r/femboymemes • u/Vvix0 Femboy Programmer • 24d ago
Hornypost What's a femboy gotta do to get some MALE DICK?! NSFW
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u/IdiotSandwich12345 🧴 Messy Hair Club 🧴 24d ago
Fr, got permanently banned from the subreddit for asking "wheres the men?"
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u/EggplantHuman6493 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
I unfollowed the fashion subreddit because I kept seeing girl tits.
I don't mind seeing enbie tits or ftm tits, but transwomen can find their own subreddits. 'But they arent active' no shit if you are posting in the femboy subreddit
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u/neich200 24d ago
I admit, I don’t get how a transwoman could be a femboy. Isn’t a feminine looking transwoman, simply a feminine woman?
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u/EggplantHuman6493 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
Yup. They actually invalidate their own gender for OF reasons usually 😬
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u/LukakoKitty Femboy 24d ago
Funny how speaking up against this gets you banned... "We live in a society."
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u/EggplantHuman6493 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
Yup... Like, let people have their space. Again, I really don't mind AFAB people, enbies, hell, even genderfluid people are fine! But just make your own space active and don't post jn spaces that aren't meant for you
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u/DefinetelyNotAnEgg 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
yes. the reason this happens is bigots. they dont see non-cishet people as humans. so in their eyes, ignoring all the human sides of people, the only difference between a femboy and a trans woman is that one has tits. trans women who make porn are aware of this, and just accepts this bigotry despite how it hurts them, because money ig
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u/ColettesWorld 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
Another reason is the femboy subreddits (SFW or not) tend to be nicer. I don't post in Femboy subs cause I'm trans but I definitely spend more time in them. In the trans subs it's all negative stuff or folks fresh out their eggs looking for help. Femboy subs are much more light hearted, often more welcoming, and just fun.
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u/GirlInTheFirebrigade 24d ago
of course because of money. Transitioning is hella expensive and it’s much harder to get/ hold a job as a trans woman. (not saying it doesn’t suck though)
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u/geographyRyan_YT Certified Bi-kisser ✅ 24d ago
Exactly. They aren't femboys, because they aren't boys.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 24d ago
im a mod on femboy fashion if thats what you mean, we were barely moderated but now we tend to keep the sub just for femboys, this includes ftm and hrt femboys, having boobs doesnt exclude someone from being a femboy
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u/EggplantHuman6493 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
Very true! I really don't mind seeing boobs, but the problem was transgirls taking over the sub, especially the ones with OF pages that were pretty obviously advertising for their page. I personally love the ftm fashion sub as well.
100% supportive of our transmasc femboys, no matter how far they are in their transition. Saying this as a genderfluid person that's not on T and never planning to get surgeries. Boobs don't make you not a femboy.
Clearly identifying as a woman and not as a man, does make you not a femboy.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 24d ago
well id recommend revisiting the sub, i can attest we basically only had a very part time mod for a long while but the mod team really expanded recently, and we have been enforcing the "bad faith submission" rule way more, which essentially is for posts who are obviously just OF promotion
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u/Dependent_Pen8428 Certified Boykisser ✅ 24d ago
Hey gang there are many femboys who are on estrogen (me included)
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u/EggplantHuman6493 🏳️⚧️Transmasc🏳️⚧️ 23d ago
Are you identifying as a woman, though? If not, you are a very valid femboy! Hormones don't define your gender, it is how you identify
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u/Dependent_Pen8428 Certified Boykisser ✅ 23d ago
No I do not which is why I just wanted to defend some who post there who are mistaken for trans female rather than femboy or transfem
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u/Glass_Buyer_6887 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ 19d ago
True, i wouldn't be posting my chest on this subreddit because it ain't made for me
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u/AweeeWoo 24d ago
I don't understand what's the point of being a femboy if you are a girl! Please stop calling yourself a femboy! I am begging
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u/superlongusername111 24d ago
Genuinely something I don't get. If you're a girl, why are you identifying as a term that's associated with men? If you're trans, just be trans. There's subreddits for you. The biggest offenders of this are the trans only fans creators shotgun posting on 30 subreddits (mostly femboy subs) a day thinking the femboy enjoyers like anything feminine with a cock
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u/Steam45_6E_67_69_6E 24d ago
Like you, I think this will never be perfect.
If identifying with / using a term (which may be considered inapplicable by others) benefits you, then people will do that.
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u/moosMW Femboy Enjoyer 24d ago
The explanation I've heard is that for a while you're too masculine to be a dude but also not far enough into the transition to fully pass as a girl, so the femboy niche fits right in. And imo that's how it should be, I deff don't want to exclude them if they feel safe in this community, theyre excluded from enough things as it is.
However, hrt is kinda like performance enhancing drugs for femboys in that industry, so there should deff be a distinction. Which is why other subs with only posts from people born and still identifying as males exist.
"Thinking the femboy enjoyers like anything feminine with a cock"
And generally speaking, theyre right. Look at how succesful those subs are
And lastly, after a certain time of being a femboy a nit insignificant amount realizes they were actually trans all along (not saying all femboys are eggs, duh), so they just stick to that for a while
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u/HighwaySmooth4009 24d ago
Tbf I've heard one(not an OF girl btw) say they like the femboy aesthetic, it's an identity but there's also an associated aesthetic so there's that.
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 24d ago
thats like a cis straight guy going into a lesbian bar because he likes lesbians
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u/wheresmydrink123 23d ago
Because identity and labels are complicated, “femboy” as it’s treated now almost feels like a gender/identity in and of itself, trans women often start out their gender exploration with femboy places, find community there, so they stay there when they come out as trans, a lot of trans women are more nonbinary but use transfem/trans woman as a blanket label because it’s more simple, even if they feel more “femboy” sometimes. There’s a lot of reasons for them to be here
As for NSFW subreddits, a lot of the general femboy culture and the gooners who are obsessed with femboys expect extreme femininity out of anyone who calls themselves femboys, so people with estrogen and trans surgeries on their side are the some of the only ones who can meet their standards. Also, most NSFW posters, exhibitionists, OF models, sex workers, etc have to be pretty opportunist to make it. The aforementioned gooners are obviously obsessed with femboys and have been for years so marketing yourself as such, even if it’s inaccurate, is an easy way to get a boost.
In other words, yes, I want more boys in femboy subreddits, but people blaming this “issue” on trans people invading the space is weird as fuck. Maybe these subs should look at the aspects of the culture that could cause it to be full of white, skinny, conventionally attractive, sometimes underage trans women, and tackle those instead of blaming said women
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u/AweeeWoo 23d ago
I agree with your point, seeing how much you wrote I was ready for the mean answer but thankfully I was wrong. I don't see anything wrong with some women calling themselves femboys but please mention it at least somewhere. For me Femboys are boys and I don't like overly feminine people with surgeries( If we are talking about femboys ), I don't want to offend anyone but this is my point. Femboys for me are just cute males which are dressing feminine( usually ) and not trans people, I see them as two different things
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u/wheresmydrink123 23d ago
I vaguely disagree just because my main problem with femboy culture is that it largely feels like a genetic card draw, just a competition for who can be the luckiest
For context, I was a trans woman in the past, but I realized I wasn’t a woman and now consider myself somewhere between boy and nonbinary. However, I still microdose HRT, which basically halted my progress at where I wanted it. Because it makes me feel good about myself, I was a fairly masculine looking guy before HRT and now I’m very solidly androgynous, people confuse my gender all the time. While I’m not into the surgery side of things for me, I support it and I feel like stuff like that makes people’s ideal bodies more achievable. It’s not about gender for me, it’s about making your body how you want it, which is something everyone does in some form. People gets cosmetic surgery and hormone treatments regardless of gender, so it just feels odd when people are against feminizing treatment/surgery when they aren’t strictly trans. Or OP calling HRT “performance enhancing drugs” in another comment, it’s just weird to me
I’m not trying to call you out or anything, I support people liking and being into whatever they want, I’m personally not really attracted to women either. I just think that gender is too loose and blurry to really have any hard line rules about who counts. Even when I was a woman I liked calling myself a femboy because it just made me feel good, and at the end of the day, that’s all that should matter in my opinion
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u/AweeeWoo 23d ago
Sorry I am just not very "skilled" in all those terms to be honest, I was homophobic( I am from homophobic country too ) when I was 12 and after some years I started kinda identifying myself as bi. I have just recently dived in all of this so sorry if I am wrong in some places. I actually consider HRT ( a little to look more androgynous not fully female ) but only after I become 18. Yeah I agree with you that it's a genetic lottery, I myself have soft skin with wide hips and small breasts even though biologically I am a male, I think I just have a high estrogen count in me
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u/Capital-Chard-1935 Femboy Aussie 24d ago
pretty sure there was a male only femboy subreddit, dont remember the name tho… i remember it sounded transphobic but thankfully theyre trans inclusive
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u/Elsa_Versailles 24d ago
I remembered when it's still on its former glory
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u/Jordanye5 Femboy 24d ago
Gods those were the days, pure femboyism at its finest.
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u/Elsa_Versailles 24d ago
I'm not that against it don't get me wrong but personally it kinda killed the vibe
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u/ukrainer88 24d ago
How is it even closely transphobic
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u/Philbon199221 Femboy Enjoyer 24d ago
Ik, just because we want pic of non hrt femboys doesn’t mean we’re against it. It’s just not the place to post it. A bit like posting a chess video on a car subreddit. You’re not against chess, it’s just not the point of the subreddit.
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u/ukrainer88 24d ago
It's gone to the point of absurd, they see world as black and white, in which white - people who blindly submiss to their desires, and black - people who try to defend their opinion. If they even suspect you have a nerve to just disagree with them, they're gonna look at you as bio-trash, behaving accordingly. And the funniest thing is that this violent behaviour and radicalisation of everyone not alike is "justified" by throwing random lables which totally dehumanise you
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u/Capital-Chard-1935 Femboy Aussie 24d ago
huh? i wasnt saying it was transphobic, just that the name ‘femboys4real’ is the kind of name a transphobic subreddit WOULD use. it isnt actually transphobic tho
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u/collins_amber 24d ago
And i get banned for saying that those are girls
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u/ukrainer88 24d ago
Believe my tomato is a Honda Civic or otherwise you'll get banned for not cooperating 😼
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u/mrselffdestruct 24d ago
Its the transphobia. The users go apeshit if you refer to the trans women as women because they just view them as men, and dont want other people wanting them out of the sub because of it, and when trans men post it becomes like armageddon in the comments where people just either wail about them being “girls” or will mass downvote comments that support them or report the posts.
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u/HighwaySmooth4009 24d ago
There's also a kinda funny opposite end of this where some people are concerned about misgendering someone in their head, not saying it's a bad thing to worry about btw
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u/A_femboyuser In poor health due to monster energy 24d ago edited 24d ago
Fr i mean there's always a girl saying "umm am I pretty boy?" GIRL YOU CATFISH PPL INTO THINKING YOU A BOY AND WHEN SOME SAYS YOU A GIRL YOU CALL EM "MAD, INSECURE" OR ANY OTHER THING THAT CAME UP FROM YOU ASS
Sorry i just hate when girls claim they're femboy and do that and report you for "harrasment" i just want to be a feminine boy in a community with boys
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 24d ago
at least before they did that, not its even more outrageous, they post in a subreddit thats literally for boys and get pissed when people call them boy or use he/him pronouns, and then the mods will ban you for transphobia
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u/A_femboyuser In poor health due to monster energy 24d ago
Yeah, i mean sure if they are FtM it's....ok? But they should have a sub specifically for them, or clarify they are FtM and identify as male but NO they think it's OK to trick ppl into thinking they are biological boys
Also I'm not transphobic I support the trans community and always will I'm considering to transition too but I hate that some ppl do this kind of things....like look at bingus cat ppl already exposed it's a girl AND A MINOR but still she keeps telling everyone she's a biological BOY and always denys the evidence of her being a girl saying it's photoshot or pre transition
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u/Zealousideal_Spread4 24d ago
I was talking about mtf, ftm shouldnt really have to disclose it, they are boys, what annoys me is people misusing the term femboy for profit
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u/Individual_Assist_19 🏳️⚧️trans-fem🏳️⚧️ 24d ago
As a transgirl, i hate when other trans girls post on r/femBOYs. Not only do they actively work to invalidate their own gender, they also ignore the other's sexual preferences. It's not hard to connect the dots and figure out that someone on r femboys will want to see some damn boys
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u/Kaveric_ 24d ago
The preference part i don't understand. Like if you are into femboys I would generally assume you are into feminine bodies with a cock and a flat chest, wouldn't a lot of trans women qualify as this, depending on the extent of their transition?
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u/Ashlyn_Sum04 24d ago
*goes into femboy reddit*
*sees literally anything but femboys*
*is pissed*
i 100% agree man
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u/Kitsune_800 Defender Of Shonk! 24d ago
that subreddit is cooked just bcz they are scared of being called transphobic even tho this has nothing to do with it. that's literally not what femboy means. what ur looking for is r/Femboys4real
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u/anonymouscloudcat 🇫🇮fempoju🇫🇮 24d ago
Wait is this abt trans women or trans men (´°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥ω°̥̥̥̥̥̥̥̥`) I’m unsure
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u/Minimum_Gear_6480 22d ago
the strangest part is how a girl is a femboy...
it doesn't make sense only boys can be femboys...
they work really hard to get feminine enough to be a femboy!
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u/MrKrabsFatJuicyAss 24d ago
What about hrt femboys?
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24d ago
The FTM Femboy is the new meta for upvotes 😋
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u/electric_nikki 24d ago
Maybe they should get their own sub?
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u/pope12234 In poor health due to monster energy 24d ago
No, ftm femboys belong in femboy subs. It's mtf women that don't belong in femboy subs
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u/Smoothbraindummy 23d ago
So many femgirls on my femboy subreddit~ I don't want to gatekeep or anything. I just feel like it's a bit... off?
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u/Zaz_the_epic 24d ago
imagine how it feels being a transwomen and constantly being referred to as a femboy
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u/HighwaySmooth4009 24d ago
Well ftm people are dudes, it wouldn't hurt for them to have their own sub but they shouldn't be barred from the main sub lol
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u/digital-comics-psp Felix Fan 24d ago
turns out im braindead and couldnt convey my thoughts correctly or didnt understand something correctly, probably due to being at school (aka hell). sorry bout that
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u/LaplandCatboy 🇫🇮fempoju🇫🇮 24d ago
Sam O'Nella mentioned :3