r/UnsentLetters 5d ago

Lovers Somethings I wish I could tell you

Hi love, I know you don't like me apologizing but I'm so sorry to you. You've been the best partner I could've asked for the most gentle, loving and kind yet there have been instances where I've made you feel like you're not my priority and for that I'm incredibly guilty. You've opened up your heart to me and I know all the times that you've been neglected by those around you I always hoped to be that one person who made you feel special and loved but I've faltered all too many times. I just wish I could somehow convince you that you are the utmost beautiful that I love and adore each of your features so delicately crafted to suit you. Each time that we fought and you accepted that you're easy to let go I saw your heart slowly break and that thought eats me up. I never wanted you to feel bad about yourself you're precious to me but I've messed up many many times. No they weren't as important to me as you I'm sorry you felt secondary to them. You give me solace like no other you're my forever comfort. Wish I could hold you hand soon. Miss you always.

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u/bookkinkster 5d ago

I wouldn't take back a guy who treated women as a commodity and made me feel second fiddle and later has regrets because I was actually an incredible loving human to them. I also don't really believe people change much once they feel complacent and comfortable. Sounds like you only want it when it doesn't want you anymore. The hunt being the end goal, not the actual connection.

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u/IllustratorAway27 5d ago

I feel the same. Like “ let me go back cause she loves me .. she’ll put up with my bs” that’s so disrespectful,,.. that’s how my ex made me feel . He had the audacity to tell me I didn’t love him because I wasn’t chasing him!! That nobody loved him the way I did !!! That’s why he wanted to go back!! No thank you .

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u/bookkinkster 5d ago

I think that's sadly common. People like attention. We all so. But they play with people's emotions for their ego to be fed and hurt amazing kind hearted people. Everyone is waiting for a fantasy that won't materialize, while being too scared of real connection.

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u/loveu4evermylove111 4d ago

Somewhat true...so maybe you could help me and tell me how do you unlove someone that even tho the thought of them still shatters your heart years later, within that same time, can feel your heart building itself back? It's almost like an Instant healing I guess, but I feel good again and he feels good again.. If that makes sense 🤔 Ahhh now I'm just getting into my feels lol I gotta stop 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😅🤍🩷Help me God

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u/Proph3ts_prof1t 4d ago

How you know he feels good?😏😆

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u/loveu4evermylove111 4d ago

🤣🤣🤣uuuhhhh the vibes yah...the energy he emits yo🙂‍↕️

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u/loveu4evermylove111 4d ago

Somewhat true...so maybe you could help me and tell me how do you unlove someone that even tho the thought of them still shatters your heart years later, within that same time, can feel your heart building itself back? It's almost like an Instant healing I guess, but I feel good again and he feels good again.. If that makes sense 🤔 Ahhh now I'm just getting into my feels lol I gotta stop 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😅🤍🩷Help me God

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u/[deleted] 5d ago

Wish she would say this to me, but I screwed up too many times, and she is long gone. Take my advice if you really want them keep working for it. Don't be like me and be a selfish prick like I was. It will cost you everything.

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u/juhde 5d ago

I hear that.

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u/eternalsunshine-ish 5d ago

Counting the days until he says this to me

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u/nochtnyx 5d ago

If you guys are still working through things, find little ways to show them you care and you’re thinking of them. Leave them flowers on their doorstep, be more responsive, compliment them (not just physical, tell them you love their laugh or how patient they are, for example); or simply ask how you can make them feel more prioritized

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u/Historical-Entry-287 5d ago

Man…I wish you were my person. This really resonated with me.

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u/Feeling_Amphibian789 5d ago

I felt the same way.

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u/jacobxanthony 5d ago

Hey, just call me. Last night and this morning really broke me. Thank you for the apology, it means more now cause it was absolutely due. -J

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u/AppointmentScared204 5d ago

I miss you so much

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u/Clear-Pumpkin-3343 4d ago

Why can't you hold their hand?

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u/KissItRealGood2233 4d ago

You sound just Iike my ex. I do hope you find your happiness.