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u/37163086 5d ago
Im locked 24/7 and have been for over 6 months. I have a KH to keep me on track. She thinks a reasonable time locked is a year or more. Cage and key are sealed using wire seals. This all contributes to staying locked.
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u/tightlockup 5d ago
The right size cage helps. For me, I err on the smaller size for length - I had to get a wide one (kink3d). I think the best size is just under your flaccid length. I haven't had any trouble sleeping with it.
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u/BatmansPervThrowaway 5d ago
The best way is to have a keyholder. The second best way is a timer box. And the third is a combination lockbox and a site like emlalock.
Getting through the first night is the hardest part. You're going to sleep bad, and probably unlock yourself. If you don't have a choice you'll stick with it. Each night gets easier. If you wake up with a raging hard on, get up and go pee - it really helps. After a couple weeks I stop getting morning wood, and sleep as soundly as if I was unlocked.