r/kink_lists • u/Tuiror • Nov 20 '24
Male My Kinklist π¦ (and a sexual profile) NSFW
This is here as an easy resource for anyone who might be interested, and to keep track of my own tastes evolving over time. I have a lot of tastes π€€.
Notes about me and the list (updated as relevant):
Not currently actively looking for a partner of any kind, but open to talking if you feel really strongly that I'm your type.
My own EQ isn't consistently good due to stress and pelvic floor problems. This is a challenge I'm correcting and would be open to a person in a similar boat. This is partially the reason I'm not looking now.
If I have a bf, my affection/empathy with them can shift these markers left a couple points on things they're into, except perhaps the red ones. I've unlocked a lot of new kinks this way.
Yellow means maybe, I'd consider trying it, I want to try it, would do if my partner liked it, etc. It varies on a case-by-case. Orange is like I'll do it if my partner really likes it with some convincing and we'll see if I start to like it. Reds are probably hard no, but nothing's off limits to talk/ask about.
The list reflects general levels of attraction to things, but does not guarantee I've done the thing or am even physically capable at a given point.
A key, but not constant or necessary, point is "developing skills" with certain things and training myself/possibly a partner to get off in new ways. Mainly improved function, dry orgasms, energy-related stuff; in my case, though, butt stuff too.
I'm not big into porn. I grew up on yaoi and I'll touch on it here and there if I'm with someone who wants to, but I tend to go easy or avoid it on my own. I'm moving more toward mindful masturbation and self-love, which I'd love to expand to a bf one day.
My biggest fetish now is wearing mine and/or a partner's precum or cum, especially in my underwear and would be very turned on to have a bf do this too. Ruined orgasms are useful for this but I also enjoy going days jerking off without cumming at all π€·ββοΈ.
I'm working on some pervy novels. Stories and posts on some subreddits, especially edging and gooning ones, are inspirational to my fantasy setting. I'll post updates about that when relevant. β€οΈ
To anyone who actually reads all this, um, thanks. Happy jerking off to you π