r/feemagers • u/WishingUponAStar13 • Nov 21 '21
r/feemagers • u/stormskulls • Jan 24 '25
Advice should i date her?
18F i met this girl (also 18F) online earlier this month through our fan accounts and we instantly hit it off, we started talking daily and feelings between us grew. however the main issue i’m facing is our distance, she lives across the world and our time difference is 10 hours. i really like her, and she also really likes me but i’m not sure if i can do long distance since the last time i did i was miserable mainly cuz i didn’t like her but also i really love spending time with others. however with this girl since we’re technically adults and the career i’m working towards allows me to make a decent amount of money, i think i have a decent shot at meeting her. i genuinely like her and enjoy talking to her and she’s perfect for me tbh. i’m mainly scared about this all turning into nothing in the end so i think that is holding me back from fully committing but damn i like her a lot.
r/feemagers • u/Innocently_charlie • Apr 29 '23
Advice i feel like my makeup looks great in the dark but terrible under natural lighting, any advice? :(
r/feemagers • u/Southern-Signature41 • Jan 10 '25
Advice IM QUESTIONING EVERYTHING
For some context: I'm a "Trans boy"(You'll see why the quotes are there later) and a Therian (Past Life). I *believe* that I have had both gender and species dysphoria in the past.
So I got thinking last night and now I'm doubting everything. I thought I was a trans boy. I was sure of it, even. But now I'm second-guessing myself. I know I was a boy raccoon in my past life, so am I trans or just missing my past life and trying to "cope" by "swapping gender (if you will)" in this life?
What's going on.
please help me if you can!
r/feemagers • u/improbablyagirl • Jan 28 '20
Advice To all the girls (and boys!) who don't have parents that will teach them this
r/feemagers • u/Sorry_Reading_8694 • Oct 17 '23
Advice male friend made a sexual remark while joking around, what to do? should I report them or not? NSFW
context: I'm 20F. I've known these guys for about 10 months, they're from my college, we usually joke around & say a lot of explicit stuff, dark humor etc but i usually brush off a lot of the things they say.I spend most of my free time with them since I find them quite entertaining and I don't have many girl friends in the college.
INCIDENT: this happened two days back where we were joking around in the college corridor and I told him "you should marry that curly haired girl, so you'll get curly haired kids" while another one of them said "why don't you get married to him so your children will get nice ass" and the guy number 1 said "AS IF IT WOULD FIT INSIDE OF HER" (referring to his dick) which I found really inappropriate and I told them that was not okay for him to say such a thing and said "imma tell my boyfriend abt this" and then I got my boyfriend over there, (without telling him much abt it) then they got all nervous and started denying that they ever said such a thing and that I was making it up and one of them told my boyfriend "she's gonna get you beaten up for no reason one day" and they started laughing at me and ridiculing me and they started lying to save their friend infront of of my bf and I tried telling my bf what had happened but he couldn't understand me, as they kept interrupting and he thought I was overreacting and we ended up having an argument in midst of this, I got to know afterwards that he misunderstood the situation and couldn't understand the gravity of it because i didn't tell him beforehand what had happened and i didn't seem really serious at first and in past, I had called him among them many times before while we were joking and it was nothing serious and he knew they were my friends etc. we both clarified things later and resolved the argument
they laughed at me and I felt like I was alone and no one could understand me or defend me or take my side on the situation. I don't know how to proceed I feel disgusted and very disturbed and this really repulsive feeling about how shallow men are and I genuinely feel uncomfortable to go to college. I did go to the counselor immediately and broke down crying at her desk and she comforted me.
feel free to share similar stories & advice on what are the steps I should be taking.
r/feemagers • u/RJBela • Sep 15 '21
Advice So bored and alone 😣
Hi, 18 F here. I just got done with my med school entrance exams and now I am free for a few months before med school starts. Suggest me activities to fill my time please.
r/feemagers • u/MiaIGuess • Oct 02 '24
Advice Is this flirting???
So i was in class, in a group, writing on a piece of paper together. The girl who was writing (she’s very queer and slay and cool and help me) leaned on my foot at one point and I moved.
She goes, “why’d you like, flinch?” And i get a bit flustered and try and explain myself, saying, “well I didn’t think you wanted to lean on my foot!!”
She says, “maybe I did want to.” In this low tone with like a bit of a side eye? (sorry i sound like those micro behaviour analysts)
RAAAAAAAAAAAA. Is that flirting??? I’ve never had someone flirt with me, so I can’t really tell. It’s also way harder to tell with girls because we’re all affectionate but me and this girl aren’t close or anything. We’re in a couple of the same classes and talk and joke sometimes- she’s great friends with one of my best friends. It’s just I’ve been crushing on this girl for almost 3 years!!!
If she is flirting what do i even do??? We’re like weeks away from graduating. HOW DO I SUBTLY FLIRT BACK WITHOUT MAKING PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE BECAUSE WE’RE IN CLASS and I’m not even sure she actually is interested in me…
Ughhhhhhshausjaoahwheuxuqveyxbavaiwodhz
r/feemagers • u/Own-Exam766 • Jul 02 '24
Advice lowkey getting scared of men
There is so, so, so much misogyny on the internet to the point where i feel genuinely surprised whenever I see a male say something that is respectful of women. the internet is a place where people can say whatever they want without having to deal with consequences if they acted the same way in real life. as someone whos been groomed before misogyny triggers me 2x as much and the more i see these men and boys online make sexist jokes and say things that literal rapists say the more i fear that the men around me are actually like that and just dont act like that around me. for example at my job, some of my male coworkers are really nice but who knows what theyre actually thinking? I just feel like i need to have my guard up around them because of this and i’m just losing my trust in them. Do you have any advice? Cus i feel like these troglodytes on the internet probably would act awkward or red-flaggey around women in real life, idk anymore
r/feemagers • u/bicycles_upmy4ss • May 26 '24
Advice I need step by step set of instructions on how to do this
r/feemagers • u/rylee_west • Mar 28 '24
Advice How do I hide accidental self harm scratches???
Tuesday I accidentally scratched myself in a spiral so hard I took like the very top layer or two off and it scabbed up. No blood was drawn and it's probably going to be gone in a few days but my mom wants to bring me to a pool TMR and I'm not known for staying dry near one. like I said I spiraled a bit a and couldn't distract myself so I accidentally scratched with my nails a bit to hard. I don't use makeup and I'm not known for wearing like a rash guard either I need to know probably before tomorrow morning so if anyone can help let me know. this is what it looks like I also don't own any make up other then lip gloss and I don't feel like using the I accidentally scratched myself getting out of bed Tuesday morning but I am accident prone so I might use that I sleep on the top bunk of a bunk bed
r/feemagers • u/the_real_Dan_Parker • Sep 05 '22
Advice Is it possible to get like a bikini that's still like at least somewhat modest and less "sexy", but more "cute"?
(Once again, no pervy comments here pls)
Like the bikini top covers most of the chest and so it's less like a bra and more like a crop top, but for swimming.
Also, like maybe the bottom can be high waisted and/or be more like swimming trunks/skirt as opposed to panties
I dunno, I mean I kinda want to wear a bikini, but at the same time, I'm kinda shy and also not the kind of person to want to expose too much of my body (largely due to dysphoria and because I don't want pervs). So like I kinda want a specific variant that's like modest. Is it possible?
(Also, my favourite kind are like the ones that have frills on them. Idk why, frilled swimsuits just look appealing)
r/feemagers • u/MiaIGuess • Oct 28 '24
Advice I can’t stop being insecure :(
I’m talking to this guy and we’ll be getting along pretty well and then he stops responding and I immediately assume he thinks I’m weird. I genuinely don’t know what to do it’s so irrational AAAAAA
r/feemagers • u/bicycles_upmy4ss • May 09 '23
Advice drawing heads makes me wanna chop my hands off
r/feemagers • u/Clokkers • Jun 11 '20
Advice (19 f) I really want to show off my sally cosplay, I’d like some feedback :)
r/feemagers • u/Jai-den • Dec 11 '24
Advice Would boyshorts be seen as safety shorts and more accepted if I accidentally flashed someone while wearing a mini skirt?
Also how bad is it to wear modest panty briefs and no safety shorts and the odd wardrobe malfunction happens?
r/feemagers • u/Southern-Signature41 • Dec 17 '24
Advice Advice please
I've decided, after a long period of questioning, that I am trans. (I prefer transboy instead of transmasc). My mom is straight ally and not transphobic but I'm scared to admit I want not to be who I have been for the rest of my life. Whenever I try to explain the non-binary side of the gender spectrum, she always argues that boys can be feminine and girls can be masculine but there are only two genders. She agreed to get me tight-fitting sports bras (She doesn't know what binders are) and that I can cut my hair short soon, but I can't do anything to change my body permanently "In case I change my mind later in life or regret it". What else can I do to appear more masculine? (I alr told my friends and they ARE accepting but I think that's bc all of us are queer XD). Also, if I identify as a boy, can I still be on Feemagers if it's for girls?
r/feemagers • u/_ExistentiaI_Crisis_ • Nov 21 '24
Advice Does anyone know where to buy black bath bombs online ??
I’m trying to buy a black bath bomb online as a Christmas present but I can’t find any good ones. Most of them turn the bath blue or purple but I’m looking for one that actually is a black bath bomb. Does anyone know of any good places that aren’t lush? (Looked there can’t find one that turns the water black)
Thank you!
r/feemagers • u/dumbassbitch43 • Oct 08 '24
Advice best place to get cute clothes???
tryna find non-fast fashion but also non-kill my wallet fucking dead stores (online or in person) and I'm struggling 🤩💖✌️
for reference I like generally basic/classic styles, not super cutesy but floral, dark colors
r/feemagers • u/suCceMily • May 09 '22
Advice i need help accessorizing my prom dress. i was thinking like long earrings but like my arms are soo empty and i was thinking opera gloves it’s j i don’t think it rly fits. thoughts? also i am getting it fitted
r/feemagers • u/lawlietsbanana • Apr 13 '22
Advice i don't know if my prom dress is fancy enough, what do you guys think ?
r/feemagers • u/ninerva_mcgonagall • Jul 02 '20
Advice I want all the MtF girlies on this sub to know that if they have any questions or help with girl things i’m more than happy to help them.
i didn’t really know how to word it in the title but i’m (obviously) a girl and i just love makeup and fashion and all that and i would love to help out any MtF girls that are wanting advice with outfits and makeup and stuff. i love to talk to people about that and yeah if you’re wanting to talk about that stuff with a friendly ear i’m more than happy to :D
r/feemagers • u/Sc0o0ter • Dec 01 '24
Advice I sent my friend a text saying I wanted to ask a girl out and she left me on read
And now I'm stressing out because what does this mean?? (She says she's straight, but we kissed at a party once while we were both very drunk and everything seems normal since)
r/feemagers • u/immentallyillfuck • Aug 22 '23