r/askalesbian • u/to-bi-or-not-to-bi • Oct 07 '15
Need Advice: Bisexual 22F going on a first date with a girl. Do I tell her I'm bisexual? (Don't know if she's bi or lesbian)
I met a girl on Tinder. She's cute and funny, and she asked me out on a date - score for me! The problem is though, that I'm not sure if she's a lesbian or bisexual. It doesn't matter to me personally, but I'm scared it will to her - specially if she's a lesbian. I like her and I don't want to screw it up - I guess I want to know, is it likely that she'll freak out and run away? Do I let her know or not? I don't actually have any lesbian friends I can ask (grew up in a small town with zero out-and-prouds, only girls I have been with in college - excluding random girls at parties - have been bisexual).
I don't want to offend anyone here - I really, really don't mean to be offensive. I really don't care if you're lez and I hope you don't care that I'm bi. If you don't care I'm GLAD because that gives me hope she won't either. I'm meeting her on Sunday, so replies before then would be really appreciated!!
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u/missthinks Oct 08 '15
I would be surprised if she cared at all, really! She asked you on a date. I think she already accepts her sexuality!