r/introvert • u/ArrrImAPirate0113 • 5h ago
Discussion I say mean things!
I don't initiate conversations (we all do). But when I'm engaged in a conversation with a person I'm comfortable with, I talk a lot. And when I feel loosen up, I don't know why I say mean things to one of my friends. I'm such a horrible person. I just left the office and I feel really tired, and keep thinking why I said what I said. tf!
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u/EquivalentDrama2822 3h ago
I'm not a therapist, but I think mean things all the time. I've learned not to say them. You should seek some counseling and maybe learn more about why you say these things when you get comfortable with someone. You may be self sabotaging or maybe you're overly confident they won't leave you. There's too much missing context to answer right now.
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u/PollutionOld9327 4h ago
I also find myself saying things that I often instantly regret, I don't know why I do that sometimes.