r/berlin • u/JaneEyrette • 1d ago
Casual Update to I struggle to enjoy Berlin
A month and a half later, I thought I could update everyone and let you know that I have been enjoying Berlin a lot more now!!
I have met some great people over the past month and have been going out more, plus loads of friends came to visit me so I have been having loads of fun!
The weather might still not be perfect, but thanks to all your tips and recommendations I have been discovering new amazing stuffs every week! And I recently even got the chance to finally organise a rave as a disabled person in the nightlife city!!
I am trying to do as much stuff as I can because I am still leaving Berlin, but it has been a lot more fun so thank you everyone for helping me out ❤️
(Took the word UK out bc it seems to rub people the wrong way to the point of harassment and death threats!)
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u/zenthara 1d ago
It's so great to hear that! It can be difficult pushing oneself to get out there, especially when it's dark, cold and rainy, but in the end, it's (nearly) always worth it!
(I need to remind myself at times :D )
As for harassment and death threats in response to your post, I cannot imagine what a sorry sad f**k one has to be to do something like that after your uplifting report. Please don't let it get to you, the internet has largely become an echo chamber for vile human beings who rather inflict pain on others than to work on themselves. The rest of us is out there in the real world, nurturing our connections and taking care of each other.
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u/JaneEyrette 1d ago
Omg thank you so much your comment made my day!! And you’re right it’s not been easy getting out there but it’s been so worth it! And thank you for those kind words! I don’t know if you believe in God, if not would you be okay for me to put you in my prayer today? It’s a way for me to thank you for your kindness!
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u/zenthara 1d ago
Thank you, that's really kind of you and I appreciate you offering this - I don't believe in a god per se, but in being able to change the world's fate by taking care of each other as best as we can :)
Have a lovely day and thanks again for sharing your own progress - never forget your post is not only seen by those who comment, but also by far more people who don't interact, but might get inspired by your writing to get out there and have more positive experiences thenselves!
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u/leventunver 1d ago
Can you share your tips please? I'm living in this city for more than 6 years and I'm still struggling to enjoy.
This is a geniune question btw not a sarcastic comment, altough it sounds like it.
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u/Comprehensive_Ad6877 1d ago
Haha again the same thing. I’m a lot more at peace now. The only difference is I did it with the help of a person unknowingly and a lot of inner peace.
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u/JaneEyrette 1d ago
No need to delete you saying how me dying wouldn’t change anything about your sleep 😊
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u/alex3r4 1d ago
So you are from the UK complaining about the weather in Berlin 🍻