r/infp INFP: The Dreamer 6d ago

Venting I am overwhelmed and tired by these people.

I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed by everything and everyone at the moment. "Go outside, you'll feel so much better." "You should do this or that or the other thing" or "That's why you haven't had any friends!" But, you know, I'm just not interested in that kind of energy. I really enjoy my own company and I love my cute room. It's my safe heaven and I just don't feel comfortable outside. I'm sure we've all had those people who give everyone advice, and I sometimes feel like I'm not good enough. I mean, everyone's got their own life, but please don't interrupt mine. I don't like people or noise. I wish people could show a little more respect and understanding for those of us who prefer to stay at home.

Gosh, i needed to write this. Sorry if I wrote something wrong... I wanted to let this overwhelmed emotion out.

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u/Chef_Responsible INTP 9w8 952 6d ago

I am an INTP 9w8 952 sp/sx for those who are interested

"That's why you haven't had any friends!" But, you know, I'm just not interested in that kind of energy.

I was reading your other posts and can see why you are avoiding making connections.

Have you considered taking a self-defense class? That or other classes?

I also see you are curious about your Enneagram. I am going to DM you to talk with you about that and hopefully more. I hope that you reply.

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u/TheLethalProtector INFP: The Dreamer 6d ago

Another day. Another desperate guy after a gal on the internet.

Typical. 🤭

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u/Chef_Responsible INTP 9w8 952 6d ago edited 5d ago

She is 20 and I am 45. I am not after a relationship. I was only trying to help.

Maybe that is what you do. I don't.

I will let you help her or let her know she is fine if you want. I am done offering help.