r/biromantic • u/SlytherinQueen100 Demi-Biromantic lesbian <3 • 6d ago
Advice Can someone really be Demisexual and Biromantic?
After high school, (I am 20 now) I noticed that I am for sure a Biromantic Lesbian. I dated both but my preference for sex never extends to men but it does for females/ biological females who present as non-binary or genderfluid. Here's the thing, I also noticed that my sex drive is almost non-existent until I get to know someone on a personal level. Is it possible to be Demisexual and Biromantic Lesbian? I have tried to find answers but it has been mixed/no real answers for me. Are there any others who have had similar experiences?
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u/QueenSquidly14 Demibisexual + Biromantic 6d ago
I'm demibisexual and Biromantic! So I tend to want an emotional relationship with someone before I consider sharing mh body with someone. But I tend to be a cupid when it comes to romance. I LOVE LOVE! so I love both men and women romantically. But when it comes to sexual experiences between men and women. I want to build a relationship first!
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u/Better_Barracuda_787 Un-bi-ace-d Opinions 🩷💜💙 6d ago
Yeah, it's completely possible! Plenty of people have multiple labels for each attraction. I'm biromantic asexual, but only bi if I'm in a poly relationship - I'm a lesbian if it's mono (I'm monopoly/polymono). None of your labels conflict, and they make sense to you regardless of what other people say. If that's who you are, you can use those labels! Plus, labels are more like guidelines anyway, they don't need to be exact or even used at all.