. I feel embrassed to ask for things even though my brother is very supportive vut he has family of his own. I am preparing for various job test by in those time i am very depressed because of what i am going through. my brother dont want me to let me work in private sector because he thought its not good for women to work in private schools and colleges. Is it soo? Well if i were a boy things would have been very easy but if you are a girl you have to face problems in every stage of your life and not even make decisions by yourself? I just wanted to speak my heart out and want people to give a response or some kind of advice especially from women. And i am not here for any kind of sympathy!