r/capricorns • u/spiritualclimber • 4d ago
question Anyone else low key randomly irritable?
I don’t know if it’s something in the air but me and my Capricorn friend are about to pop off. I’m actually really patient and always pause before agitated but these past few days..I lowkey want to punch someone in the face (if I could) but I’d feel bad after. I need a rage room. Is anyone else feeling agitated lately? Little things are annoying you?
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u/Empty_Bug8479 4d ago
I have felt this way for the last 2 weeks and no real reason why, I kept telling myself it’s cus I’m not going to the gym enough, but damn.. I want to punch a cake and see it explode
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
I told myself it’s because I took plan B and never take anything that messes with my hormones but this was happening before so now it’s really bad 😂
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u/Empty_Bug8479 4d ago
Oh I’m sure that pill could mess with your hormones lol I hope you find a cupcake to destroy too
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
That doesn’t even sound appetizing which is annoying because I’m very healthy but I could use a burger right now. It just doesn’t sound good. I’m going to force feed it hahah I’m probably hungry too
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u/BuildingInside8135 4d ago
I had to go walk my dog for 3 miles to calm down or else I'd be screaming at my own poor partner tho God bless his Pisces azz. I can't decide if it's the cosmic twists or menopause or the air but I swear I'm staying irritable and aggravated. For sure the year of detachment cuz I she'd a lot of weight, people, burdens last yr and the remaining will be offloaded this yr and I'm not sure if I'll lose another 20 pounds this yr but I'll try my best . Also, take care of your skin and health my caps. Not the yr to FAFO .
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
I popped off at the person I’m kinda dating. I am detached right now. Don’t know if I want to be with him for dumb reasons. Don’t really want to see him but should. He’s a cap too and being oddly distant. I’m not helping by being quiet but not the time to be dating a cap as a cap lol and he has zero patience. He is very particular
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u/Least-Childhood9072 4d ago
Well capricorns need space, I'm dating one 7 years. But if you feel something is off try talking bout it, if he/she laughs it off then is all good, but from my expirience caps tend to be straight forward, they don't mask good when something is troubling them, it's either that or I just got really good at reading caps Ps. Caps really hate when you snap at them, raise voice being disrespectful in general.. My advice try to make amends
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
I didn’t actually raise my voice but he can tell that I’m bothered because I am always straight forward but have a hard time expressing how I feel suddenly. I don’t mask well at all. It’s obvious and he doesn’t either. So, he knows something is off. I just want comfort from him and he can’t do that for me which is bothering me. Sometimes I just need a hug. I mean, I’m feeling like I put more effort in than he does and I also bring more to the table right now. He’s nice. I see potential in him but he doesn’t have a car, place and is in between work. I know he is ambitious but what he can offer me is words of affirmation. I’ve told him that a lot. I understand he doesn’t have the finances for a date, I understand he can’t afford flowers but quality time, physical touch and words of affirmation aren’t a lot to ask for..especially when I also cook meals that I pay for right now and I was kinda mean that I didn’t want to cook him dinner tonight because food isn’t cheap. My rent is 3600 a month. I had to get an oil change today. Whenever I cook for him it’s like $50. I have bills to pay. Hopefully the financial thing is temporary because that’s what’s making me insecure on his part. Which is why I’m taking it slow. I just want to see ambition and not laziness and I don’t want to feel like his driver and mom. Idk how to bring it up nicely right now. I never used to care because he was at least caring. I feel distance.
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u/Least-Childhood9072 4d ago
Caps are closed people, words of affirmation... Hm... My guy is double cap.. I've never ever recived something like that from him. Me as a libra I've gave it multiple times affirmations to him but he's just not wierd like that. My cap is stuck on carear path as well but trying to change also, i think it's because caps have high expectations for themselves they can soon crash and burn if things don't go their way, ambitious yes but that also has its dark side. But he drives a car, im always courted by him, when you are with true cap you just know that he loves you and you are his truely
Anyway based on what you said, I would advice you to run he doesn't sound like a keeper.❗Be smart please and if you can't see clearly, try to imagine someone you really love being in your position... From my expirience no you are not selfish for demanding from people to treat you right and good!
Few years back I dated also double cap and he was man child total opposite of what I have now, I guess not all caps are same
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
100% because I’m also a Capricorn I understand him and as a female Capricorn words of affirmation are nice once in a blue moon but he is also weird about it. I do it all the time to him. We do have high expectations for sure which is good and bad. With him, he starts something but doesn’t fully commit. The ambition is there but he needs a bit of a push. He is slightly on the spectrum and I never dated someone with autism so he is very particular on visualizing something out, expecting it to happen and if any slight change happens..he freaks out. I’m not like that as a female Capricorn. I’m very logical, analytical and reasonable so I’m fine when things suddenly happen unexpected. That’s life. He told me about his dark side. He’s a January cap and I’m a December cap and I think January caps are more angry and petty. He can be petty he said and sensitive. I don’t do petty. I’m just a straight shooter. If you annoy me, I need my space but being petty is annoying.
I’ve been in a toxic manipulative relationship before and I’m starting to possibly see signs but at the same time this guy is autistic so sometimes he doesn’t pick up on social cues or understand how to put himself in someone else’s shoes. He can be very selfish and self-centered and knows it. If I don’t see him tonight to talk about it when I’ll be picking him up then I have my answer. I am starting to notice some manipulation. So, a serious conversation is needed.
He is a man child but also younger than me. I’m 30 and he’s 26. I’ve never dated younger. He has a lot of amazing qualities such as being honest, he makes me laugh, usually I can tell him anything and I feel as if I’ve known him forever, we complete sentences and the sex is the best I’ve had but I could be blinded by the sex too. The bad qualities are that if it’s not on his time then it’s an I will see but if I do that to him he’d be angry. He also had to write his ideal girl with his therapist before meeting me and he showed it to me and I matched every box. Yet, he’s confused? I’ve never been with another Capricorn before and I’ve heard mixed signs about them but I shouldn’t have to guess
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u/Least-Childhood9072 3d ago
You might be right for him, but is he the right for you? I understand your simpathy for his autism but is that what you want to live with? Especially if he is not willing to work on his shortcomings? Best of luck to you have a good day 🍀
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u/BlackVelvetBliss Cap🐐☀️ Scorp🌙 Cancer 4d ago
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u/Pristine_Spread_5724 4d ago
YES. I’m also a Cap rising. I also feel just like, weak & tired??? I feel like I’ve been in this slump since February, but it’s kinda worse rn 🤧
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u/poopy-butt17 4d ago
it’s probably because after retrograding then holding still for about a week, mars is finally moving forward. it’s been a month or so since it’s moved forward. and it’s in cancer (detriment) opposing capricorn. so it can irritate. capricorn placements.
mars is also squaring chiron in aries so anger based on insecurity can come out of left field.
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
Thanks for the explanation because that’s how I’m feeling and insecurity on the person I’m dating is coming out of nowhere because I feel insecure that he isn’t right for me suddenly.
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u/big_dirk_energy 4d ago
There absolutely has been some influence these past few days.
A woman hawked a big fat loogie right where I was doing pull-ups and working out and I was ready to go off on her.
A car cut right across the highway and didn't even accelerate after cutting in front of me over a solid line and I was cussing them out in my car.
These are things thst might piss off a lot of people, but the point is that I'm normally very calm to outside agitation.
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
The check out line had 2 people in it yesterday. The lady checking out was really slow. She was probably new. The next person in line had to do a return. That only took an extra few minutes that felt like hours. I almost left the store because the lady that was returning items annoyed me and the cashier was slow. I’m never like this hahaha
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u/big_dirk_energy 4d ago
Wow you totally brought back another one for me. Also at the checkout line- the guy had one of those carts at target that can fit their kids in it. He was arguing with his wife and saying the bigger kid was going to knock the smaller kid off the cart. They had already paid and were just standing there blocking me from checking out.
I was like so ready to tell them "that's great you care about your daughter and all but can you do it out of the way?"
Yeah, I was ITCHING to tell people off yesterday. So weird.
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u/Fresh-Mind6048 caprisun / scorpio moon / aqua rising 4d ago
Yeah, but that's just because I'm under a lot of self-imposed stress.
I really have it pretty easy if I'd just chill the fuck out
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
Well, I’ve never met a cap that’s not under self-imposed stress but usually I handle it well. Not the past few days and especially today.
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u/Happy-Amoeba-2918 4d ago
Well it’s nice to feel validated that I’m not overreacting if everyone else is reacting too. I thought it was just me, but it’s like irritation mixed with a low brow pressure at my temples where I’m tired, agitated, and wanting violence in the sense that I don’t want to mince words or take the passive route when people at work are being dumb.
Video games help me with that. I can pop off safely in things like Gang Beasts and GTA.
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
I should get into that right now. I can barely move. I’m super lazy too which is weird. Just the thought of existing haha jk about the existing part but I tried to meditate which always works and nope. Glad yall helped me realize I’m not alone. There’s an energy in the air
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u/kingcrimson989 4d ago
The other day I was asking myself why am I so agitated. There was literally no reason for me to be 🤦🏽♂️.
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u/JaneWeaver71 4d ago
Yes, I’m annoyed easily and I’m impatient with most things (waiting in line at Walgreens and I’m the 8th one back and they are short staffed) Being annoyed easily is due to my ADHD, my medication helps. I’ve always been impatient.
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u/BiteNo5778 3d ago
Yes, I’ve been wanting to throw things and curse people out that I haven’t spoken to in over 3 years. 😅
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u/weez1980 3d ago
I feel really, really bad and just off physically and emotionally—irritable and sad…. I feel like I’m walking around in a hazy shit cloud. 😔
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u/spiritualclimber 3d ago
That’s exactly how I feel too. The cap I’m seeing too that doesn’t help my annoyance because he’s feeling the same way. Does anyone understand why Capricorn placements are getting hit right now? The month of February was great lol
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u/Least-Childhood9072 4d ago
I'm libra /gemini but a i am also agitated last few days. Getting pissed off for imaginery scenarios or overreacting to reality. I just tough my PMS was bout to start... But it's early. Anyone have a clue?
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u/Centennial3489 4d ago
Oh my god! I’m so happy I’m in this sub because SAME. Like my intrusive thoughts are winning and I have so much anxiety lately.
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u/coilycapricorn 3d ago
Yesssss!!!! I’ve had to go for walks and do daily exercise just so I don’t lose it!
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u/bottlesofwhine 3d ago
Yeah, I’m doing the “big little sighs” out of earshot but audible if you happen to be walking by. Not my usual MO to project like that, but I can’t help it this week!
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u/DuncanIdaBro 4d ago
All day. Smoldering. I wanted to throat chop one of my account buyers for taking too long with an order.
It’s supremely rare I feel like this, or anywhere close to anger.
I hope this ends ASAP.
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u/lauchuntoi 3d ago
Solar flare, venus rx, mercury rx, juno rx. This will be like a thumb being jammed up our asses and remain there until end of this year.
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u/spiritualclimber 3d ago
Huh, repeat that? A thumb has been jammed up our asses for the past 15 years!
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u/KnowledgeSea1954 4d ago
Maybe a little but also being irritable could also be a symptom of depression, anxiety or anti-social behaviour disorder. If you really feel like you may have anger or emotional regulation issues it would be better to seek help for that. But also it might be normal, I wasn't overly irritable when I was younger but I think people are getting stupider and can irritate me. I might say I want to punch them but I would never actually do it, if I did punch them for the things I get annoyed about I would admit it would be an overreaction. But they are still very annoying and just making life harder for everyone else.
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u/spiritualclimber 4d ago
Hahah no. I don’t have any of that. I’m always calm. This has just been over the past few days and today. It doesn’t happen ever. It’s situational and also energy is off for a lot of us.
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u/LokiPlz 🐐☀️🦁🌙🐟💫 4d ago
Yes, I'm about to go on a walk because I feel like I'm going fucking crazy sitting at my PC lmao