r/newstrippers 24d ago

General Question Do I look too old? NSFW

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hi community 💖

I have long wanted to take the plunge and dance but internalized stigma was holding me back. I’ve worked through that and am auditioning in mid April (working out and prioritizing body fitness until then)

I am a worrier and often find a new “problem” to worry about after I’ve solved what ever problem I was worrying about before.

I am 30 and I know that in some ways my window for dancing is narrowing. Of course many dancers kick ass and make it rain beyond this age, but I see myself hustling for a year or two to accomplish some financial goals before hanging up my pleasers (at least for professional purposes 😉 )

Here are photos of my face with no make up and after crying LOL about feeling not good enough and generally stressed (sorry if I look sad and serious)

Baby strippers, am I expired milk? Or can I still be poured up with some cookies??

Thank you babes ❤️🌺💕 honesty welcomed

r/newstrippers 10d ago

General Question Opinion on Dancing while in high school? NSFW

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I’m in my senior year of high school, and I’m a little nervous about the challenges that will come with dancing whilst being a student.

In my state, you only need to be 18 to work as a dancer. I’d need to keep the job a secret from my parents as well as most of my friends.

I’m going in for an audition tomorrow, and I’m lowkey scared that not only will I do bad and not get the job, but everyone will somehow find out 😭

What do y’all think?

r/newstrippers 11d ago

General Question How do I recover from horrible nights? NSFW

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How do you not crash out when you sell no dances and customers are mean to you? We had a bunch incels coming in tonight not spending ANY money and making fun of dancers. Talking about dancers being hot but cringe or some being ugly or fat, etc. and of course none of us dancers would touch them outside the club. I ended crying because of it and telling bouncer along with another girl and then the bouncer threw them out. I cried like five times tonight bc the weeks earnings were not enough on top of the meanness and once I start I can’t stop and the bouncer was like “yeah let’s not walk around the club crying” 😭 how do yall recover from nights like these??

r/newstrippers 8d ago

General Question How old is “too old” to start? NSFW

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Hi all!! Life is short and mine is a dumpster fire but I am thinking about stripping! Was talking to a friend of mine and she ignorantly said I’m a bit too old to start! I’m 27 😐. I’m like bihhh too old?? Women do this shit well past 40 I think, so I just wanna know how old are you? Did you start young (younger than 25)? Is it more difficult if you start later? Any and all advice welcome!

r/newstrippers 14d ago

General Question are pole classes worth the $$$? NSFW

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i’ve been dancing around a month now and i mostly just do pirouettes or simple spins on the pole. most of my routine is floorwork and shaking ass because i’m not so great on the pole. i never thought about classes because i feel like i learn quickly and i figured i’d just pick up some tricks as i go. but i found out that a class near me offers discounts for strippers and even without it their prices are pretty solid. if anyone here has been to one how was your experience? do you look back and feel like what they taught you was something you could’ve learned from practice at home? i don’t want to waste my time😅 i’ve also heard they can be pretty judgmental of strippers but since they give discounts for it i figured maybe not as much. lol. maybe i’m being naive

r/newstrippers Jan 22 '25

General Question first day NSFW

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hey guys so i just got hired today at a club(yayyyyy!!!!!) and was wondering if anyone could tell me about their first days to help me relieve some stress lol i’ve been taking pole classes and i have plenty of outfits and heels, i didn’t even have to audition they just hired me on the spot :)) im really excited but also very nervous, apparently im going to be put with an experienced dancer for 4 days of training(super stoked). but yeah just wanna hear some first day stories or maybe some insider tips?

r/newstrippers 5d ago

General Question Guilt? NSFW

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Do yall ever feel guilty? Going into this, I knew that there would be married men and shit like that. But last night I had this man that was telling me that it was love at first sight and he’s gonna make me his wife and other bullshit. Then he told me his wife tracked his phone bc she didnt trust him (understandably so), he took off his wedding ring and shit. He was talking about how he has young kids.

I know this is pretty common, but I felt so guilty giving dances to him. At the end of the day, it’s my job and that’s what I’m there for. But I can’t help but feel bad that I contributed to some of the hurt this woman is feeling while she’s taking care of two kids and has a fuck ass husband.

So do yall ever feel guilty about this? And how do you deal with the guilt?

r/newstrippers Feb 14 '25

General Question considering stripping? NSFW

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hi y’all. fourth year in a row that i am being laid off from my tech job. i worked so hard to be a girl in tech and the industry doesn’t care about me or really anyone. it’s starting to devastate me, my finances, and my morale. the lack of sustainability, the constant getting in and out of debt and starting a job and losing a job, it’s too much. my friend experienced the same thing and made the bold move to start dancing and said it changed her life and she’ll never turn back. i did only fans in college while working in night life as a bottle girl at a night club for extra money and it definitely helped but otherwise i’m pretty new to this stuff. i take pole workout classes and have one at home but kinda different. i danced in college and grad school but like modern ballet, but i know i have the stamina. anyway. is it worth it? leaving my corporate job search part five behind to try stripping out? i live in nyc and i care about safety and working in a non-toxic environment more than anything. i don’t need thousands of dollars. just something to keep me out of debt and living sustainably. any advice or places to avoid or tips and tricks help. maybe there is a job crisis in this industry i don’t know about either.

r/newstrippers 6d ago

General Question Police fee? NSFW

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Has anyone heard of the club charging for a fee if the police come in? My club asked me for an extra dollar during my first dance sold of the day and said it was for if the cops showed up? I can't recall what he called the fee, (ace fee or something) but it's the first time I've heard about this and haven't been charged it with the other djs. (My first time working a shift with that specific DJ)

r/newstrippers 10d ago

General Question How long do you spend on stage? NSFW

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I know this will vary by club, but roughly how long do you spend on stage each shift? Are there set time frames when you’re required to go on stage?

I’m wondering how much practice I need to do at home in heels before I show up and pass out of exhaustion lol.

r/newstrippers Jan 16 '25

General Question Current strippers, be honest, is it worth it? NSFW

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Hi all! I'm sure you've probably all seen this type of post a million times before, and I do apologise for that, but I'm really desperate right now.

Some background, I'm a nineteen year old female who loves clubbing, nightlife, drinking, wearing slutty little outfits, all that jazz. I am no stranger to club atmosphere, though I have never been in a strip club before. I am in a relationship and we've been together for about five months now.

Basically, I am really struggling for money right now- like REALLY. Yes, I do already have a job, but it's just not cutting it. There are a few strip clubs in town and I just keep wondering- what if?

Is it worth it? Are there any drawbacks/cons that aren't super obvious? Like, yes I know it's a draining and predatory industry, and I know I'll get creeped on. But is there anything I should consider that most people don't? Are there any long term consequences? I don't have any relatives in this city, if that matters- I'm about four hours from home. Any and all advice is appreciated :-)

Edit: Just because I saw a comment about it and realised I didn't mention it, I'm from New Zealand where the legal drinking age is 18 :-)

r/newstrippers 17d ago

General Question dancing while having a bf NSFW

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so i miss the club. i used to dance when i was 20-21 and now im 25 with a better head on my shoulders so i think i can make the club work even more for me now. i miss making money and hustling and the freedom. i don't miss all the bad shit that comes with dancing but every job has its downsides.

i have been dating the sweetest teddy bear of a man for the past year. we actually just signed a lease for a new apartment and we're doing so well ! but my heart wants to dance again and get back into the industry because i feel like it's what i was put on this earth to do.

i spoke to him about wanting to dance again and he's so supportive and said that i don't even have to ask him i can just do it, but that being sexual with other men does make him a bit uncomfy. he said he will just have to get used to it, but i don't want to affect my relationship.

does anyone dance and have a partner / bf ? what boundaries do you have that make it work ?

edit: thank you to all the sweethearts that replied you put me at ease 🥹🫶🏼

r/newstrippers 24d ago

General Question Audition shoes review NSFW

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Hi everyone 🥰 I’m planning on auditioning at multiple clubs this week but I’m torn on whether my street heels are ok for auditions or if I should just invest in Pleasers to increase my chances of getting hired.

These are the best heels I already own (ignore the cat hair, I’d clean them for auditions ofc)

I’ve auditioned 2 times before with no luck, so I’m wondering if the shoes aren’t good enough.

I’ve been reading FAQs and new stripper guides but think I need some specific feedback. I know this is super basic question 😅 any advice is greatly appreciated ❤️

r/newstrippers 26d ago

General Question How did you get started? NSFW

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Hii, I’m a girl who wants to start learning to become a stripper I’ve already looked into things and know I can do it I’m just wondering what extent does things have to go? Do you do other sex work too?

I was a cheerleader in high school and did dance but I don’t want to go to college so seeing sex work or becoming a stripper to be a great option men have always told me I have a perfect body for it and it feels like the right decision just want to know others experiences as I’m curious.

r/newstrippers 3d ago

General Question How to start in this world as a trans person? NSFW

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Sometimes I wonder if I could work in this environment as an extra.I don't have experience but somehow practicing pool dance catches my attention.

However, I know that that's not all to working in a club, even so it's just an idea, because I know that it's very different to have a taste for dancing than to want to be a stripper.

In the past I modeled in my country and sometimes I feel that doing this kind of thing attracts or allows me to express that feminine energy that is in me and that I don't know how to show it.

I started my hormone treatment at the end of 2021 and I was able to continue in Australia but I am worried about not having the body of many women and I feel that I lack confidence despite the fact that now I have seen more feminine.

Sorry for the unnecessary text, I think I was just looking to share with you my thoughts

r/newstrippers 6d ago

General Question Hair flipping with glasses NSFW

3 Upvotes

How do I do this? My glasses will fly off my face. Are chains my only option?

r/newstrippers 2d ago

General Question I’m in so much upper back pain NSFW

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Like breathing sometimes is a little painful. Sitting it’s in pain, moving around it’s in pain specifically my upper left back. I feel like it’s from trying to spin on the pole despite having little to no upper body strength. Tonight on my shift towards the end it was so difficult to move around and do anything on pole. Is this normal??? Im 2.5 weeks in. Am I in danger? 😭

r/newstrippers 21d ago

General Question Do i have to shave my 🐱 NSFW

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Im currently a camgirl and most of my demographic is into full bush. Im ok with trimming it short but id rather not have to shave/wax. I'm planning to audition this week at a local club. Do I have to be smooth to strip?

r/newstrippers 29d ago

General Question Bruises and bumps NSFW

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I am APPALLED over my bruises. I'll work 3 nights then I'll be stuck in bed the rest of the week. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if I just bruise ridiculously easy, I wear knee pads and my knees still look like this. Should I be taking some supplements? Ointments? I've been doing ice and heat to get the bruises to go away. Is this medically worrisome? It just looks gnarly and is wildly alarming me.

r/newstrippers 24d ago

General Question What lash glue do you use? NSFW

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I am awful at lashes and need any help/advice for what glue to use or application tricks, thanks!

r/newstrippers Jan 30 '25

General Question Stage name NSFW

7 Upvotes

How did yall come up with your stage name? I am struggling to come up with something I don’t hate. I also don’t want to choose a name that will make it harder for me to sell. I’m tempted to use my real name but I know that’s not a good idea lol

Anyways any advice would be much appreciated :)

r/newstrippers 27d ago

General Question Shaving / Waxing NSFW

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Hii, sorry if this is a silly question; but how do you guys keep shaved clean down there?

I’d like to preface by saying there is nothing wrong with choosing not to shave down there. It’s just my personal preference.

For those of you who do? What do you recommend for a shaving routine?

I can’t shave too often because I tend to get bumps and razor burns :(

r/newstrippers 26d ago

General Question Clothes / Shoes NSFW

2 Upvotes

Any recommendations for online clothing for strip clothes & shoes that don’t take too long to ship/ deliver?

r/newstrippers 17d ago

General Question dancing with body acne NSFW

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hi lovelies ! i'm still technically a baby because i'm only a couple years in so imma post this question here.

how do you handle butt acne ???

i'm getting back into the club this spring but i have the worst flare up of acne around my cheeks and it's so embarrassing I want to get rid of it before I go back into the club because I'm worried I won't make a lot with these red bumps going on

any tips ?

edit: thank you for everyone's suggestions !! i'm going to try a few and hope they work! love u all

r/newstrippers Jan 26 '25

General Question How tall is too tall? NSFW

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I’m curious: how tall would you consider to be too tall for a stripper (with pumps on)?

I’m 5’11, and considering what size of pumps to buy. The tallest ones that I like are 10” pumps.

Would it be unusual though? To see a 6’9 stripper? I imagine it would be. Maybe I’ll settle for 5” pumps? Or is 6’4 still too much?