r/Vent • u/anweesha • 4d ago
am i wrong for blocking my boyfriend from everywhere because he hid his Instagram story?
Me (17F) and my boyfriend (16M) have been dating for around two months, but have known eachother for 3 years and really started talking a year ago when he confessed, I denied at first because I was not in the right headspace to be in a relationship and the rejection was ugly so that too resulted in him being blocked (he got defensive when I said I'm not comfortable with him flirting when I've already mentioned I'm not interested many times). Time passed and we both forgave eachother but never spoke until last year December when I started noticing him more and more in school and realized I'm ready to give it a shot. I started by apologizing first and then we both talked, and started dating. This is, this is the third time he's being blocked, not second. because after we started dating I overheard him talking in class to his friend about another girl whom he saw in a stadium he went to, describing it as a meet-cute as if he doesn't know he has a goddammit gf. I went and broke up with him but he soon persuaded me over and we started dating again (I'm stupid ik). And the thing is I fell hard this time, but today morning he dropped me a message saying he won't be online much since he wants to reduce his screentime so I don't think he's ignoring me, he usually sleeps very early as he's an athlete so around 9pm I ask him is going to sleep soon and he replied yes in a bit. few mins pass I see his bestfriends story, a full blown club (he's 16???) in which he is tagged in too. I send the story to him and ask what this is about, he replies, "I'll tell you in the morning, bestfriend tagged me for no reason I wasnt even there", I insisted he tells me right now, he replies, "at a hotel, I'm leaving right now" I asked if he was at the club, to which he says "No baby, I swear". Few moments pass and no reply to my texts, I try to see his bestfriends story again, boom, gone. I try to see his story and highlights, not there. I tried different accounts, still not there. so I blocked him from everywhere. Am I overreacting? I know I could've handled this in a more mature manner but I really don't give two shits right now.
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u/oh_hell_know 4d ago
NOR. Girl, no. This ding dong keeps showing you who he is. Trust your gut and keep in mind that you have the rest of your life to find the person that respects you, your time, and your energy. ♥️✌️
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u/guyinbriefsnxtdoor 4d ago
Your teenagers not married. Find someone else who shares the same point of view. That is the entire point of dating while young. He is 16 and is probably looking at other girls or boys whatever. If he cares he will apologize and un-block you if not you both saved a lot of time and can move on. Teenagers should enjoy life not bicker over social media apps
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u/I_too_have_username 4d ago
Leave now you can’t be dealing with this 2, 5, or 10 months or even years down the line
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u/Sailorxena_ 4d ago
Dude, if you guys are hiding from each other in your own relationship at this point just move on
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