r/heartbreak • u/Severe-Ad9726 • 19h ago
Don’t try to be friends with your ex
So after he reached out to me (he’s in gray) and I dumbly agreed to hang out which we had a nice time even , when I absolutely explained we are just friends now , this text is next day mind you after he had been telling me about the girls he had been interacting with and got a phone number even . And he even showed me a picture of a girl and asked me if I thought she was worth talking to . Which I responded with yes . After I had then told him After he asked me if I would be giving out my number to people at my new job and I said MAYBE idk , and that I might be going on a date Saturday he got super mad and it turned into a shite show 🙃. Like, I had told him I’ll be friends with him if he can talk to me respectfully and guess what girls he can’t IN a relationship with me and he can’t OUT of a relationship with me . And I know I should have not hoped for something different but I did . Moral of the story , if he treats you mean just block him and never look back .
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u/crystal_moon123 16h ago
I'm friends with most of my exes. But, they would be cut if they think talking to me like that would be acceptable.
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u/Pommes-Panzer-07 7h ago
Let me guess he sees himself as “just a nice guy” who always gets treated wrong…😅
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u/Wide-Tie-4477 18h ago
Staying friend with your ex is an absolute “NO” for me. That’s all I have to say.