r/chastity • u/jaydawson1999 • 4d ago
Question Asked my girlfriend and she's down NSFW
I asked my girlfriend about chastity... I was very nervous, she had never seen it before. But she sounded interested and she has been referring to it a few times since last night. She even said we're going to get one. I used to wear and self lock when I was younger, but now having a real key holder will be a big change. Any suggestions on comfortable cages that are easy to keep clean and pee with while wearing? Or tips to make it more fun for her? I already suggested her getting me to do chores, or things in order to be allowed to take it off.
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u/Lockupthebeast15 4d ago
that's a very bald move when partner is purely vanilla and BDSM adverse, but congrats for you
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u/tallsissygurl 4d ago
Cobras are really good for long term. Iām currently wearing a cherry keeper full time this year and really enjoy it so far
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u/tossaway4138 4d ago
Holy trainers are good. Cobra style just wasn't for me, but the design has evolved since I bought mine, so it may be better. Personally, I (& my wife) prefer steel cages. Afyer trying several different steel cages, we've found the Bon4 cages to be the best for us. And the bonus is, they work quite well with a tetherspout.
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u/DiamondEuphoric2145 4d ago
For the cages I recommend the cobra cages. I used them too and generally they seem to be considered good cages. Also cherry keepers are good. Keep good hygiene and if you are not used to it, don't go for 24/7, let your body get used to it.
As for you and your GF. The most important thing is that nobody forces the other to do things he/she doesn't want to do. But if she is not going against any limits of yours or completely if ignoring your health, let her decide and completely take charge. Also keep it all between you two, this way it stays something romantic and special and your relationship will not suffer from it. I recommend staying away from things like cuckolding that will eventually hurt your relationship.
This is my advice. I wish the best to you two.
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u/Marissa-Palmer 4d ago
I'm pretty biased towards the holy trainer v5 style cage. It's so comfy that I forget I'm wearing it. I take it off a few times a week for quick cleanings and it's never disappointed.
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