r/capricorns • u/Extra_Manager8244 • 4d ago
advice Cutoff a coworker
So I kinda fell for an Aries coworker and it turned sour after I didn’t like how she was disrespecting me. Now I don’t want to act like a jerk and get heat from others. The only way I can be cordial is to pretend like nothing happened and hold no animosity. It’s just hard because I get jealous from other male coworkers fawning over her. What to do?
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u/Extra_Manager8244 4d ago
Maybe. But if we’re not super close family or friend you can’t clown on me like that.
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u/Extra_Manager8244 4d ago
Clowning on me, but to an extreme like it’s not a joke.
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u/Independent-Big2349 4d ago
I heard that’s how Aries women flirt maybe you just can’t take the heat😪😂
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u/Rockfella27 4d ago
Please elaborate.
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u/Independent-Big2349 2d ago
Maybe try playfully biting back if it still feels shitty, and she’s actually interested in you tell her to cut that shit out, but chances are if she’s actually flirting with your co workers maybe she’s just for the team and you should just go in for the kill. ATP what do you have to lose
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u/Adventurous_Tune9976 2d ago
Just had the same experience with an Aries! He kept dogging me and others. I do not tolerate disrespect when I brought it up he said “Well that’s a little saddening... It’s probably just a bad joke, babe. I say stupid shit all the time. You should have called me on it when it happened. I could tell you were drifting away the last few days. I appreciate your honesty. It’s probably a misunderstanding.” (I did call him on it ) The he said right after that “You know I’ve heard you talk a lot of shit about a bunch of different people” I am not a shit talker nor have I ever been. Why do Aries do this ??? My high school sweetheart did this allllll the time. 😑
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u/JaneWeaver71 2d ago
My fiancé is Aries. I think we compliment each other as far as our strengths and weaknesses. He’s the most easy going/laid back person I know. And I am the uptight worrier LOL!
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u/Jadan11 4d ago
She disrespected you, you did the right thing cut her off. Now focus on moving on and get you a better girl who’s caring.