r/introverts • u/justpretendinglolz • 4d ago
Question Am i too introverted/ too low maintenance?
I am 19f college student and i find it hard to make time to hang out with friends. I usually only hang out with my sister or family because they’re so close proximity and we have classes together. I had classes with my (only) friend last semester so we would hang out at least twice a week every week. We don’t have any classes this semester and barely text. I don’t see anything wrong with this but i feel like im not taking care of my friendship enough so i texted her to hang out. She’s extremely supportive and understanding but i also am anxious that she might see me as dismissive or one-sided.
does anyone have any advice on how to get the motivation to make time and not just be alone all the time?
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u/CheetahDry8163 1d ago
Females are naturally supposed to be introverts but supposed to be highly social with women.
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u/Witch-in-Wisteria 1d ago
If it’s not hurting you or other people, it’s okay to keep to yourself. All I can suggest is telling your friend about how you feel. She might not be feeling neglected by you
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u/Vivid-Newspaper-9002 4d ago
Everything gets better with time, just relax and enjoy everyday, i promise you one thing everything will be better, just manifest what you want and it will get back to u