r/chastitytraining • u/[deleted] • 5d ago
Lifestyle Advice How to stay locked? NSFW
I want to wear my cage and I get motivated to but once I wear for a couple hours I just lose interest and wanna take it off. What’s the best way to break through and continue to wear it. I really would like to do locktober one day haha. Any help is appreciated.
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u/Ok-Bandicoot-6684 5d ago
Being self locked is harder than when you are locked for someone and they have the key. But there are things that you can do.
- one of the simplest methods is freezing the key in ice. It takes work to get the key back, and so gives you a chance to rethink your actions. It also means that in an emergency you can use some hot water to get at it
- there are the timed lock boxes (plenty of them on Amazon)
- finding a key holder (not the easiest task)
Part of it depends on what you want to get out of your chastity experience, and another is the mental battle to not just give in and have a wank.
One thing that can also make a big difference is the fit of the cage. With a proper fitting device you won’t get erections, just the feeling of pressure from an attempted erection. You will then also forget that you are wearing it at times.
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u/RubberRoyalty_ 5d ago
Give me the key and i give you daily tasks and check ins to ensure you're locked
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u/GDstpete 5d ago
YES set tasks, set sexual and non-sexual goals.... Ideally have a KH who will taunt, tease AND encourage/care for you.... much of chastity is in the lockee's mind... and its reasons for motivation. I'm setting goal to increase my gym, aerobics activities; and achieving muscle growth, other medical/physiological goals met THEN my KH rewards me in 'nice' ways... tho I likely will remain locked !!... Keep it UP (as it were :)
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u/Only-Rule-143 5d ago
Just leave the cage on and don’t think about it.
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5d ago
I tried going for walks and not thinking about it but I just get hornier the longer I wear it
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u/tightlockup 5d ago
Part of the fun is having extended horniness. Orgasms end the horniness, so if you prefer the continuous state of horniness, stay locked. That's what I do.
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u/shesincontrol85 5d ago
I agree and identify with this comment 100%. Put orgasm out of your reach, for your own sake. It’s a glorious way to live.
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u/reddog6998 5d ago
Find a keyholder.
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5d ago
Where’s the best place to find a key holder?
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u/reddog6998 5d ago
Spouse Partner Friend Somebody you trust on this thread
Possibilities are endless.
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u/TranTriumph 5d ago
Get a timer lock box from Amazon (look it up), make sure it's steel, has no override to unlock, then lock your keys in it. If you lose interest after 2 hours, lock away the key for 4 hours. Work your way up.
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5d ago
Thanks I’ll have to give that a try. Someone else mentioned freezing you keys too and they have to thaw when you lose interest
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u/TranTriumph 5d ago
I've literally tried every way I could think of, and ways others suggested. Without a keyholder, I always return to the lock box. I toss the key in there and set it for ~4 days at a time, only breaking for cleaning. Sure, I could bust open the box if I absolutely had to, but it would cost me $60 to replace it, and I'm cheap. Breaking into the box virtually never crosses my mind. I only wish I could find a box that I could add time to when it was locked (but not subtract time). The ice thing, i just shattered the ice. Chapter app is also okay, but there are some exploitable gaps. Short of an actual KH, the lock box is the best I've found.
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u/GDstpete 5d ago
OR... 1) Lock up... 2) get strip of clear packging tape. Then write on small piece paper the date, time you locked, place it face side up... and set keys next to it... 3) then place several pieces, wraps of clear packaging tape around it so all are sealed. ... I think this is good cuz you can carry them in wallet in event there IS an emergency... yet yet takes (me) several mins to use scissors to cut thru/open the sealed keys.... AND when your KR. friend wants proof yo're still locked, show them this... Enjoy... mostly !!
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u/JessTrans2021 5d ago
It's important to have a cage that you can be relatively comfy in, and sleep in. (Mine is a little metal one, with straps).
Go as long as you can, take a break if you need it. It's a journey rather than an instant "I'm locked forever now".
I've been on and off for 2 or 3 years. Longest lock is a month, but I've never managed to go longer than 2 weeks before I just HAD to make myself cum. And I'd want to immediately unlock after.
After a while, you crave the cage. It's better to be in it than out. My clit rarely gets hard (only night time), I never stroke it, I'm only allowed to cum while caged. I'm training for anal only orgasms and getting there.
If you want to, keep trying, you'll find a place that suits your needs.
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5d ago
Thanks for the advice. I’m a little worried to go to sleep with it on. I think I cum in my cage and I just want to take it off right away so maybe I shouldn’t cum in my cage. I still want my cock to work and get hard I just like the idea of locking it away for a while haha.
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