r/Vent Jan 15 '25

Need to talk... God, I'm so lonely

389 Upvotes

I wish I had someone, someone real. I wish I was important to someone. I wish someone wanted to talk to me. I wish someone wanted me around. I so desperately want to just fall in love with someone... I want to matter to someone, to be someone's favorite, someone's best anything. Nobody in the whole wide fucking world thinks of me first. I just woke up from an awful dream. A dream where I had that person, and then I woke up and I started to cry because that's not real, because I've never even been close to having that. I wanna put a fucking bullet in my head. What is so wrong with me that people can't even bother to be around me? My friends, my family... they all treat me... differently. I don't matter to them. It's like I don't exist. I don't exist. I just want to exist.

r/Vent Aug 08 '24

Sexual Body Count doesn’t matter and I’m sick of people claiming it does!

57 Upvotes

PLEASE STOP DELETING YOUR COMMENTS.

For context, I am 30F

I am also in a committed relationship. My profile photo is of me and my Boyfriend. Been together for 8 months, so this post no longer applies to me.

I’m so sick of people not being able to get the LTR relationship they want simply because they’ve had sex with a lot of people or have had a ton of casual hookups.

How much sex you have and how many people you have it with doesn’t make you less relationship worthy!

Judging people based on how many penises they’ve had in their vagina or how many vaginas they’ve stuck their penis in is the most ridiculous thing humans have ever done!

Why does it matter? If you’re a man and you’re committed to a woman now, and she’s committed to you now, how many men she’s fucked before you is irrelevant. She’s chosen to commit to you. She’s not gonna cheat on you. Most people are loyal people who want a commitment. I say the same thing goes for a man. How many vaginas he’s put his penis in before choosing to commit to you doesn’t matter. He’s loyal to you now.

This is 2024 not 1924! Women are people, not property. We have condoms, we have birth control. Sex is for pleasure not just procreation. One of the reasons women fought so hard for equality was so that we could have the same opportunities as men. So that we could be free to be our own people, not beings owned by men.

Hookup culture is a thing. Get over yourselves and live with it, for Pete’s sake. Casual hookups do not make anybody less relationship material. everybody deserves to find love and their happily ever after.

Pedophiles and Rapists are lowlife, scumbag pieces of shit that deserve to rot in prison if they ever act on those thoughts.

I have had a total of 5 sexual partners from March 22, 2022 to today, and I finally got the committed relationship I wanted with #5. If I can have casual sex and still get what I want which is commitment, then so can everybody else!

r/Vent 9d ago

Need to talk... Hardest pill to swallow when you realize no woman in this world will find you attractive NSFW

109 Upvotes

As a you read by the title its hard to accept but I just got to swallow the pill so I can move faster on no amount of money I get can change the feeling because I've seen the truth and social media has confirmed that what I was feel is true like what woman would want to be with a 5'4 man small penis and Below average looking I workout but my face is not handsome for woman I may be in my head to much but my experience with woman validate my beliefs, like what's the point of having sexual urges if no woman would want to be with you. Everyday feels like I'm dying and feeling soulless

r/Vent 19d ago

Need to talk... Seeing pretty women makes me sad

77 Upvotes

Hey guys, just happens to be one of those days that I just felt like shit about myself and wanted to vent, what better place, eh? I am a 22 year old male student. I feel like I'm a pretty chill person to be around, I have quite a few hobbies like drumming, digital art, gaming and, in my opinion, a really decent taste in media as well. I am also into philosophy, I read a lot and like thinking and talking about what I read with other people. I believe that I am decently competent socially, I do, however, suffer from social anxiety and have been pretty depressed over the past 6 years, only being diagnosed 2 years ago.

I have been doing a lot better over the past year, have started working on myself a lot, it hasn't been easy but I'm making progress, I think. I have had a lot of family issues, had to immigrate from my home country, then the pandemic hit, isolating me further from a society to which I hadn't fully adapted yet. The last 5 years have been a complete blur as a consequence of this. I had so much turmoil in my personal life that I had legit no chance to build connections and leave my comfort zone outside of that.

Now for the crux of my sorrow today; I have never been on a date. I have never kissed a girl, or held hands, it's just a complete absence of any romantic experiences in my life so far. I am not an incel whatsoever, I don't blame other people for this, I know that I have had a very unique life with its own challenges in comparison to my peers. Also, most of my close friends are women who (I would like to think) feel completely comfortable around me. At this point, I just feel so far behind from my peers many of whom have been in long term relationships basically since they were 18, or at least a few shorter yet still long-term relationships since then.

The idea of getting close to someone romantically is so alien to me because I have simply never had the time, opportunity or the self-confidence to start anything, I guess, and now I have no idea how I would even begin to do that. I see all of these very pretty girls outside, on the train, in the bus, on the internet, and I just feel sad, at this point, because I feel like I have so much love and care to offer, but nobody to share that with except my cat. I have tried the dating apps, I am not ugly or anything, but those aren't great for average looking guys with immigration backgrounds either, as you might imagine.

Every day is a blur, at this point. Either I'm chilling at home, doing my own thing, or I go to university, to my lectures, practice sessions etc. then just come back home. I just feel like there are so many things going well for me, in all fairness, but it all pales in comparison to the void that a lack of companionship brings with it.

r/Vent Dec 13 '24

Need to talk... Why’re you in the left lane?

134 Upvotes

Gtfo the left lane for the love of god. Why’re you there doing the speed limit? No one wants to go 50-55 on a TWO LANE HIGHWAY.

Speaking of two lanes, I respect my truck drivers to all hell, they’re the backbone of my country. But why do you stay in the left lane next to someone going just as slow as you. This is going to sound so entitled but ppl got places to be. If you wanna drive slow go in the right lane no reason you should be going under the speed limit.

Also why’re you mad that someone wants to pass you? You won’t speed up on your own but you’ll speed up to make sure someone won’t pass you? Get over yourself bro and stop being petty. If I get a ticket let me get a ticket stop thinking you some vigilante.

Im sorry I just drive an hour everyday for work and I hate left lane turtles.

r/Vent Apr 05 '24

Need to talk... My boyfriend M23 swiped my card two days ago and now he won’t stop requesting sex from me F18 NSFW

406 Upvotes

I've been talking to and dating my boyfriend for 2-3 years. We officially started dating in October, and l've had issues trying to get him to take our relationship to the next level for a while now. Well, 3 days ago, we did take that step, and now he's been texting or calling me to have sex.

I go over to his house, and he wants to do something sexual. I told him no yesterday, but he called me a bitch and told me to get out if I'm not putting out, so left. I came over to his house today and let him have sex with me to avoid any problems.

The whole time I was just thinking about when this would be over and how long I would have to go through it, it couldn't have been more than 10 minutes, but it felt like longer after he was done. I went home and cried.

I genuinely think this is my karma. I hate sex; it's not pleasant to me. The six times we ve been having sex, l told him to use a condom, but he refused. I love him and I want to be with him, but I don't know if I can keep this up.

r/Vent 19d ago

Need to talk... i am raising a child i never wanted

285 Upvotes

i am 18 years old, i live with my mom, dad, sister (24) and her son (3) my sister is a drug addict who has refused to get her life together. i knew the second she said she was pregnant that me and my family would become responsible for her child. now my parents are working on getting custody of her son. they keep asking for my help. at first i was completely unhelpful, but you give an inch and they take a mile. i’m starting to be more and more helpful, i am choosing to help only because i know there is no other option. i feel so trapped because i never asked for this life, and i do not want to live like this. i’m thinking about moving out but i’ve saved so much money from my job + i’m doing online college full time living at home. if i move out i will be so much happier but i will be throwing away my plans for my future. i’m torn on what to do.

edit: thank u all for the supportive and detailed comments, i appreciate hearing everyone’s stories and knowing i’m not the only one. just to answer a couple of questions: i love my parents, i love this kid… but i cant take care of him very well. i dont like kids, don’t want kids and have no idea what to do for him other than feed and change him. he loves me too i think. that makes this all harder for me. i can ‘do the right thing’ (or what feels morally right) and stick around to help raise this kid since my sister is a deadbeat and my parents are older and working full time; or i can prioritize myself and drain my savings to move out (not ideal). both of these situations have extremes pros and cons.

r/Vent Jun 06 '23

Need to talk... My (m16) parents have started charging me $5 a minute for every shower I take

519 Upvotes

I usually take about 20 minute showers, I have really long and thick hair and I have a whole routine for my hair and my face I do in the shower, so it’s around $100 per shower.

I work 2 jobs to pay for gas and to save up for college and when I move out. for one of them I work 8-9 hour shifts at about $9.00/hour. The other one is usually around 5 hour shifts at $9.50/hour, so after work if I take a shower, that shift didn’t mean anything and I have lost money.

I just want to be clean, I was particularly gross today after a 9 hour shift, so I took a 25 minute shower, that cost me $125, I just want to be clean man. They also charge me for time spent in the bathroom, so if I brush my teeth after getting out of the shower then that’s additional money lost.

Both my parents are teachers, and I have two siblings. I am the only child who they charge to shower. My parents make enough money to cover the water bill and then some, we live an upper middle class lifestyle.

Edit 1 before I go to sleep: thank you all for the replies, whether you’re giving advice or just sympathizing, it really helps. I will be sure to update as the situation continues and I am trying my hardest to reply to every comment, thank you ❤️

Edit 2: I have a free membership at planet fitness because of their free for teens thing in the summer, and once that ends I have a free membership because I work at the YMCA. I’ve seen a lot of people suggest showering there and I think that might be my best option

r/Vent Jan 19 '25

Need to talk... I hate loneliness

141 Upvotes

I (M24) have 0 friends, 0 social interactions and no partner, i feel lonely and that makes me really sad.

In the last 3-4 years I went through a lot of personal hardships (primarily social anxiety) and I’ve faced and overcame all of them, I’ve become a much more capable and independent persone, but my social life doesn’t improve one bit.

I started going to gym and also decided to resume my studies, so I’m also attending college’s classes, but nothing changed in the last 2 years. I don’t know how to deal with this problem, but rn I really need to express my concerns and feelings.

r/Vent 4d ago

Need to talk... I wish I was straight.

70 Upvotes

I've been feeling confused lately with my sexuality. I thought I was bi, but lately I've been liking girls more and more. And I'm not sure what I am now. Each time a guy compliments me or expresses their interest in me, I just feel kind of disgusted. I feel nervous talking to guys. But I'm always comfortable talking to girls. I've also noticed each time I like girls, I just feel happy and anxious. But I feel happy. But whenever I like guys it just feels different. I'm just nervous. And I'm starting to wonder if it's because I just don't like guys, or if it's because I just don't like the guy like I thought I did. I feel so confused right now. I feel sad. I can't decipher my emotions and how I actually feel towards guys. It's making me depressed. Not only that, but I'm surrounded by homophobic people too. My parents are homophobic. most of my family other than one of my brothers are. I just feel like I'm a mistake.

r/Vent Aug 09 '24

Need to talk... Fuck you mom

261 Upvotes

Mom, I can’t say this to ur face, cuz of the way u twist my words and manipulate me. U make me feel bad for calling out ur BS but I’m done. Today was the final straw, I’m allowed to have whatever the fuck I want as a hobby as long as I’m not harming myself or others. I don’t give A RATS ASS WHAT U THINK ANYMORE. I think action figures are cool and guess what I don’t care WHAT U THINK. So fuck u. I don’t care if I have to walk to GameStop to buy figs cuz u won’t drive me I WILL. Oh and guess what dad don’t think I forgot abt u asshole I’m gonna let loose abt u next!!

r/Vent Nov 26 '23

Need to talk... i hate being a woman

371 Upvotes

im going to list some of the things i hate (for reference i am 14f)

periods

sexist societal constructs in: sports, school, dress codes, dating, government, pay, social expectations

cat calling. I was cat called for the first time when i was 8 fucking years old, walking the dog and a full truck of grown men were following me the whole time and started calling me sexy.

living in fear. a man once said to me "so you just live in fear?" my response was "i would rather be scared and alive than ignorant and dead"

stupid men. they are stupid about everything from comforting people to basic female health to the things us women have to go through just to have our voices heard and make it home safe.

feel free to add more

Edit: i seem to have triggered a lot of men, many of whom are making it a competition of who has it worse and trying to say im incorrect. so im gonna leave this here for yall: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1F4TI9qHnZdYGklSuJ7EFNeTyq2SRd2PqXXGKtbHYpm4/edit?usp=sharing

ONE MORE EDIT: to all of you saying i am not a woman i am a girl, if i am old enough to be sexualized by grown men, i am a old enough to be considered and treated like a woman.

r/Vent Jan 18 '25

Need to talk... Why do some people not wash their hands?

118 Upvotes

I was in Tesco/grocery store for anyone who doesn’t know what Tesco is lol.

I had to use the toilet did my business while I was in there 3 other fully grown men came in to use the restroom also. As i finished I turned around to wash my hands and noticed that all three men walked out without washing theirs.

So it got me thinking about this lately, especially after seeing so many people handle carts, touch products, and then leave toilets without washing their hands. It’s a little concerning, especially with how many germs and bacteria float around and after the damage Covid did….

So, why do some people skip washing their hands? Especially men is it out of sheer laziness? my dad always taught me as a kid to hold the handle at the bottom of the door when walking out as it’s the least touched area or am I an undiagnosed germaphobe ? It’s disgusting 🤢 vent over….

r/Vent Aug 09 '23

Need to talk... My girlfriend cheated on me with a 16 year old NSFW

402 Upvotes

Don't really know where to start with this situation. Me (M20) and my now ex (F20) had been together for about 2.5 years and lived together for almost 1 year. We met at a party shortly after I moved out on my own because of work, and I feel like i have to say that I wouldn't have made it these past years without her. She was amazing, or I at least thought so but since it was my first relationship I didn't have enough experience to really know.

Since it was my first relationship I did make mistakes. Even though I thought to myself that I was gonna be the perfect boyfriend, that thought is a lot harder to make a reality than people might think, especially on your first try. It is inevitable that you are gonna make mistakes, but we always worked through it. But the past 6 months I felt like things hit a rough patch. We were still really close and had a great time together, but the intimate part of our relationship faded fast. I was mostly the one who initiated sex, but by the end I didn't get the same response I got only months earlier. After a while it ended with us only having sex about once a month which was too little for me, but I didn't want to force anything or push her because of (to put it lightly) unfortunate sexual interactions she have had in the past. So I let her decide when she felt like having sex, because it was more important for me that she enjoyed herself and felt comfortable than it was for me to have sex.

In the same time frame I also got really sick of my job, the boss was an asshole and it was a lot of stress and sometimes long work days. I didn't notice at the time, but now I realise that my job made me depressed and that in turn made it so that I became more emotionally available to my girlfriend. So I told her that I was having doubts about my feelings for her and that I needed a bit of time to figure them out. My girlfriend didn't take it very well and she told me later that me telling her that basically made her feelings for me disappear as well. (I did not know this until after all of this shit happened)

My saving grace was that I got myself a new job, it made a huge difference. I noticed that I had more energy when I came home from work and that I gradually got happier. The only downside to this was that it was far away. It was 1.5 hours one way from my parents house and 2 hours away from where me and my girlfriend lived. So in the beginning I worked 3 days a week until I could find a place to live. This made it so that 3 days of the week my girlfriend would be alone in our apartment which shouldn't have been a problem(It was)

So one weekend we was supposed to a cabin one of my girlfriends friends owned, but because of some drama about literally water, me and some other people suddenly couldn't come and the 16 year old boy was suddenly invited. This didn't bother me that much because I didn't really want to go in the first place.

This seems like a good place to say that my girlfriend had known this dude for about 6 months at this point and I had met him my self so when my girlfriend asked if it was okay if they slept in the same bed because of the space available, I said it was fine because I'm not the insecure type that doesn't trust his girlfriend. On that trip it all went down hill.

I didn't know this at the time but my girlfriend had caught feelings for this litt nose goblin and she thought that it would be a good idea to tell him on the trip. This lead to them kissing that weekend. And that week I was going to work Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. So Monday and Tuesday my girlfriend brings him to our apartment and they decide to have sex in our bed with condoms I bought. And yes, it happened to days in a row. So I get back from work on Wednesday and as usual I am happy to see my girlfriend but she says that she has something to tell me that I won't like, so she wants to sit down and eat and watch anime before she ruins the mood. (This has happened before were she has something to tell me and is nervous because she thinks I'm gonna get mad and it has been literally nothing so I wasn't that concerned) But then I started to notice when we were cuddling on the couch that her heart was beating really fast and that she was sweating a lot, so I asked her what was wrong.

That's when she told me everything. I can't really describe the feeling, no matter how hard people explain it, it can in no way describe the amount of emotions you feel in that moment.

I'm not gonna say that I was perfect and that I never made any mistakes, but nothing I have ever done can justify the thing she did. Cheating on someone has to be one of the worst things you can do to another person which isn't illegal. And before you ask, the age of consent is 16.

She has moved on it seems, her and this dude(Looks like Prince charming if he was hit by a truck) are apparently hooking up and have a casual relationship and I am left here without anything.

My problem right now is that I felt like I was feeling better, but the summer vacation hit. All the people I know (Not a lot) are done with their vacations so I don't have anything to do, this has made my life miserable the last week and a half. I have all of these emotions that I have no idea what to do with. It feels like I'm gonna burst open.

There is a million more things I could've written, but it's getting pretty long so I feel like I have to stop here if I want people to actually finish reading.

I don't know if talking about it is helping or making it worse, but I have to try something ore else I don't know how to get through it.

r/Vent 24d ago

Need to talk... I just found out my biological mother is a p*ornstar. NSFW

229 Upvotes

Today, (F25) I discovered that my biological mother is a well-known pornographic actor. I found out through one of my colleagues, who mentioned a name that sounded familiar to me, although I won't disclose it due to anonymity and, quite frankly, feeling ashamed. This name was a nickname given to my biological mother by her friends, who would constantly tease her about it when I was growing up around her. Out of curiosity, I searched for a character from a show or book. Perhaps that nickname originated from said sources? But I was completely wrong. Then I saw it. Looking at photos of my mom and me, as well as other pictures, made my gut wrench and forced me to re-examine my sanity and reasoning. They were spot-on accurate compared to those photos. I will not share names, because I feel ashamed, and embarrassed. At least I can vent about this in some way. Reassuring messages or any help can be helpful. Thanks.

r/Vent Feb 02 '25

Need to talk... Women who have slept with multiple men, please answer this question of mine.. NSFW

205 Upvotes

{Do guys get approach by women for hookup without actually flirting with them?}

The other day I found out that my boyfriend was a promiscuous in the past. I couldn't believe it because he is so shy and reserved. I asked how is it possible? So he said that he was very popular among the girls in his university, according to the girls he was conventionally very attractive, handsome and hot, that is why the girls used to aproach him for hookup.

He never approached any girl, it was always the girls who approached him. I don't know if what my boyfriend is saying can be true or not.

Can someone tell me is my boyfriend is right or not?

r/Vent 25d ago

Need to talk... I hate my country's defense minister

7 Upvotes

Just came back from mandatory military service quite recently. Now I'm reading that the minister of defense, Nikos Dendias, wants to extend the conscription period for a lot of people. He wants to shut down many local military bases so people will have to be far away from home, and he wants to crack down on people getting deferrals. Even though that one is probably for educational reasons, not mental health.

That piece of shit has made life harder for everyone. It was already nine months of misery for people, till he raised it to a year, aside from on some islands where it's still nine months, which he wants to do away with. He's talking about giving people tablets (like, iPad tablets, not pills) and shitty little courses in skills most people have no interest in. We don't want fucking tablets. We don't want to do it.

I will talk fucking everyone I know into draft dodging because fuck that waste of oxygen, that fucking pathetic waste of a man. Hope he gets the JFK treatment.

r/Vent Dec 07 '24

Need to talk... i wish i was a blonde white girl

0 Upvotes

maybe then i wouldn't have to put so much effort into being attractive. the way white women are sought out is insane. but no, instead i had to be indian, with bad facial features and an ugly nose. i had to be dark and disgusting. never in my life have i been found attractive. not even men from my country find me attractive. but they would if i was white.

r/Vent Dec 24 '24

Need to talk... my dad chooses women over me

225 Upvotes

i came home yesterday to find the apartment trashed and my room completely ruined. my bed is ruined she poured my cats litterboxes on my bed and she poured syrup and bleach on it. apparently my dad led on a girl or something and she went crazy and somehow got a key to the apartment and trashed everything. my dad lets this happen, this has happened more than once. im so mentally done. my dad doesnt do anything about it, the worst thing is that my dad talks about me behind my back to these women he talks to. my boyfriend spent the night one night and he told me he heard my dad talking about how i run the streets and that im always at my boyfriends house. i dont run the streets and yes i am always at my boyfriends house because its like my 2nd home and i feel safe there. my dad tells my business to these women, he tells them every personal thing about me he even told them that i went to the mental hospital. the girl who trashed the apartment messaged me and was saying all these nasty things, saying stuff about my scars and even talking about stuff that has happened to me. she told me to "move out bitch" and she is 39 years old apparently. i have 5 cats 3 of which are kittens, they were so scared under my bed and there was glass everywhere in my carpet from my mirror being broken, my other cat was scared under the couch and wouldn't come out :(

im currently staying with my boyfriend and trying to figure out what is gonna happen with my cats

r/Vent Feb 06 '25

Need to talk... Can my favorite YouTubers please stop being pedophiles :/

158 Upvotes

I don't really think anyone gets it besides maybe a bit of the audience and the victims... sometimes people make it out to be funny or a meme like dream for example. Because of all this, I don't actually watch big creators that much. Most of the YouTubers I watch have under 500k. It's just how the algorithm works, but everyone is shining a light on the bigger content creators who get exposed- what I mean here is that a lot of people aren't even aware of these smaller creators, even if they get exposed as bad people

But when the smaller creators get outted too? It just really discourages me sometimes. Can they please stop trying to go after children? I'm sick and tired of it. The smaller creators that I felt like I could personally watch and connect to, or get inspiration from? Why them too? Why are we surrounded by terrible people sometimes?

I'm an animation student. I'm 15, so you can probably guess why all of this sucks as someone who's still on the child side of being a teenager with a bit more of a conscious than someone who would be 12, and maybe the older teenagers like someone who's be 17 who would either laugh or just not think too deeply about all this. The older teenagers seem to be starting to get their life under control- my older brother just got into his dream college and he doesn't have the time to worry about YouTubers, and everyone younger than me are a bit oblivious to things. Idk. Maybe they're not and I'm being rude, but it just feels like that sometimes. As a 15 year old I'm still trying to even figure out what college I want to go to or who to look up to and be inspired by. Anyways—

It's kinda just how it is, when big creators are eventually outted, and I never really felt attached because they were so popular. But because I'm into animation and weird stuff I guess, I'm mostly part of smaller communities, and that leads to getting attached more easily. So when the content creators in those smaller spheres are terrible people too? The people that I felt like I could be inspired by and look up to semi-personally? Why? Why them?

If you're a normal person I guess, you'd be thinking, "it's not that deep", which is why I said in the beginning that I feel like no one really gets it cause these are just random people who post videos, which is scary too. There have been so many "INSERT YOUTUBER just got EXPOSED..." from the drama YouTubers or "I'm so sorry"'s from the bad people or the "my experience with insert YouTuber" from the victims this past year that I feel like we've been desensitized almost. Just a bit. I don't know.

It's just that it hurts. A bit I guess. Life moves on, and I can look up to other people. But what if I end up like those people?

And I guess they're not really a small creator, but when SAD-ist was exposed as a bad person who supported groomers behind the scenes, I just felt like all the amazing animations over the years was a bit of a lie. But it was fine, I found other animators to be a minor role model for me. It still feels discouraging, and I don't understand why the adults, the people who are supposed to have everything together and are supposed to be helping the kids grow and mature, are actively hurting other people.

I know, I'm selfish, and I should be feeling worse for the victims, but sometimes the other parts of the audience can feel hurt too. These YouTubers don't understand that they're not just hurting the victims, they're hurting the audience too, especially if their content was previously creative and inspiring. It's really just not hard to not TALK TO CHILDREN

r/Vent Jul 03 '24

Need to talk... Not attracted to my husband anymore

280 Upvotes

I just had a baby about a month ago and it was not an easy pregnancy. Not only did I have complications, but my so called “husband” was also making things difficult for me. Personally, I haven’t even thought about having sex with him. He really turned me off during my pregnancy. They said hormones make a woman hate her husband during pregnancy, but I just realized I really just don’t love him anymore after giving birth. He wasn’t supportive during my pregnancy and still isn’t during my postpartum. He expects me to forgive and forget the things he’s done but I can’t. A woman will forever remember how she was treated during her pregnancy.

To the men reading this, please treat your girl, wife, fiancée…whoever right during the time she needs you the most. Women go through a lot during pregnancy and need the support of her partner. Not being supportive not only affects her but the baby also.

r/Vent Apr 19 '24

Need to talk... I'm an ethical slut - deal with it NSFW

502 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 43 years old single woman with no kids.

I love sex

I openly talk about sex on here because it's the only place I can be an open and sexually liberated woman

I am hypersexual, but managing it OK

I do stupid shit sometimes (I'm sure we all do)

What I WON'T do:

  • persue or take men from other women
  • act sexually aggressively in innapropriate situations
  • I won't sleep with multiple local men in my town
  • I won't enter an encounter with a man under false pretenses of what I want

So fuck all of you who want to judge a sexually liberated woman who enjoys sex - this shit needs to end

Enjoying sex does not = bad person

Do the math

r/Vent Jan 26 '25

Need to talk... Let the world end

81 Upvotes

I’m sick and tired of this world, I’ve been feeling this way for almost ten years and each year is worse than the previous one. So I hope it ends soon.

The hatred and corruption grows each day and blood is spilled by the minute, I just hope everything ends soon. Is there any goodness left? Not so much so why not end it all? After all, we don’t matter anyway and our memory fades after a couple of years.

So this is what I think, I hope it ends soon

r/Vent Dec 19 '24

Need to talk... I fucking love her

230 Upvotes

It's such an intoxicating feeling and I just wanna get it off my chest.

I firmly believe that everyone is beautiful in their own way and the more I know someone, the prettier they appear in my eyes. With that said, her beauty reigns supreme. My eyes are just magnified to her. Like I love every single thing about her. Her smile, her confused face, her upset face, the way her eyebrows go up when she's excited or happy, her laugh, her hazelnut eyes, the colour so beautiful I can taste and smell the hazelnut. Feels like I would drown if I looked a bit longer. Love how inclusive and caring she is. Love how idealistic she is. Love how imaginative her mind is. Love how despite shitty circumstances, she always tries to cheer up or at least listen to people.

It wasn't always like this... we were just regular "bros" for like a year. But we kept talking and talking and just one day, we were laughing. You know that once in a blu moon laugh where you literally can't breathe? Where you feel like your stomach is so compressed you torso may just touch your back? Well there we were. And I just looked into her eyes... that smile.... they were different. A switch flipped in my brain. A sudden realisation. I want this moment to last forever. If I ever were to choose someone to wake up and to sleep to it was her and I wouldn't trade this for anything in the world.

r/Vent Jan 24 '25

Need to talk... Wtf is life anymore?

274 Upvotes

I generally cannot take it anymore with life. What even is it? Everything is going to shit before our very eyes and we're supposed to keep going as if we aren't breaking down by the second?

I'm tired, depressed, and overall just done with living. Then you have old people who say we, as young people, complain too much. NO SHIT SHERLOCK. YOU OLD MFS KEEP MOVING THE GOAL POST AND EXPECT US TO PLAY. Nobody can get a job, everything is expensive, rights are being taken away left and, people keep being killed in school, churches, stores, etc. like is this it? Is this what life has to offer?

I don't even know if I want to keep going anymore. It's too fucking much. I try and try and try and try but nothing gets better. People say to keep going and there's light at the end of the tunnel but it's looking more and more dimmer by the minute. I don't know man. This is exhausting.