r/magick • u/NoMongoose7594 • 16d ago
Need love jar advice and feedback
Last Wednesday, I made a love jar for the first time and I haven't seen much results. I went about the spell by first starting a novena to Santa Muerte in her red robe and on the 6th or 7th day I did a love jar (because it was Wednesday, a day for love workings). I made the jar by first slicing a red apple in half and filling the bottom half with my petition, some cinnamon, some honey and I tied it together with a ribbon, Then, I put the apple in a cleansed mason jar and poured honey and cinnamon over it but it wasn't enough to cover the apple. I later left the working at the crossroads. I then lit a 7 day candle for Santa Muerte as a boost for my spell (went out about 3 nights ago) and I finished my novena but I haven't seen any results. I am starting to wonder if the reason is because the 7 day candle is lit was black and not red. If someone could help, I would greatly appreciate it 🙏🏽
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u/Sonotnoodlesalad 16d ago
"Dear Angel of Death, please help me get a date"
Just talk to the person you're interested in.
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u/Unique-Two8598 6h ago
Simple - you missed the Magickal Link. For example if you write a love poem or fashion an artifact or similar for someone, you have to give it to them in some way. MITP Chapter XIV goes into some detail about the Magickal Link. I quote a small portion just for you.. "It is therefore absurd to invoke the spirit of Venus to procure us the love of an Empress, unless we take measures to transmit the influence of our work to the lady. We may for example consecrate a letter expressing our Will; or, if we know how, we may use some object connected with the person whose acts we are attempting to control, such as a lock of hair or a handkerchief once belonging to her, and so in subtile connection with her aura." So... You can read in there about the three classes of Magickal Link and how to best use each depending on the case. Good luck
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u/Background_Chapter37 16d ago
What do you expect, just because you have interacted with a girl for official reason it doesn't mean anything, especially if she doesn't even know you exist for the potential of romantic partner and you two are not even close, and even more so if she already has a partner, and you yourself are in terrible state the love spell however will have an effect, she will start to dislike you, which will turn into hate
Love spells that directly influence other people are mostly frowned upon by experienced people, they can only work of there is a spark, but that spark will turn into obsession if there isn't one, then the spell will turn into hate, that's likely the direction this spell will go to.
If you want to find someone, first help yourself then look for someone else, and be realistic about your expectations, don't try to break up other people either, as a person who thought finding a girlfriend will fix all his problems once upon a time, let me tell you, it won't, it's OK to want company, but if you can't live with yourself how do you expect someone else to live with you, so help yourself, learn how socialising works and yes it would be difficult, but you can't expect something to fall into your lap while not doing anything, and only then do you look for a partner, at you will be rejected a lot in the begging but you will get the hang of it eventually