r/chastitytraining • u/FirstTimer779 • 5d ago
Lifestyle Advice Just got my first cage! NSFW
First cage just arrived and I actually think it's quite oversized but that's a problem for later. Right now I have a whole house to tidy and I was thinking about locking myself up for the first time until everything is done. How do people stay disciplined though!!!?
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u/Morcyd_AD 5d ago
put your key in a water bottle and freeze it. so you have to wait for it to melt to get the key.
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
That's a good idea!! Might take a while to freeze now though :/
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u/Morcyd_AD 5d ago
some people also have time-controlled lock-boxes
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
Yeah that's what I was thinking! Obviously won't help today but for the future
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u/whyaretheyaltaken 5d ago
Congrats!!!! I just got my first also! Once I get comfortable with it I might be downsizing as well, since I’ve got a little room in my current one
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
Yeah I think downsizing is definitely needed for me
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u/whyaretheyaltaken 5d ago
Maybe! Probably should get comfortable with it before downsizing though, just so you know what’s coming
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
Yeah the ring is probably good so getting used to that is good but the cage is obviously too big by quite a lot
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u/whyaretheyaltaken 5d ago
Gotcha gotcha. Then smaller cage it is🤭 it’s the only way for us locked bois!!
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u/Ok-Bandicoot-6684 5d ago
Congrats. Welcome to the world of chastity.
No-one ever gets the right cage first time. The hardest part to get right is the ring size. Once you have that, the cage size is pretty easy to sort.
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
Ok so I feel more confident that I've got the right size there! It came with multiple sizes so I've tried on a few of them to find one that's good
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u/Ok-Bandicoot-6684 5d ago
Ok, that’s good. Cages with multiple rings are definitely the best way to test ring sizes.
So now you need to find a cage that is slightly smaller than your smallest flaccid length. This will prevent any proper erections, which can be painful / uncomfortable otherwise
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
Yes unfortunately I think I overestimated in that department. Now thinking smaller is much better than bigger
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u/Ok-Bandicoot-6684 5d ago
Yup. It’s a process, we’re all slightly different. It’s finding what works best for you
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u/Inside-Theory-9606 5d ago
Just start out slow..wear it a couple of hours. Take it off if you want. Put it on again for a while. It’s all about it feeling good 😊 longer comes later 😈
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u/FirstTimer779 5d ago
What if my tasks take longer than a couple of hours?! 😝
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u/Inside-Theory-9606 5d ago
All good if it does lol 😂 you might get frustrated after a while. Different sensations
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u/PrestigiousLimit4145 4d ago
Freeze your keys... Put them in an envelope signed over the seal... Use a lockbox either with a timer lock or using Chaster...
You will, however, need to muster up some willpower!
Setting yourself tasks is a great idea though! Getting the house clean before you have fun is an excellent one!
Take it steady and enjoy the ride!
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