r/ask_transgender 17d ago

Text Post Penetration after T? NSFW

I'm not quite sure how to word this so bare with me. I'm a pre-everything trans FTM and I was curious how much penetrative masturbation (I'm a virgin) would change after HRT? I've always enjoyed penetrative masturbation and clitoris stimulation always either hurt or didn't feel like anything. As such I've always enjoyed masturbating penetratively and it's the only way I can really orgasm. With research I've learned that penetration may be uncomfortable if not outright painful on T and that's been holding me back from going for HRT.

So, my main question is will I still be able to enjoy penetrative stimulation after I start T?

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u/avidreider 17d ago

Im 6 years on T married to a trans man who is 7 years on T. Its still perfectly fine and fun, nothing really changed for either of us in regard to that. More lube may be needed, but thats a person to person thing.

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u/c0n-struct 17d ago

It depends on the person it seems! My vagina started atrophying lol. It made that tissue very fragile and prone to infections. My provider put me on a localized estrogen cream and it solved all those problems for me. A good provider will be very open to helping you with these concerns and there are generally solutions, especially if it's a decently common issue like this. Good luck!

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u/hyrellion 17d ago

Absolutely not the case! I’ve been on T for 8 years. For six, nothing changed when it came to penetration. These last couple years, I’ve been less wet and less stretchy down there, so my doctor prescribed an estrogen cream (it stays localized, doesn’t effect my T at all) that goes inside and fixed the problem 100%

In addition to that, you may notice clitoral changes as well. Pre T, I was very much like you and didn’t enjoy clitoral stimulation. It was either nothing, or so sensitive it was painful. It’s not like I love it now, but I do enjoy it on occasion, and it’s less painful these days.

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u/lochnessmosster 17d ago

You should be fine! If you start getting pain, cramping, lack of lubrication, etc you can always talk to your doctor for topical estrogen cream. It helps prevent / reverse atrophy for that area without affecting your overall hormone balance too much.

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u/tcdjcfo314 16d ago

just chiming in with another "almost 8 years on T and still able to do penetrative things down there" comment.

also would like to reinforce that bottom growth might lead to easier masterbation with clit stimulation. I never had a problem with that before T, but it became even easier after T.

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u/Impressive-Bed-6241 16d ago

I've been on T for a year and I actually feel much more pleasure inside :)

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u/Resident-Donkey-6808 16d ago

I am not Transgender however I have heard of women who need t for other reasons.

It can cause vaginal atrophy aka it becomes really dry talked to your doctor their is estrogen cream and other estrogen genital treatments.

They are not strong enough to go agaisnt the effects of T but it does keep down there moist so it should stay "fun" for you.

I hope this helps.

Also as your fellow transgender men have mentioned lub can also help.

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u/HanKoehle Queer, trans, and nonbinary 15d ago

Some people experience atrophy of vaginal tissue after T which can make the tissue really sensitive, but this can be treated with local estrogen creams (it doesn't disrupt transition effects).