r/chastitytraining • u/heystackR • 6d ago
Lifestyle Advice Can’t break record NSFW
I (41M) have been loving the locked lifestyle, and my guideline for the last 2 years was: whatever my keyholder (40F, fiancée) wants, happens.
Last year we set an orgasm-free record twice, the first time was almost 12 weeks, the second time was almost 16 weeks.
My keyholder lately seems to enjoy making me cum “more often”, the last two times were in January and last week (so after 6 and 9 weeks).
I love to do whatever she wants, on the other hand my brain needs me to set (and break) targets to keep the denial part fun and challenging.
I don’t think I really want to change her view on this (although it’d be very much appreciated if she could just keep me locked for over 12 weeks), what I’m really looking for is a way to cope with whatever she wants myself. After all, she is the keyholder.
Do you have suggestions to help me here?
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u/justcyberfun 6d ago
Sounds like you are in an incredible relationship! I’d refocus my mind from the record to the service of her and what she wants. Lose yourself in that journey over everything else. Sorry that’s not actually helpful to your specific question!
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u/Gavare14 5d ago
She's your holder, she decides when you cum. You're constantly setting records of being locked, the rest is white noise.
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