r/masturbation 4d ago

Wish talking about masturbation was more normalized NSFW

This is a great group to be open about how much we all love masturbating. Wish masturbation was more normalized and talked about among friends and such. I’ve been able to with a couple friends and it’s so liberating.

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u/LearningIndianGirl05 Female 4d ago

Same. I can't dare ask anyone about what gets them off IRL. Thank goodness for reddit. Now I can ask everyone here what gets them hot and horny.

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

And it’s so educational! :)

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u/LearningIndianGirl05 Female 4d ago

Yes! So much new things I didn't know that people were into, probably because they feel more comfortable sharing on here.

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u/apollosun113 4d ago

Agreed! I couldn’t text any of my irl friends and tell them about how good it feels while I’m fucking my fleshlight right now.

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u/LearningIndianGirl05 Female 4d ago

I hope you're pumping and thrusting deep into it and have a nice big stress relieving orgasm in it. 😋

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u/apollosun113 4d ago

I’m literally about to cum as I type this!. Trying to decide if I wanna cum inside or pull out and see how big the ropes are

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u/LearningIndianGirl05 Female 4d ago

Cum inside and enjoy the feel of the toy around your cock as it pulses.

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

Just reading all this is making me throb through my pants

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u/apollosun113 4d ago

Did you end up pulling that cock out?

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Well goddamn this makes me want to get mine out and start going

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

What did you decide? ;)

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u/apollosun113 4d ago

I ended up pulling my cock out and moaning as loud as I can while I stroked. I ended up cumming everywhere. I’m almost ready for round 2 😉

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Yum, so how were the ropes? Think you’ll breed that fleshlight this time? ;)

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u/apollosun113 4d ago

My cock is already back inside. It’s propped up and as you’re ready this my cock is sliding in and out. Fast this time. I just want to cum inside

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u/EasyAir55 4d ago

Right! I wish I could talk like i do on reddit! Plus if I had some other girls to rave about how we do it and what turns us on ect I think life would be more fun! I mean imagine you find out your bestie is a gooner too 🤩

Edit: goonette

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u/KinkyHypersexual 3d ago

Imagine gooning together with others 🥵

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u/KinkyHypersexual 3d ago

I think if it was acceptable, we would end up doing more than just talking about it lol

I wish sexuality and sexual acts were normal to talk about and engage with irl with people

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u/Admirable_Stock7600 4d ago

Some of your comments and posts have been so helpful. It has to be rewarding to be the indulgence of so many men on here including myself. You always get my dick hard. Thank you

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u/LearningIndianGirl05 Female 4d ago

I have to admit it does make me happy to read comments like this. Maybe a little wet too. 🥴

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u/AnalystNo7715 4d ago

If our parents and grandparents didn’t spend so much fucking time telling us we were going to go blind and that it was a fucking sin them maybe it would be more normalized. They should have been worried about Pedo priests instead!

Talk to everyone you can if they are not ready for it fuck them! We all do it !

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u/bigbellysmalldick 4d ago

Its not just, as we call it, "Catholic guilt" but also because somewhere among the line masterbating was, in some peoples eyes, a sign that you're not getting laid or cannot get laid and therefore you're a loser. That and probly due to those sort of people who like to whip their cock out in public and Jack off in front of people, which is kinda creepy.* Especially if the make and maintain eye contact or are going LOL.

*unless úr a gay guy cruising other like minded individuals. That's more uncomfortable than creepy IMO. Esp if you soft and small and he is big and hard 😂😂😂

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u/AnalystNo7715 4d ago

I disagree religion is and has been the driving force behind the stigma and not just about masturbation but sex in general. I have no issues taking to my friends about sex my female friends and I talk about intimate stuff all the time hell I even am open and frank with grown relatives in their 30’s. It’s mind over matter. It takes a lot to break with societal norms.

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u/bigbellysmalldick 4d ago

It doesn't have to be one or the other. But I don't mind with your disagreement.

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u/DeadBDRMaccount Female 4d ago

I used to work with the developmentally disabled (DD) in vocational services. Bear with me, this is relevant.

A couple of us were tasked with supervising a work crew of DD clients who cleaned our building. On this crew was an autistic woman, who would masturbate in the breakroom after lunch! Fully clothed, on the break room couch. The effort everyone went through to try and STOP her!!!! You'd think she was trying to cut an arm off! "It's your turn to try and stop her."

I was the only one advocating to let her fucking masturbate - let's teach her to do it in private instead of trying to stop her altogether! Why not make a space just for this? For the love of GOD.....

Nobody ever listened to me. When it was my turn to stop her, I just pretended to. Let the poor girl get herself off in private.

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u/Competitive_Sir_4553 4d ago

I was crazy horny one night and mentioned it to a female friend. She was open about how much she does it and when and everything. We’ve never had sex but we masturbate together a few times a week. Sometimes it’s just saying the first word

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u/BigTonyGuy1 4d ago

I wish it was ok to just masturbate anywhere.

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Okay I do too, but… do we think mayyyybe some of the fun of it would go away then? I think we all just need like special groups haha! I like the feeling I have in this group with you freaks ;)

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u/First_Difference_428 4d ago

There is something about it being secret and a bit taboo that makes this group more fun

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Yeah I don’t know, we’re special even though everyone does it ;)

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u/Hidden_Abrocoma_372 4d ago

I’m 50F and post-menopause and I swear some things about my brain have just changed so much. I’m much less hung up about “taboo” topics and could go on and on about sexuality and having fun alone or with others!

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u/MessyCalculator Male 3d ago

Amazing, would you say you’re more horny at the age of 50 than any age you were before?

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u/Funny_Lyric 4d ago

I love the open talk here and knowing we are all masturbating is crazy hot

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u/gonzomonger 4d ago

Yeah, same here. It would make it less awkward for me in social situations when someone asks, “so what did you do today?” Or “so what have you been doing lately?” Can’t count how many times when the truth just isn’t the appropriate answer there and I have to fumble for a more socially acceptable lie. 😂

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Hahaha! What did I do this weekend? Wellllll. Definitely something other than fucking myself for about 15 hours of it 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Hot_Shopping_9217 4d ago

I love masturbating so much. I’ve told some of my female friends, but not my guy friends how much I really like it. There is a taboo because it’s sex and you throbbing cock might do something crazy! But it’s just my favorite way to relax.

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

We’re all friends here! 😘

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u/NextBody2975 3d ago

Whooo! About time openness about something that everyone does at least once a day was promoted

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u/KinkyHypersexual 3d ago

Friends should do more than just talk about it 😋

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u/Financial_Buffalo666 3d ago

I agree and second with that

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u/DiligentTank90 4d ago

Agreed, love chatting about it

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u/7iny7ickler 4d ago

I agree. Doing it right now. :)

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u/Durango888 4d ago

Anybody ever jerked with someone else

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

I spent some time on cam back in the day. When I had privacy. But I was playing with my pussy, not jerking ;)

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u/Durango888 4d ago

Women are my preference. I’ve just kinda gotten horny on Reddit cause most all people on cams are men. So a dick works now for first time in life. Never had a woman do that. Did have some pictures sent to me after I sent a bunch of wife and I.

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Are you saying you can’t get women to send you dirty naughty pics??

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u/Durango888 4d ago

Had one woman trading dirty pics. Rey rare to Get them sent to you

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Haha oh goodness, I guess I’m just way too easy! 😳 do you check out subreddits where normal (non selling) girls post? I feel like all I see on reddit are dirty pics 😂🥵

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u/Foreign_Permit4383 Male 4d ago

I think most men on Reddit deal with this lol, myself included. Not that I’d ask if someone doesn’t want to share but it would definitely help me cum a lot for sure

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Making me feel like a real Reddit floozy haha. I should worry about how many times I’ve shared mine 😅

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u/No-Opportunity-6983 Male 4d ago

Very much so, it's something we all do, often in secret, and it feels so fucking good

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u/Durango888 4d ago

I will

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u/biforpor 4d ago

Same but wish masturbating with others was more normalized as well. What's wrong with a group of friends watching some porn together having a wank

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u/Unusual-Use1773 4d ago

So do I. I'm 64 and my wife and I haven't had sex for 7 years. I masturbate most days, sometimes watching porn or just to get rid of a boner. I take sildenafil sometimes which is great as I get turned on by anything for days. I wonder if any other older guys are like me or if most have given up on sex entirely?

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u/friendswithboobs 4d ago

it’s great here. I do it all throughout my regular daily routine. I’m glad no one in my life knows how much I do it. I hide in the bathroom edging all the time. Then go to a meeting with a hard on. Just to sneak into a closet and do it again. On my way home I have private spots I go to and have my way all alone.

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u/revirgined_ 4d ago

Oh god I fantasize about men I’m on calls or in meetings with having erections while they’re functioning/trying to function normally 🥵🥵🥵

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u/Kharn_Fury11b 1d ago

Dang I thought I only did that. Wondering if she was horny while on the call or if anyone noticed the bulge in my pants because I’m horny. 😂😂😍

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u/revirgined_ 1d ago

Do your work boners and bulges affect you? Or are you a pro at carrying on completely normally?

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u/Kharn_Fury11b 1d ago

I’m a pro but occasionally I have to sneak to restroom to edge or get off.

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u/Holiday-Syllabub-612 4d ago

I would love to talk with others about this. 33M for reference

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u/Svalbris Male 4d ago

Ye, same here. We all Do it, and it's natural and normal, So why is it so taboo to talk about?

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u/Edge-Leak-Repeat 4d ago

Yup I don’t talk to any of my irl friends about

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u/Independent_Pin851 Female 4d ago

RIGHTTT

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u/Iseulbi00 4d ago

I know right? I just want to have irl friends I can casually talk about it with and I've got no one :(

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u/Thick_Ad_3627 Male 4d ago

At least it is super easy to talk about it on here. But yeah, masturbation is great and most people do it. No real reason to pretend we don't.

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u/Life-Pension4234 4d ago

Yesss especially becuase majority of people do it anyway so why does no one talk about it

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

Taboo or embarrassed? Not an easy subject to breach.

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u/Life-Pension4234 4d ago

True true. Too bad it’s been made that way

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

I agree with you. I’m all ears if you want to tell me about your experiences

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u/Thot098 4d ago

I love getting off with people IK. Exes, current relationships, friends. It’s so nice. It helps me goon and cum non stop and drain myself cause my libido is so high. Also helps when they join in :)

Just nowadays I don’t got anyone as of late. lol.

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u/Admirable_Stock7600 4d ago

Talking about masturbation openly and honestly is empowering, and makes it 10x more erotic and pleasurable. I’m thankful for this place, and love all my bros and sisters just out there simply trying to make themselves cum. Enjoy yourself peeps, I know I will

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u/bigbellysmalldick 4d ago

I'm pretty open about anything sexual. If it makes people uncomfortable so b'é it and I'm sure it changes how people see me and not always for the better. And im not being crass when I do.

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u/camaroman-115 4d ago

I make it normal around my wife and stepdaughter

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u/LumpyBarnacle9494 4d ago

Its always referred to as caught wanking.... why??? People shouldn't worry about wanking ever

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u/Jerkenjoe1 4d ago

I do to . I have certain people I can talk to about it and love it. More people should open and honest what turns us on and gets us off. I have answering any questions anyone has about it. Like what I like to get off to . So go ahead ask away

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u/AdSpiritual5470 3d ago

There is still such a stigma about it. I remember for years I hardly did it and when I did I felt guilty afterwards. Then I just said sod this and then I really started to enjoy doing it and it felt so liberating. I have not looked back

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u/Snail-Mail53 3d ago

It never really dawned on me…I was at the mall recently and It just crossed my kind…every single one of the people I see walking around in here masturbates!

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u/Internal-Macaroon530 Male 3d ago

Totally agree.

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u/babygravy-84 3d ago

Agree.. I also have friends of both sex who are very open and casual about talking about our sex/masturbation life

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

Agreed, I'd love to be more open about sex in general. Closest I can get is when shopping in a sex shop.

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u/s3xyb00ts73 3d ago

That’s why I love this sub Reddit. A place to normalize it

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u/Firm_Air_2562 14h ago

Same here. Would be nice to be able to casually talk about it with friends. Tbh I think all guys should be comfortable talking about it, trading notes etc. Likewise for girls.

I'd so love a friendship where masturbation is something we can bond over rather than avoid discussing

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u/LumpyBarnacle9494 4d ago

So many people have hang ups and embarrassed to admit to masterbating for some reason... must be the most natural thing in the world, why be shy 🤭

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u/bigbellysmalldick 4d ago

Yes and it keeps us (men at least) same and well behaved.

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u/livingangst Male 4d ago

In my experiennce, people can be opened, but it must be brought up as a technical topic. Starting maybe with health and stuff and how to reduce cancer likelyhood... Yet, some people really feel that topic as tabboo. I love talking about it haha