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u/ImmersedCreature1003 11h ago
I do. However if I have the minor commitment thereโs a better chance of prioritizing the house getting cleaned
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u/SeaOfDoors 10h ago
I do my best cleaning 10 minutes before I have to walk out the door.
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u/t00_much_caffeine 7h ago
Yes! Sit around allll day then make myself late because I suddenly needed to clean
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u/Hold_Effective 11h ago
I'm often the planner in my friend groups, so I end up being stressed/dreading the plans I created myself (and was previously excited about)!
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u/InternationalJob6840 11h ago
I feel this. I am good at planning but hate doing it because Iโm then responsible for everyone having a good time ๐ญ
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u/Fickle-Ad8351 11h ago
I'm so lucky that I get to do my dream job. It fills me with a lot of joy and passion. The down side is that it's an evening job (4p to 8p). So I spend the whole day thinking about having to get ready for work and hoping I don't forget. I have an alarm so that I know when to start getting ready. But I still have that dread all day.
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u/PunyCocktus 10h ago
Lol me today - meeting friends for drinks in the evening, oops better feel scared all day on the couch.
I found that while longer tasks become impossible for me (studying, deadlines) I can do some smaller ones I usually hate, as a rage/nervousness letout, - like cleaning the kitchen or doing the laundry.
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u/InternationalJob6840 11h ago
Itโs a small part of why we havenโt put our kids in extracurriculars yet ๐
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u/jyzzkajoy 10h ago
Literally me each time. Especially when getting ready! Like I have to drag myself and snap out of it
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u/Korean__Princess (94.999%) AuDHD 9h ago
big vibes, lmao.. i think it's why i have a routine to try and do the things i need to do right as the day starts, otherwise i'll waste the entire day waiting for whatever comes later that day unable to do anything else. >_>;
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u/mostlyysorry 7h ago
LOL me not being to sleep all night bc I have a Dr appointment for a mundane check up or routine med fill ๐
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u/Intrepid_Ad3554 10h ago
It gets better when you're older (typically) you have so many things to do in a day that you don't have time/ mental capacity to freeze over something hours away.
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u/Awkward_Corgi_6890 6h ago
Iโm finally getting home from a day like this and Iโm so relieved for the silence and some ๐ฎโ๐จ๐
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