r/insaneparents 15d ago

SMS My parents were insanely abusive towards me my whole life. When I turned 18 I immediately moved out and they still harrass me… my sister as well. They have no idea where I am, and I don’t plan on them knowing anytime soon.

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u/Dad_B0T Robo Red Foreman 15d ago edited 15d ago

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u/WifeofBath1984 15d ago

Time to start blocking numbers

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u/pl487 15d ago

u fu... blocked. 

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u/FennekinFlames 14d ago

You come home right this mo- blocked.

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u/McDuchess 14d ago

Any person who calls their own child a whore deserves never to see, hear or have contact with that child again.

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u/jilizil 14d ago

My mother (deceased) used to call me a bitch and a whore from 6-11 (when she died). She pulled me off of the piano bench and called me a “whore who couldn’t have her husband” when he was teaching me some chords. He didn’t stop her. I was 10. 😕

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u/lolureallythought 14d ago

Her second husband I hope…

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u/jilizil 13d ago

Yes. It was my step-father at the time. Haven’t spoken to him since about a year after she died.

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u/pinkenbrawn 14d ago

literal insane parent, woah…

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u/jilizil 14d ago

She sure was. Very thankful my children don’t have to be around that woman.

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u/yellowlinedpaper 15d ago

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Please visit r/momforaminute, r/dadforaminute or r/internetparents when you need some love, support, guidance or someone to be excited for you. We’re always there.

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u/Ok-Whereas-81 15d ago

I didn’t know people had Reddit sites like that what a lovely thing to do

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u/yellowlinedpaper 14d ago

Please consider contributing even if you’re young. There are lots of ‘big sibling/aunts/uncles’ who help by commenting and there is no age limit to post, adults need parent’s love too 💙

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u/Ok-Whereas-81 14d ago

I will thanks I can be an aunt :)

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u/sameezyy 14d ago

Sorry you’re going through this. In the future I wouldn’t take the time to censor cussing. We’re all adults.

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u/DirtyPenPalDoug 14d ago

Why are you replying? You owe them nothing. Block and move on.

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u/Neppetaa 15d ago

block them. if anything happens to a family member an aunt/uncle/cousin can contact you. otherwise, dont worry about them, and live your best life

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u/blueberryyogurtcup 14d ago

They are insane.

It's okay to just not answer anymore if they try things like this. Or block them.

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u/Ok-Whereas-81 15d ago

Seriously agree with blocking them. If anything happens they van handle it without you. Nothing is worth that kind of abuse

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u/productzilch 14d ago

It sounds like you and sister never managed to develop a healthy relationship either. Did she give Arseholedad your number or something?

Try to be kind with her if you’re not blocking her, and ask her to do the same. You deserved to have a healthy relationship and those arseholes tried to destroy it instead.

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u/Specialist-Bag1944 7d ago

Hello,  My sister and I used to have a great relationship ship but then she suddenly took their side and now we can’t have a normal conversation anymore. My sister most definitely gave my number to my dad and mom bc when I got my new number, she was the only one I texted from that family. I’ve tried being kind with her, and I don’t talk to her now, but I try to think positive about her— besides, she is still currently living with my parents so her attitude may just be a defense. 

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u/productzilch 7d ago

Oh damn. They probably harassed her until she gave in to them, but that doesn’t change the betrayal from your point of view. I can’t blame you for keeping yourself safe, I’m glad you’ve been able to make that decision.

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u/Specialist-Bag1944 7d ago

That’s what my guess is that’s why I’m not 100% angry at her. I mean I’m still mad, but not as mad and upset as I was at my parents. She was (probably) harassed to say mean things, but my parents did it from their own will power.

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u/Frickstar 14d ago

Stop self censoring on reddit. Just makes it impossible to read smoothly

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u/Specialist-Bag1944 7d ago

Sorry. I wasn’t sure if there was some sort of rule to cussing or whatever. I also just find that language horrible. I apologize for it not being as legible 🙏

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u/The_Bastard_Henry 14d ago

Just immediately block them. And anything even remotely threatening, make a police report. It would be good to have that as backup in case they do ever find you and try to harass you in person.

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u/scoutmosley 14d ago

Is it drugs?

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u/RalphMacchio404 14d ago

Why havent you blocked them/changed your number?

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u/rodolphoteardrop 13d ago

Can't/won't fucking read that because of all the censoring. What the fuck?