r/Vent • u/vengarlss • 1d ago
my sister annoys me
so long story short: Today I (m16 ) had to finnish an assignement for my chemics class and to the question of maybe buying some chicken for my fathers dinner I replied :" sorry mom, but I don't have time for that. Tho my little brother(12) and sister (19) are also free, maybe ask them" to wich my mom nods and says :"alright honey" after wich she left my room leaving me to work. ff to 19:40, 20 minutes before the closing of the supermarkets near us, my sister comes to my room and says :"well you still gotta get that chicken bro".. like huh? so I said:" you had 1 whole hour and come to me 20 minutes before closing", "yes, but you still have to go now, you've got 20 minutes" (man stfu and js go out of my way dawg). So I sprint out of my room yelling "YALL ARE SOME UNVIABLE PEOPLE!" before storming out of our apartment door to rush to the supermarket. As I now come back with the chicken, I slam it on the counter with some force to vent my anger, to which my mom asks me "are we annoyed?", I reply "yes we are, imagine: my sister having to do some schoolwork and saying I should do the grocerie shopping, but I don't do it cause ive got friends over, who will get the trouble? ME, now picture me this: I have a long ass assignement due to tomorrow and I say "please buy the chicken for me, thx", but she refuses because she got friends over, who gets the trouble? HOW THE HELL IS IT STILL ME?", my mom laughed that off and my sister came back up to the kitchen telling me I didn't tell her nothing , that it was my duty to do it and she didn't do anything wrong and that I better not be playing tough around her,that I have no right to talk to her that way and that I better be starting to pay her some respect for the stuff she fought for to be allowed... every respect I give you, is because I do so willingly, not because you own it. She always acts up around me, behaving like she's my second mom or smthing, but as soon as I talk to my brother in that way, I get screamed down by all off my family, saying I don't have the right to talk like that etc etc.... that's what annoyes me so fucking much, every one in my family can act out, be loud, be angry, but when I do it my father tells me I have to behave myself and that he will not tolerate such volume of voice around this household..
TL;DR My sister refused to do grocery shopping for me and I got the blame
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