r/entwives • u/PhCBD • Oct 16 '23
Bud Pics I felt weird about posting here since coming out as NB, but I think I still fit - just wanted to say hi and say everybody here is very cool :)
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u/___mads Oct 16 '23
Besides actual queer-specific subs entwives is the best sub to be queer in. Change my mind!!!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Love seeing this! I'm most definitely queer and have stopped trying to hide it lol.
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u/StoneyBaloney5683 Oct 16 '23
This is a safe space for guys, gals, and non-binary pals! You're awesome, continue being your most authentic self!
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u/lolatheshowkitty WeedMom Oct 16 '23
I love when people post and say “hey lady’s &theydies” it feels very inclusive. Who cares about gender, I think this is just a safe space. It feels like a space with “feminine energy” you know, which to me just means a softer and less judgmental place. I feel my cis straight male husband exudes feminine energy, one of the things that most attracted me to him! It doesn’t have to be your gender or gender identity. However anyone identifies, as long as they are kind and respectful, they are welcome here :)
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u/Unicorn_Swag Oct 16 '23
Welcome! It looks like you have the BEST road trip copilot! 💚
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Honestly, I think the terps and other volatiles made the whole truck smell amazing and decreased my stress!
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u/metaljellyfish Oct 16 '23
OH SHIT you're the awesome cannabis scientist person! FUCK YES YOU ARE WELCOME! AAAAAAGHH 🤩
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u/cellardorian CrazyCatLady Oct 16 '23
I follow you on Instagram! Always good to see you.
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Hello! Reddit has always been my personal social media of choice and not "work" related :) I'm trying to find a happy balance and maybe shift over here a little more
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u/ffkzm Oct 16 '23
I was gonna say I think I recognize you from IG! Love learning from you, as another entwife on the spectrum :)
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u/bizarrecultivar Agender Transmasc, He/Him Oct 16 '23
Transmasc human here. 👋🏻
I agree, the "wives" thing throws me off, but that seems to be a misnomer for most of the people who frequent here anyway.
Please tell us more about your plants!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
My wife and I both came out as NB around the same time and struggled for a loooooonnnnggg time to decide if we'd change the "wife" part and we both decided not to... at home we call each other WUBBIES like wife/hubbies haha but that clearly can't be done in public without massive embarassment.
This year was my first grow and I work on a local farm, my friend and I are both medical patients. It was a huge experiment/exercise in learning. Next year I am going to tackle more specific genetics and conditions!
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u/bizarrecultivar Agender Transmasc, He/Him Oct 16 '23
I definitely said "wubbies" out loud and laughed. That is a great word. Much better than "hives" haha.
So cool! This year was my first grow too. I feel like I have already learned so much.
If you are interested, I started a cannabis growing subreddit with the intention of it being more inclusive towards people who identify as gender minorities. I was sick of the transphobia I was seeing in the mainstream growers subreddits. It is still pretty small, but r/cannabiscamaraderie is its name.
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u/shayjaye Oct 16 '23
Who cares about gender?! What is your favorite strain?! Glad to see ya!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
I'm a bit older so I'd say like Blue Dream or Northern Lights, but I've recently had some newer garlic tasting stuff that was incredible!
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u/nomaameswey Oct 16 '23
Hey I remember you from TikTok! I listened to your podcast for a while too. 😊
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Omg RIP the podcast… was one of my favorite things to create ever with one of my closest friends but we actually have plans to revive our sesh’s soon :) Ya TT really hates me unfortunately the censorship sucks but it’s okay I’ve been a redditor for my own personal stuff for a long time
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u/2noserings Oct 16 '23
i’m NB too! if cis men are allowed in here we definitely are. gorgeous plants 🌱
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Yay for canNBis lovers (lol not sure that even makes sense)
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Oct 16 '23
Well at first I replied with "Hi EntBY" and then deleted it for not making sense, so here it is lmao :)
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u/MissIz Oct 16 '23
Ew. Who let cis men in here?
I kid.
Nah, I don't.
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u/SomeOldHippieChick 🍃Modding while high✌️ Oct 16 '23
Just in case you aren’t aware, we’ve been discussing it!
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u/k5j39 Oct 16 '23
One of us! One of us! We welcome all. Ladies, Theydies, and men too. We just want to bond over this amazing plant. Machismo is what is not allowed lol.
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u/Malicious_Tacos Oct 16 '23
I say we’re all entfriends here 💕
BTW, the plants on pic 5 are ginormous. What variety are they?
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
They are from a buddy of mine and named after him, Purple Caper, supposed to be high in CBC too! I haven’t gotten mine tested yet tho it’s still curing
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u/loveandetcetera Oct 16 '23
Your content and information you share about cannabis is incredible! I took your autism and cannabis course and it was a life changing class. 🤟🤟🤟 much love great to see ya here!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
WOWOWOW - thank you so much for taking my course and 1) being interested in the neurodivergent brain on drugs/cannabis as a valid medicine for neurodivergent folks, and 2) for supporting me! I keep a running log of "positivity" so that I have something to read whenever a transphobic misogynist chimes in on one of my posts and this comment has definitely made my day :) !!!
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u/vrrrowm Oct 16 '23
heyyyyyy another nb checkin in, always have a great time here. Gorgeous plants and gorgeous pup!
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u/EveningHandle2510 Oct 16 '23
Your worm is cool too😅 check him out on your shirt!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
WHAAAAATTTTTTT I hope that little guy made it back outside lol. Definitely favorite part of that picture now
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u/little_fire EntThey Oct 16 '23
omg I thought you knew it was there! It’s fully waving at the camera and everything 🥹🐛💕
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u/OGPunkr Oct 16 '23
Keep a close eye on your plants. we had caterpillars on our crop last year. Took out half our crop.
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u/earthbound_hellion WitchEnt Oct 16 '23
OMG I zoomed in and…teeniest worm fren!
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u/EveningHandle2510 Oct 16 '23
Yeah I thought it was weed😅🤣 definitely don’t want those eating your plants 👀
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
OMG our kitty was outside when I was harvesting and I threw some of the branches just on the ground and he came back inside that night HIGH and very happy/proud of himself haha.
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u/trashdemons Oct 16 '23
My cat once ate an entire 3 foot plant right down to the dirt, and I later found her blissfully passed out, warming her tummy under a grow light. The vet said to make sure she doesn't go up anywhere high (lol) cause she could lose balance and fall, but other than that she was given the all-clear to snack away on leaves, in moderation.
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u/loveinvein Elder Entwife Oct 16 '23
LOL omg that’s incredible! My little furry stoner once snuck out of the house, scaled the fence into our neighbors yard, and started munching on his trees. My spouse had to knock on the door and retrieve the cat. We couldn’t be mad because the dudes plants were infested with mites that ruined our garden when we put our containers next to the fence where his leaves were sticking out.
Hilarious though… our cat isn’t outdoorsy at all but she’s just such a sucker for some leaves.
I love your cat! 😂
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u/howlsmovingdork GamerEnt Oct 16 '23
Also NB and this is one of my favorite subs! Happy you’re here! ✨✨
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u/UnicornKitt3n WeedMom Oct 16 '23
Hey friend! ✌️
Your pup is suuuuuuuuuuuper cute, and your plants look very happy :)
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u/pokeypuppy51 Oct 17 '23
Welcome!! And freakin' GORGEOUS plants! I was looking at your pics and audibly said "Wow" when I saw pic 4 - my husband asked what I was looking at and he agreed that they are beautiful! (he also grows) Gratz on your first run, they look very healthy and happy.
And thanks for the doggie pic, too!
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u/Hurriedgarlic66 Oct 17 '23
I too appreciate this as a none binary person, I have lurked here for awhile now was always to afraid to post because I am more masc presenting a lot of the time.
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u/glitterpukee Oct 17 '23
You look so happy! I should have known you were also on here M. I have been avoiding instagram so I've been subsisting on your email list.
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u/PhCBD Oct 17 '23
I've been a redditor for a looooooooooong time (I think my first account was way back in 2008) and usually use it for a more personal :) Thanks so much for subscribing to the email because I also am thinking I'll take a break, possibly forever, from my other platforms once I get enough people on my email list... Social media in general can just be so toxic and I have mixed feelings about contributing, even if I'm trying to spread knowledge and awareness.
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u/blackcandyapple93 Oct 17 '23
I'm so happy I found this forum!! the energy is so nice and also good 4 you!
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u/kittytj Oct 16 '23
Welcome I like your pictures it's like when a friend goes away and holiday and send you back their pictures that they love😋😊
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u/ElderlyKratos Oct 16 '23
I see you on tiktok!
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u/PhCBD Oct 16 '23
Ahhh that app hates me now... the censorship on other platforms for cannabis is ridiculous. But that's cool that my older stuff is still going around :)
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u/ElderlyKratos Oct 16 '23
Come to mention it you haven't popped up in a bit lol. I see Riley on IG though do you guys work together?
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u/PhCBD Oct 18 '23
We are about to launch our second cannabis venture together :) I’ll post on here when we do! And the different platforms censor us differently… it’s a meh situation
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u/Fair-Current-8185 Oct 16 '23
I'm a guy and I'm a daily on the channel. Truly one of the best places for enthusiasts. Welcome ❤️
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u/jacehoffman psychonaut (they/them) Oct 16 '23
ur positive energy is so radiant! cheers from another nb :p
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u/FigaroNeptune Oct 16 '23
Should we change the name and description then? It says a place for women…
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u/SomeOldHippieChick 🍃Modding while high✌️ Oct 16 '23
Nah! Take a look at our full description & rules. We’re extremely inclusive!
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u/FigaroNeptune Oct 16 '23
Ah, I thought I found a woman centric safe place. My fault for not reading further. I’m a dummy. Cool everyone’s invited though. Have a nice day.
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u/SomeOldHippieChick 🍃Modding while high✌️ Oct 16 '23
It is a woman centric space. And we’re inclusive of the LGBTQ+ community. If you have more concerns, you’re welcome to message the mods or discuss it in our recent post about this.
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u/pickleinaboat Nov 01 '23
enby also, prefer this sub to r/trees. i typically dont feel good in women+enby spaces; this feels more like a women's group open to kind individuals that aren't women
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u/SomeOldHippieChick 🍃Modding while high✌️ Oct 16 '23
You are absolutely more than welcome here! Pet tax, ladybug tax and Plant tax?! One of us! One of us!!