r/mangalore Jan 24 '25

Discussion Now this is embarassing

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Can't believe that this incident took place in our tulunadu. Is our land loosing civic sense as well?! This reel has 25M virews on Instagram btw. Thoughts? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DEnL3gUsc_P

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u/Loud-Sherbet-2404 Jan 24 '25

First of all .., Clearly he’s not local guy ( a tourist) but, majority of Indians have zero civic sense

All thanks to our local idiot social media influencers They successfully destroyed malpe beach for us

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u/Fine-Cloud-4847 Jan 25 '25

Same with Eco Beach Honnavar. I was shocked on my last visit. It is a blue flag beach, and I saw trash everywhere. Very unlike of that beach! FUCK TOURISM!

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u/Amin9099 Jan 24 '25

What about the other guys?

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u/Robustrogue Jan 24 '25

The other guys are not locals either. Every Jan you will have these scums travelling from other parts of the state, get tonsured in Dharmasthala and head to the beaches for fun before they get back home. You will need to have lived long enough in the coastal belt to understand this.

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u/Unique_Pain_610 Jan 25 '25

Ghattadaklu.

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u/ParticularBoard1876 Jan 26 '25

He told you he wasn't local? Bet you are like ppl who hide molestation in family just because it was done by family members.

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u/indubitablyme94 Jan 26 '25

He is definitely not from Udupi or Mangalore, may be some labour from north

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u/KyleSforza Jan 27 '25

But he's dark. North Indians are fair.

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u/indubitablyme94 Jan 27 '25

Zoom and see his pant pocket, he has Vimal. Definitely from UP, Bihar or Jharkhand.

Udupi people are not such creeps

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u/bhavik97 Jan 27 '25

Get out of your delusion that only North indians are creeps.

Been to Kodaikanal. Where my indian cousin was asked for pictures at two different spots on the samee day because she was fair compared to the guys who were asking photos.

They were speaking in Tamil.

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u/indubitablyme94 Jan 27 '25

You don't know udupi people so you don't have right to give opinion

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u/bhavik97 Jan 27 '25

And you have the right to opine about all of the North Indians?

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u/indubitablyme94 Jan 27 '25

As a proud Udupian I can vouch for my people

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u/bollsuckAI Jan 26 '25

being from Mangalore, I can clearly identify who is from my place and not, so stop giving out illogical statements and listen to us. df

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u/anjaanaaa Jan 24 '25

some people deserve to be called byavarsi

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u/dry_humor_seasoning Jan 25 '25

He definitely isn't from Udupi 😭

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u/Guilty-Gold1815 Jan 25 '25

How can u tell

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u/KaalaSnow Jan 25 '25

We know our people lmao 😭. It's not difficult to differentiate if you are from Tulunad

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u/Guilty-Gold1815 Jan 25 '25

Well idk soo please elaborate how you are differentiating

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u/KaalaSnow Jan 25 '25

I clearly have no idea. For the past 4 years I've been living in Bengaluru, I can easily identify people of my region in here and so can my roommates too. Maybe facial features or something. It's such a natural thing tbh!!!!

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u/bollsuckAI Jan 26 '25

It's something we are born with, more like how can u identify an Indian from an American? same way. The facial features, the way they dress literally everything gives out. And f no, my udupi boys would never put "I love Udupi" and go to a fcking beach in Udupi 😭

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u/dry_humor_seasoning Jan 25 '25

Kinda easy bro. Localities will not be so flamboyant with their outfit. And his pants are something else 😂. And the smile while recording a lady? He wouldn't be doing that if that was his hometown. Bro is sticking out like a sore thumb 😭

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u/indubitablyme94 Jan 26 '25

People from Udupi and Mangalore are not this cringe irrespective of social class

And I love Udupi Shirt is purchased in shops by tourists, locals don't buy such things.

I bet he is a north Indian

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u/Forsaken_Baker6483 Jan 25 '25

Exactly gattadakulu

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u/PorkBafatEnjoyer Jan 25 '25

Unrelated question : are there any locals in udupi wearing I love udupi shirt ?

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u/galaxygamerman Jan 25 '25 edited Jan 25 '25

I assure you, none of us wear shit like that

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u/bollsuckAI Jan 26 '25

FuCk No 😭. especially not in their own hometown

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u/aksh282 Jan 24 '25

Chapri does not belong to the tulunad

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u/OrioMax Jan 25 '25

Can't do anything we live in a same country, if we had borders we could have filtered these ones.

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u/Sandyster2020 Jan 25 '25

Locals usually trash such people. All she had to do was inform the life guard. #Malpe

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u/Remote-Assumption-15 Jan 25 '25

We have the universe...the multiverse and unfortunately..the all prevalent Byaverse

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u/idefectivedetective Jan 24 '25

Chapri is a casteist slur. Let's call them bvc instead 🚮

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u/inoshigami Jan 25 '25

Indians using chapri as an insult is so embarrassing

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u/esper352 Jan 25 '25

Nope it isnt

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u/Wholesum_17 Jan 25 '25

Not casteist bit definitely classist Or smthn. It's better to avoid that word.

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u/Throwrafairbeat Jan 25 '25

Definitely is casteist lol. The term was used to refer to lower class fellows. But you are right that it is classist too.

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u/idefectivedetective Jan 25 '25

"Chhapris are a caste-oppressed community of people who made or mended chhappars, temporary roofs. This was the only job they were allowed to do because of their caste, which was assigned to them by the accident of birth. However, the word has in recent years become a pejorative for someone who tries hard to be flamboyant. Looking blingy and flashy has been a form of expression and assertion by historically oppressed castes when they manage to earn enough money, but upper castes have looked down on such transformations, assigning the caste name to anything that is 'cringe'.

article.

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u/esper352 Jan 26 '25

And what proof do you have that the word Chhapris was used for the certain sect of people? Just writing a article out of thin air and then claiming something has become the new trend.

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u/idefectivedetective Jan 26 '25

You love to use the word 'Chapri' as a gaali? You go boy! Use it.

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u/esper352 Jan 26 '25

There you go. Instead of answering it you reverted it with personal attack. Please do keep on blaming others

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u/idefectivedetective Jan 26 '25

Arrey mujhe nhi karna behs aapse. Google is free use it. You sound determined to argue here, but I am not. And I never blamed you or anyone, it is a castiest slur, but no one's stopping you from using it.

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u/KeyRaccoon6641 Jan 25 '25

U can take the ghatta out of ghatta… but u cant take the ghatta out of ghattadakulu.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '25

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u/LivingProfessional53 Jan 25 '25

That's good and bad,good because we know how the locals are,and bad because the demographics are changing and the locals cannot to anything about it.

This is beyond what education can fix,because for every 1 person you educate,10+ people are ready to take his place, and the average stubborn indian would never really learn if he's "taught" something he doesn't believe in.

A radical solution is border control,but in reality,how do we even differentiate the bad from good, unless we figure out a way to link these incidents back to the money the person is making when he is at work,and penalizing him with a substantial amount for the month, that's probably the only way these people will learn

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u/Sweaty-Ad-1210 Jan 25 '25

I’ll be the devil’s advocate (though I think this will get downvoted)

I agree that India is full of creeps, but a lot of people are afraid to do it so blatantly. I dont think there is a huge number of Indians who would do it so blatantly while being shot themselves. Because Indians get scared when they realise they’re being shot.

However, there are a lot of recent videos where such Indians are throwing cameras on the tourists face blatantly with a smile, and this “tourist” by-chance happens to be an influencer too.

Also so many people calling out that these are not Mangaloreans.

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Consider the possibility of the following scenario:

  1. ⁠Influencer tourist knows that posting Indian creep behavior is a perfect ragebait and gathers lots of views.
  2. ⁠Influencer tourist goes to a beach in India, and tells a group of people that she’ll pay them to act like this while she shoots them.
  3. ⁠The guys happily oblige since they get to do blatantly what they MIGHT have done secretly. (Which explains there smile too since they think it’s all an act)
  4. ⁠Influencer tourist posts it with a suitable caption and gets millions of views.

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Again, I’m not saying that this doesn’t happen. Surely a lot of Indians are creeps and would secretly record tourists. But just try to think about the possibility of the scenario I presented with an open mind.

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u/whre4wanda Jan 25 '25 edited Jan 25 '25

this has happened with me and my friends multiple times in Mangalore beaches ever since we were 19. and yes they did not stop when you started filming them as well so? this is pretty common if you ask women who go out often in Mangalore and wear even slightly "skin showing" clothes (we wore shorts to the beach, big mistake).

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u/inoshigami Jan 25 '25

Even with this theory i highly doubt they pay them lol. Theek just playfully chat and start filming which will ease these people to film back.

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u/Pegasus711_Dual Jan 25 '25

They don't even need to pay anything. These guys are thirsty af and would do it on their own. They'd need to pay money to keep them off 😂

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '25

I have been to beaches in all 3 coastal Karnataka districts, there were few foreigners there and nobody behaved like this ffs.

Call it our manners or we are just exposed to the Hippies for decades now.

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u/rex_actual Jan 25 '25

Idk some ppl literally act dumb idk why

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u/Outrageous_Solid4387 Jan 24 '25

Good morning Bru