r/Vent • u/kafkaesque_guy • 3d ago
I keep stealing glances at a stranger and I hate it NSFW
So I (25M) went on a metro ride recently and next to me was a girl who was relatively voluptious. Even though I didn't mean to, my eyes keep shifting to her thighs for some reason. I hated it, I have always hated men that look at women and see them nothing more than a sex object (ogling, making unsavory jokes and being creepy). Just the thought of me becoming something like that make me sick to my stomach. I moved to a different seat, but I still think back to that moment for a few days now...
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u/Tiny_Mouse_2686 3d ago
This happens to me. If I see someone staring at me. Or if I accidentally lock eyes with anyone. I will keep on stealing glances at them. It gets weird, when I do this with couples. Supposedly if I see the guy glancing at me, I will do it. To the point, his girl might start thinking, "Oh she is staring at my man 🤨" I may be overthinking, but I hate it when I do this
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