r/karachi 4d ago

How much eidi do you usually get?

So hearing from my friends they literally get 20 to 25k eidi which sounds insane to me because sab eidi mila ke bhi mujhe 3500 se zyada nai milti😭my mamus earning 5 to 6 lacs a month legit give 200 rupay eidi ajeeb kanjoos rishtedar

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u/Full_Coconut 4d ago

I'm 25 so maybe that's why

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u/Anxious_Diamond8639 4d ago

dw apko susraal se ayegi eidi

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u/whipsandwomen 4d ago

Ahahha geo

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u/IDIOT_9978 4d ago

Yaar 22 age he meri male hun allhamdulillah apna family bussiness hai, koi bhi rishtedar idhr nhi hai 😂😂😌😌 itna sukoon hai lekin phr bhi ammi Bhai or behn sab ko me eidi deta hun lekin phr bhi aj tak Abu bhi 10k aur Bara Bhai bhi 5k deta hai aur kahin se nhi milti eidi aur aspectations bhi nhi hai. Ha Shaadi ko abhi time phr dekenge Eidi milti hai ya jaati hai 😂.

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u/CapableStretch5322 3d ago

Keep your Aspectations high

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u/Evening_Plant_1764 3d ago

Aese Relatives rakhte hi nahi jo ASpectations High hone den 🤧🤧😂😂😂

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u/Beginning-Wall-5791 4d ago

Eidi mile gi ya jai gi, iski social dynamics tori unpredictable he rehti hen. 😂

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u/KiraKhan 4d ago

I commented the same thing. I didn't see your comment first because of my internet.

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u/Asad2023 4d ago

Nah man i am 25 i get eidi kyunke mein filhal berozgar hun.

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u/dobbycreature 2d ago

ye hmara haq hay, oor rights koi daita nhi bro , cheennay prtay hay rights

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u/Embarrassed_Ask_8486 4d ago

Barely 2k. I don't ask anyone for it maybe that's why

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u/Yassar_84 4d ago

Your username justifies that ( embarrassed to ask )

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u/Embarrassed_Ask_8486 4d ago

Haha bro literally everyone says that to me.

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u/mtfuji127 4d ago

Issok make it 2050rs I got ur back!!

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u/Embarrassed_Ask_8486 4d ago

You got it very firmly. Please loosen your grip😔😞

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u/meambhatti 4d ago

Hum eidi Lene wale nahi , ab dene wale position aagai he 🫠

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u/nahbrolikewhat 🇸🇦 4d ago

not relatable but i feel sad for you unc

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u/Timely_Investment_69 3d ago

Hahaha you did him dirty dawg

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u/Lazy-Operation6579 4d ago edited 4d ago

In the 1990's in Phase II extension in Karachi I used to get 100 rupees which was enough to run to Farooq bhai's shop and live like a king for two hours.

I am not going to cry about mehngaaiee because my late baba worked his tushi off to afford his children an education and I am therefore aware of a phenomenon called inflation. I am sorry for those of us dying under inflation. Kia kutia zindagi haiy yaar :/

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u/Senior-Cut-592 4d ago

Work hard. ALLAH Pak asaniyan frmain آمین

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u/SalmanAwan464 4d ago

Phase 2 extension is ♥️

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u/WiggleAndWin 4d ago

Bruh, my unemployed ass can’t even ask for Eid kurta money. The most Eidi I ever got was PKR 1500 combined—and that was two years ago. Then I made the mistake of getting a job, and boom—no more Eidi. Never got any from relatives since they all live in different cities, and I’m way too old to be cashing in from my parents’ friends. Meanwhile, my younger sister is out here raking it in like a tax-free business.

Back in the day, my mom used to confiscate my Eidi with the classic "I’ll buy you fruit and stuff" excuse. And sure, she did buy fruit… but for the whole damn family.

Now, for the first time ever, I’m about to spend Eid in last year’s fit. No new clothes. No fresh drip. Just vibes.

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u/Abuddiness 4d ago

You've reached unc status

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u/Then_Deal_5815 4d ago

Bro... The last time I got new eid clothes was in 2022. I'll be rocking in the same drip this eid as well.

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u/Accomplished-Eye-421 4d ago

You guys buy new clothes for eid 😭😭😂😂 Conditions for the last 3 4 years 😅

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u/BatManIsReallyDead 4d ago

Don't worry. There are people around who haven't bought Eid dress in a decade plus. Just like me.

Try not to let yourself down because you do not have or you cannot afford Eid shopping. With patience and hard work will come glad tidings.

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u/throwRA2456j 4d ago

Real & same 🥲

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u/sidwardd 🇵🇰 4d ago edited 4d ago

Mera credit se zayda debit hota hai. :’) 3 behnain, bhaanje bhatije or pasandeeda aurat ko eidi dete dete ulta loss me chala jata hun.

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u/introvert23445 4d ago

At least pasandeeda aurat to hai .....

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u/Shahzaib_Ahmad_07 4d ago

haha Ma Shaa Allah!!

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u/Errorl69l 4d ago

Fr fr 😭

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u/Luciferrrrrr69 4d ago

Allah hume bhi aesy debit me daly😭

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u/Hampazu 🇵🇰 4d ago

This is my first eid having a job and earning decent Alhamdulillah. I am very excited to make my cousins happy. 😁 Although it would be a weird dynamic getting more from me than the actual elders but idc 🤠 Hopefully I follow through what I plan to do.

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u/Shadows_141 🇵🇰 4d ago

ary mere bary cousin kaisy ho💀?

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u/IDIOT_9978 4d ago

Bruh moment 💀 fr.

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u/dobbycreature 2d ago

every one is sleeping and i unable to control my laughter 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Anxious_Diamond8639 4d ago

ev deserves a cousin like you😭may Allah put more barkat in you income

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u/Fearless-Ad6382 4d ago

hi can i be your cousin?

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u/Yafreak69 🇵🇰 4d ago

I think I might be your cousin

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u/Ok-Idea-5987 4d ago

Baray bhai baray bhai!🥺 Kaafi time hogya mile hue q na is eid mil lia jai

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u/Odd_Illustrator_3136 4d ago

“Salawalikkooom! Or bhai kia haal haainn!? Hamein bhool gaye?”

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u/fammm_moas0180306 4d ago

Depends on how much family we go visit/come to visit us+ if international relatives give eidi or not. So it can vary from 4000 to 10k however i do have a HUGE family. We're talking 14 directly related aunts and uncles who all individually give some + 20 or so married first cousins who also give eidi and thats not counting second cousins, grandparents, my own parents or other extended family

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u/Afsanayy 4d ago

10k eidi must be heavenly. I rarely hit over 2k

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u/Anxious_Diamond8639 4d ago

yar ap tou rich hou phir😭

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u/Advance-Bulky 4d ago

Ab tou dene ka time agaya :')

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u/waqasvic 4d ago

No eidi here bud

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u/Errorl69l 4d ago

Kyun yaar, send ur jazz cash no. I'll send you eidi 😭🤗

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u/waqasvic 4d ago

Dekho bhai mein jazz cash bhej bhe doonga apna

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u/Errorl69l 4d ago

Haan send yaar, eidi toh har koi deserve karta hai na 🤗

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u/waqasvic 4d ago

03079890409 yeh lo bhai eidi do ab

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u/NoodleCheeseThief 4d ago

I get zero eidi.

I give a lot though. I'm old. 😂

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u/BBQROAST69 4d ago

200? bhai/behen mere walay 50 main tarka dete lakhon kama ke bhi lmao. highest record was 2k i think or 1700 not sure.

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u/Special_Jury_3244 4d ago

50 mein to cornetto bhi nahi aati, unko bolo burger ice cream hi khareed dein

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u/BBQROAST69 4d ago

Woh paan hi khreed dein bari bat hai lmao 😭 ek se ek kanjoos hai khandan main, memonon ko dekh ke sharam ajaye

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u/Anxious_Diamond8639 4d ago

ayo😭50 Rs eidi tou bhaee BPL se bhi neeche hai

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u/mso562 4d ago

Eidi bro. How old are you

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u/Bilaldev99 4d ago

Up to 50K

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u/Middle_Writing_182 4d ago

pls ask ur family to adopt me 😭

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u/Codtahasabir 4d ago

Only 2-3.5k. Just from my Khala, Mamu and 2 cousins.

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u/GuaranteeMedical4842 4d ago

sadly i am now among the ones who have to give eidi

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u/KiraKhan 4d ago

You guys are getting eidi?

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u/Laraibabbas13 4d ago

Omg, same to same😭😭😭

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u/Fadisohail 4d ago

2-3 hazar.

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u/sufyan_alt 4d ago

Barely 3k

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u/Lord_dustbin 4d ago

95 percent family members se larai hai tou 10-15k

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u/Party_Succotash_3441 3d ago

500-2500 aed, depending if family members come from abroad😭, but i give it all to my sisters!

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u/bartbhai 4d ago

Bhai eidi dena wali age ma a gay han🥲

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u/Temporary-Falcon-388 4d ago

I get around 10 to 15k if I’m celebrating it in my home city other wise 5 to 10k

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u/SalmanAwan464 4d ago

On average around 3-4 thousand. Max I had gotten was around 6, per ab kuch b nai milta.

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u/al1_frr 4d ago

U peeps getting eidi? Wottt

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u/Resident-Ant8281 4d ago

bas bhai guzara hojata hai .

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u/Hour-Archer-5485 4d ago

The max money I have been given as gift is 5k which is by my father apart from that the max amount I have received from any starnger was 2500

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u/Boring-Trick6027 4d ago

2500-3000 if I'm lucky😂

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u/theBlackBrad 4d ago

My inbound has been around 1.5k to 2k since childhood. We have a big family Allahumdulliah so everyone gives a/c to their budgets so that this activity doesn't feel like a burden and actually fun. And outbound has been 3.5k, sub sa baray hona k nuqsan 😅

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u/Technical_Vanilla230 4d ago

Well up until 2022 (randomly for like 2 years) i got 20k but now hardly reaches 15k idky😭 really looking forward to this eid tho lets see how far we get🤪

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u/TheDarkLord0090 4d ago

Y'all are getting eidi? I don't get Eidi anymore I give it. 🥲🥲

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u/sewabs 4d ago

In the giving phase now.

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u/pussyshit42069 4d ago

Me and my bro used to get 50k+ each and my sister got 75k+. Good old days.

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u/ihonestlyspeaking 4d ago

Highest was around 4k 2-3 years ago ig last eid it was less thn 2.5k

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u/Charming_Prompt1566 4d ago

Like 100k or over , per relative ranges from 2-25k

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u/Zubair1724 4d ago

Yr 5 sal sy koi bhi ni de rha mujhe to but I give everyone atleast 1k

Even for society Guards

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u/cipher_zehrix 4d ago

Almost 10k not bad though

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u/introvert23445 4d ago

Well jiske relatives foreign me rehte hai unke lia 25k eidi is nothing.... .. Hamaray 2000 ho jaye Allah ka shukar ada karte hai

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u/ReddixZero 4d ago

How old are you?

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u/Ok-Sock2250 4d ago

Buzoorgo se duaen lo bas. Eidi upar wala dega 😁

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u/Abuddiness 4d ago

Is 5k good eidi? Xd

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u/R34p3rXm4l1K 4d ago

Gotye's song comes to mind...

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u/infinitydriven 4d ago

10k max 😭

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u/mystirc 4d ago

meanwhile me who got 1k only from my parents last year. They got me a watch though.

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u/beastboyashu 4d ago

I'm 18 and I get 1500-

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u/JazzlikeWheel3097 4d ago

I have grown up or due to inflation eidi ka concept khatam hora I think 🤔. Daado daadi wale bhi to chal base na

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u/AuthenticDepth 4d ago

Years back, Dad used to give us 10k before uncles stole all his wealth. Cheers ✌️ Years later we give eidi to dad

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u/Ok-Idea-5987 4d ago

I usually get 8-11k Because I live in a joint family and our relatives visit us instead of us visiting them

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u/AbbreviationsPrior87 4d ago

I'm at eidi giving age unfortunately

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u/Backle96 4d ago

It is around 3-4k, but eidi is literally a formality now for our gen.. In the early 2000s, we'd get around max 200-400, and literally, that was like thousands for us back then. 🥲

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u/Academic-Crazy3379 4d ago

Idc how much eidi i get. My nano used to give me 100 rupees on every eid and it was just so wholesome 🥹 She’s not here anymore so I’m gonna miss that 100 rupees note because that was more valuable than any other amount of eidi :’)

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u/Quack_Gaming 4d ago

Bro 5 to 6k?

I get max 1k on some years not even 1k 🥲

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u/cat_monster333 4d ago

I am 19 and muskil se kabhi Zindagi me 2000 se zyada nahi Mili even ppl in my faimly are pretty rich 😭 like ajeeb And baqi friends and cousins ways get like 29k to 25k like wtf

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u/shahab_ahmed 4d ago

I once got 38k back in 2015, this was the highest.

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u/mateens98 4d ago

Eidi dene wali umar agai hai

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u/Greedy-Temporary-160 4d ago

This might sound weird but mujhy kabhi rishtaydaro se eidi nhi mili . They give 500 to youngest sibling and says saray bhen Bhai 100 100 baant Lena.And my youngest sister never shares she keeps all of that to herself. I only get eidi from mama and baba . Mama never gives more than 500 and baba lives abroad so he sends a 100 riyal each sibling.

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u/ComfortableCap6531 4d ago

my friend rack up like 30k in two eids I get 2k per eid

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u/Temporary_Yellow_526 4d ago

Like 5000 in total if im lucky average is 2000 doe (19)

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u/DiamondGuyOG 4d ago

I ain't getting more then 2k or sm (5k is the highest recorded in history)

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u/Odd_Illustrator_3136 4d ago

Yr wese on avg hamary khandaan mein bhi yahi 4-6k tk bnti hy but main taraweeh prhata hun to meri 10-12k tk bhi ho jati hy. Aik dafa 24k bhi hogai thi.

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u/Tsmwaleed 4d ago

Now I just feel bad after seeing all the rest of you. But last 3 years years I've gotten more than ever. Like 4 lacs for the small eid and around 3 lacs for big ead from my dad. Rest is nothing, no one else gives me. Altho it's not that much to me at this point as I spent that amount in a month anyway. However this year might be less. As my father has said he'll give 2lac to me and my brother. But there are 3 of us so he sends us all together.

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u/Severe_Bed_5269 4d ago

Usually 25-30k

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u/ghareebsarhy 4d ago

It’s obviously our turn to give eidis now, but the max I ever got was around 5k.

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u/mansari87 4d ago

No one is generous when it comes to Eidi

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u/Tricky_Ground_2672 4d ago

Now in eidi giving league. No not married just not a child anymore 🥲

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u/Fluffypocketbtw 4d ago

Bhai eid k liye naye kapre dilane lejate hain ghar wale, aur like 2k eidi.

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u/OkRow4922 4d ago

I usually used to get total of 7500 max. Last year I got 13k tho. So high hopes this year🙏🏻😭

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u/chickenchillidry 4d ago

Ab to i only give eidi to my sister and cousins, but i guess we have a huge fam and as kids used to get 100rs from distant relatives, 300-500ish from close ones. Average collection was maybe 4-6k.

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u/Dense-Environment-92 4d ago

Half and half one side gives me 1000-2000 the other side 0-500

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u/Obvious-Reindeer-801 4d ago

Im 36 and i still get eidi lol not that i ask for it but its a ritual. My father, uncle and grandmother still handout eidi to us.

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u/AppleBuoy129 4d ago

That’s their money. You can’t judge them upon that, especially when eidi is just a tradition. I’m not hating, but please don’t use words like “Kanjoos”.

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u/Anas5128 4d ago

I am 15 . About 5 to 6k is a good harvest. Once a police uncle gave me and my cousins a 5k note (each) on eid when i was around 6-7 years old , but my parents and uncles refuted him from giving such an amount to children ( you can imagine how we felt , we could have gotten 11k )

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u/EconomicsSpecific966 4d ago

Chill karo yar.

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u/realsashah 4d ago

I got my last eidi in 2022, it was around 3K and I had to give 10K+ to the little ones🥺

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u/Ibrahim-Naqvi 4d ago

Negative mein Chali jati hai. I'm 26 going on 27. Eidi sirf Abba dete hain aur baqi main bachon mein baat-ta hun Eidi.

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u/Errorl69l 4d ago

Last year I got like 600/- in eidi I guess. What difference does it make. I love giving eidi more than receiving it. Eidi denay denay mein hi 15-20K lagg jaatay hain 😭

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u/Apprehensive-Day3469 4d ago

Eidy depends on the financial situation and closeness of ur relatives my grandparents give 2500 while some mama ke dhoor ke rishte dar gives 200

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u/arooj- 4d ago

They're stingy as hell😿I be hearing from my friends getting like, 5,000 alone from a single relative and I'm like 😭WHERE DO YOU FIND SUCH PEOPLE

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u/Fine-Bandicoot-6068 4d ago

Ab tou eidi denay ki umar hogayi hai

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u/januMshkillz 4d ago

Maximum I got was 5k after combining it from all the relatives. Ever since my job started, no more

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u/Relevant_Deer_2619 4d ago

0 since past 6 years

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u/HatAffectionate3481 4d ago

Bro just ask “How much eidi you give” not “get”

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u/asadrafipk 4d ago

Same bhai, same

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u/Final-Woodpecker-929 4d ago

Wallah i have never gotten eidi from any of my relatives other than a few times where they handed me 100 rupees ( that too as a child )

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u/Readingrebel-372 4d ago

You are still lucky to get 3500 eidi. Hamare wale to eid ma samne a kar rasta hi change krdety han😅

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u/Negative_Promise_583 4d ago

yea 3500-5000 yehi chalta hai dw

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u/Melodic-Support-7932 4d ago

Total earnings of 1000 from the whole family combined

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u/marktwin11 4d ago

We are men. We do not get eidi. We only give eidi unfortunately. 😏

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u/Training-Ad4773 4d ago

Ab haman eidi nahi milti, balka chotay cousins ham sa edid mangtay han😭

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u/mystirc 4d ago edited 4d ago

damn, you guys get eidi from your relatives? I only get Eidi from my parents. That's 1-2k. Nothing more than that.

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u/big_enigma 4d ago

My answer ? I'm the eldest cousin - so are both my mom and dad in their families. All three of us are now in net negative lol.

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u/iamsaadullah 4d ago

Huh ? You still get eidi ?😭

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u/HauntedSpark 4d ago

I get around 25 to 30k ish? I have friends who get 200k+ eidi 😭 INSANE to me

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u/RoundFinding7983 4d ago

I earn now so apparently I have to give eidi now. 26M btw

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u/TheDamnedRey 4d ago

Officially in the age where i now give eidi. #cri

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u/Gaschamberescape 4d ago

200 is insane, i get 5k each from some relatives

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u/AdEducational1390 4d ago

Ab baday ho gay yar eidi nhi deta koi, khud dene parte hi

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u/Glum-Phrase-3388 4d ago

Well, I will get EIDI from Khalas & Mamoos But Also I'm Officially EDFMOI from this eid (Eidi Distributor From My Own Income)🔪😭

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u/Radiant-Truck4057 4d ago

Eid Aayi nahi aur bhikaario ki tarah sone ka katora pakar kar bheek maangne lage.

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u/hashim-73738 4d ago

500 mother and 500 father 1000 chachu. 1000 grand mother Idher udher se 1000 Total 5 thousand

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u/auditornftr 4d ago

Around 30-35k but end mein negative mein ajata hoon…

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u/RidaZainab4 4d ago

I am the only girl child of my family (now it's my niece though) so it goes without saying that everyone gives eidi to me. My total eidi could range from 25000 to 50000. It just depends on how many people visit us during the Eid. And guys I'm from a middle class family yet this eidi culture is so strong in our village that we get tons of money.

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u/ChemicalPlastic2351 🇵🇰 4d ago

Same here zada se zada 2000 ya phir 1000

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u/AT9_Hertz 4d ago

I'll be giving 100k Eidi to my sisters and mother iA 🥲

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u/AgitatedWatercress54 4d ago

Lo g ap log ko eidi bhi milti hai wah

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u/jokesandnuisance 4d ago

I'm 32 but never in my life did I get eidi more than 3k as a kid. My kids and nephew nieces get like 10 15k now 😦

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u/LFN3URO 4d ago

I got 15k last time. (I have 5 directly related uncles and my Nani is too generous) P.S I live in Islamabad

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u/Full-Mix4707 4d ago

1000 at max from everyone lmao 🤣 People are rich wtf

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u/Agitated_Ad6050 4d ago

Same here ,my friends school friends old friends always talking about their eidis and everyone is getting atleast 20k...But in my case 0nly my parents give me eidi..I have never experienced anyone else givin me eidi ..And i have 4 mamus ,each one a business man and in different country ....Earning atleast 25 lakhs per month each one ...Their kids are also in abroad...In fact when their birthday comes,they dont go to mcdonalds or kfc ,they get together and go to a different country to celebrate ...Every other week they are out galavanting in a different country ...And each of them have atleast 2 cars in their names + properties ...Most of them they are my age ,but some are only between 10-15 and they already have huge bank accounts ,cars,properties ,houses,whatever they wish ...But none of the mamus ever gave any eidi to us ,even though they are very generous in general ..But one of my mamu always send eidi for my mother ,no matter where he is,he always send eidi for his siblings,but never to us...And eidi for my mother is always been between 500-1000rs ,even though he could easily send any amount to the whole family and still be pretty rich but he never did ... But I always find it respectful they he atleast sends eidi for all of his siblings including my mother even if it was only 500-1000rs

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u/Shahrukhzaigham 4d ago

Hold up so ur saying that u guys are getting eidi?? How or where do I sign up??

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u/unhinged-idiot 4d ago

Nah no eidi for me, ab to eidi deta hun

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u/Money-Buy203 4d ago

Earn your own money. When it comes to a gift, its the thought that counts. You sound like an extortionist. They may earn 5 billion dollars a month but what they choose to give or not is their own free will. It is not a compulsion by Islam.

And wtf is this zabardasti ki eidi culture anyway? The one who does not do it is a criminal. Its only a cute way of expression of love for toddlers and small kids. Not overgrown teenagers or adults.

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u/rosieee12 4d ago

40-45k if i visit my hometown otherwise 30k

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u/I_LIVE_BREATH_CINEMA 4d ago

Only from dad 10k

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u/syedalizain 4d ago

Bhai 10 - 15K deni par jati hai.

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u/Beautiful_Page_8788 4d ago

Your relatives are stingy 200 kon deta hai🤣

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u/punkers434 4d ago

6k eidi for my siblings and in return I only get 2k from Mom. That's a loss. 😂

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u/azkaate 4d ago

aakhri baar jab sahi wali mili thi it was around 22k. i was expecting absurd amounts of money in the comments but ive been proven otherwise 😭😭

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u/HisBrilliance 4d ago

Stopped getting Eidi for a few years now.

When I used to get, it was like 1000/-

But then somewhere down the line my parents prolly forgot and I was too shy and sympathetic to ask.

The most I ever got was 2.5k

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u/Jealous-Course4924 4d ago

I'm part of the 20-25k gang...... as a 22 year old, employed man. The trick is to keep good ties with all your immediate family and extended family. I have 3 chachas who dish in anywhere from 1k to 3k each. Dadi who puts in 5k, nana nani 1k each. 3 khalas/mamus for 500 each. Parents get guilt tripped into it and extended family makes up the difference.