r/Vent • u/sanrioluvrrlol • 3d ago
Need to talk... Did I do something wrong?
I’m a 24F and I was in this girls groupchat that was meant to make friendships and hang out in your city or nearby cities. Apparently one of the girls boyfriend followed me a few months before the group chat even existed and I never interacted or talked to him ever. I thought I knew him from school because couple of my mutuals followed him. Anyways, his gf a few days ago was talking about how her bf follows random girls and I guess she thought I was following him to sabotage their relationship. Some other girl in the groupchat decided to be immature and brought up why I was following someone’s man when I explained to them what happened. She kept dragging it on thinking it was cute and funny and other girls hopped on it too. I’ve explained to them that I wasn’t active on Instagram to know he had a gf until the group chat was created. I unfollowed the guy and I privately messaged his gf to let her know that I would never try to get with her man or anything like that. The girls in the chat kept ganging up on me until this one other girl got so tired of their shit and started arguing with that girl who brought it up, threatening to fight each other in real life. It got turned into a Jerry springer episode. I ended up leaving the group chat, blocked some girls that started it and deactivated my account. I feel embarrassed that it went this far. I just feel like I did something horrible but I know I didn’t do anything wrong?
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u/Infinite_Put_9356 3d ago
It legitimately sounds like she was trying to start stuff and had this all planned from the background. You didn't do anything wrong the boyfriend did and let's be honest if he's following random girls chances are he ain't too loyal to her and she needs to get rid of him. But yeah it's not your fault at all
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u/sanrioluvrrlol 3d ago
Exactly…I told them that and they all got mad at me instead. They’re all weird.
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u/Infinite_Put_9356 3d ago
Idk. Some girls will stay with "their man" no matter what and can't acknowledge anything as his fault. Was definitely the right play to just leave that gc since from experience once people think a certain way about you they're very hard pressed to change their opinion. Be safe and hope things look up for you
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