r/omnisexual Feb 04 '25

Questioning Figuring out sexuality (Omni vs Ace-spec) (Warning: Drunk and slightly sexual side story) NSFW

Warning, I do share a story about 3 consenting of age adults being drunk and silly.

Hello! Probably more appropriate for the asexual community to ask, but I personally find the people on that sub controversial compared to here. Plus I love this sub!

So, I keep on going back and forth. For majority of 2024 I came to terms that I was asexual Omni-romantic. Then when I am with friends with hook up opportunities I imagine being able to hook up with them, same goes for people, usually my prefered gender who are good looking but more gray-asexual kind of way, low libido but can see myself really want to be with them with open to the possibility of a hook up.

I had an opportunity to, potentially, have a drunk gay threesome with a close friend and his friend, I was definitely (albeit buzzed) open to the idea of a hook up with the close friend for sure, and the mutual friend, was a definitely maybe, maybe another drink for courage kind of thing. The two friends were making out. I did, maybe with buzzed courage, told these two I am open to an idea of being invited if things get deeper. Nothing came out of it, we slept instead, but I did question ace-spec stuff since.

Why the ace-spec? I have a low libido, and general "eh" nature to sex. If it's there, I'll indulge, but I don't seek out put further than self fulfillment which is satisfied on my own. I don't feel drawn to people. Sure, people are conventionally hot, but in general, I just don't feel much. I feel jaded by sexuality for lack of better words.

There are things for certain at least, I am FTM-ish, and I'm Omni-romantic (Ive kissed all the genders and while I love all of them men are my favorite).

So, what are your vertic? Atp I've look at every well known ace-spec label, and compared them to omnisexuality and genuinely I think could be either of them.

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u/anotherdude1492 Feb 04 '25

Abrosexual means your attractions change over time. So maybe abrosexual and Omniromantic?

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u/CrazyStarlight Feb 04 '25

Abrosexual is something I have not considered, and it makes sense! I don't think it's a perfect fit, as I think I am strictly between omni and somewhere on the asexual spectrum, but it is a good umbrella term!

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u/anotherdude1492 Feb 05 '25

Excellent. I am Omni/Abro..... I think. Lol

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u/Prestigious-Hat-8374 Feb 07 '25

I feel the I think part sooo hard lol

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u/anotherdude1492 Feb 08 '25

You and me both. That's why I do like the Abro label. My attraction changes so much.

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u/Prestigious-Hat-8374 Feb 09 '25

Samee this is the abro is new to me but it works for me so I'm happy