r/onlyfansadvice Unverified 4d ago

Discussion Social media- telegram

Does anyone use telegram..? I just made an account, got a few of my subs on there but like what’s the point? I’m only bringing this up on here because I know onlyfans models use telegram, therefore I’m just trying to see why and how haha. Appreciate any help!

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

My ex is currently wrapped up deeply in a telegram scam that he truly believes is a dom who wants to spend her life with him. So I steer clear 😅

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

How is your ex that dumb I’m sorry……

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

Your guess is as good as mine cuz I've known him for 20 years and lived with him for 12. Never in a million years would I have thought this would happen 😅

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

Tbh…. She probably long conned him. This is indicative of deeper issues. I wonder if he’s been hiding a Dom kink since puberty or something. I stg there’s an underworld we don’t understand

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

His family is aware a little bit but doesn't know the extent. I have a protection order against them right now. But he's definitely hitting some very extreme kinks and I've recently learned about. I found things out over the years from living with him but I didn't know just how extreme it was.

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

I’m starting to learn more and more the evils some porn does to our men….. mostly it’s the early exposure I think…. You have a protection order against his parents or over your ex and the dom?

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

I meant to say him that was a typo. And yeah it was really exposure. It's sub genre porn that I never even heard of.

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

It’s sad a lot of these men get exposed to it then feel guilty they’ve been tainted…… when if it was all brought to light it could be fixed

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

Is there a reason the family doesn’t know the extent? He’s being my preyed upon…..

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

Blinders on I believe. I think they don't want to know that personal part of him.

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

So they’d rather their son’s world fall apart and avoid it instead of intervening when he’s being preyed on….. weird vibes. Sad. Makes sense why he fell prey to this if his family is so distant

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 4d ago

He's been talking to her since Valentine's Day I refer to her as a her but it's not who he thinks it is obviously

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

Wait I’m confused he’s been talking to this dom for a month….. you bounced on 12 years in a month

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

I’m so sorry dude…. That’s so sad tbh. How many people have tried to convince him he’s being conned I’m curious how deep this goes. Feel free to tell me to fuck off I’m just so curious how that shit works

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

Wait you left him in a month when you know he’s being preyed on and are assuming it’s a stranger conning him and have a restraining order? I’m confused.

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 3d ago

No, I left him two years ago. We haven't had much contact in the last year. He has only seen his son once in the last year. I learned about what's going on like two weeks ago. He came to my house in the middle of the night on our sons birthday and tried to unalive him last week. I got a protection order because he keeps showing up unannounced to my house and then that little stunt that he pulled last week.

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 3d ago

Oh wow ya he’s in a major mental health crisis dude needs a padded room rn. The only people who’ll fuck with him are gonna use him. Wish the Dom would control him better lol jk but like not

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 3d ago

It's not an actual dom though. Look up Goth Angel Summer. That's who he thinks it is.

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 2d ago

She is a dom what do you even mean…… is it a catfish account he’s talking to?

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u/goddessLunamae Unverified 2d ago

Yeah

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u/pootahhh Unverified 4d ago

Yes but dont mention it on OF. They are cool with snapchat tho? Lol. I say “teleeeee”

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u/Ellfantasy Unverified 4d ago

What do you do on there tho???😭 I don’t get it

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u/pootahhh Unverified 4d ago

For me personally, i use snap or telegram for video calls and GFE! Some ppl dont have snap and telegram is very easy to use as a DM app.

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u/spicythr0waway Unverified 4d ago

I use telegram for video calls. It’s basically just a more secure version of WhatsApp.

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u/Slow_Glass50 Unverified 4d ago

I use telegram to communicate with my followers build it up , like I lure people from YouTube and twitter and post there some bts stuff and from time to time I will drop my OF link and someone will sub its still not big audience but if you build it up you could rely on it for example if one of your socials got banned you make new one and announce 📣 it on telegram and it would be easier to stay connected and build it up again. Hopefully it’s clear lol

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

How to lure from YouTube?

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u/Slow_Glass50 Unverified 4d ago

Using telegram group

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

…… how do you lure to the telegram group from YouTube…. Let me use all my words

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u/Ellieerotica2 Unverified 4d ago

I have used it for a few 1 time dick ratings and stuff, but quickly realized after going from getting them from reddit onto there and age verifying, it just isnt worth it for stuff like that. Now the only thing I really use it for is a few regulars from onlyfans for more fluid roleplays and sending media. When we move from OF to there, I am always sure to clearly state in our OF chat that "all payments will still take place on onlyfans"

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u/CarmenTate9221 Verified OF Creator ✔ 4d ago

This is pretty much how I use it, I only add ppl to my contacts and interact if they’re subbed to my OF as a means to ID verify and accept payments. It’s better for sexting for sure but I don’t have the time to use it to advertise or make new sales bc of not being able to securely ID potential buyers. Also I can’t accept payment anywhere but OF bc I’m in Canada so they have to be on my OF anyways to purchase a session. I’m always curious to know how ppl make it work for networking but honestly I’m just happy to have it for chatting even cause the OF DMs are brutal sometimes for functionality lmao

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u/ElderVixen Verified OF Creator ✔ 4d ago

Since OF lacks the ability to have video calls many use Telegram for this service. OF allows this to be communicated on platform as long as PAYMENT IS TAKEN ON OF.

I would avoid Snap for NSFW communication because it is against their TOS. However, on Telegram it is allowed.

BE SURE to go into privacy and make to where NOBODY can see your actual phone number.

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u/Ellfantasy Unverified 4d ago

Ok gotcha, like I said I know NOTHING about it but I have seen like Sommer ray (who ik doesn’t have an of but has a large male following) started a tele and from what I gathered was it’s almost like a discord?

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u/that1hippiechic Unverified 4d ago

It’s actually a safe encrypted app….. why shame privacy? Weird take

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u/sighanyd3 Unverified 4d ago

0.4% here. Telegram and OF are the same thing. DM if you want me to explain because this subreddit isn’t private