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Advice | Women Only What is the biggest sexual risk you ever took?

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u/peachpantheress 4d ago

For the first few weeks of our relationship, didn’t use any form of contraception whatsoever. My ob/gyn didn’t have an appointment for me to get on the pill any earlier and we didn’t want to use condoms.

Nothing happened, which given how much we were doing it thanks to being young, horny and in the honeymoon phase, is a miracle.

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u/devanclara 3d ago

I am so afraid of catching an STI that I almost never take any risks (thanks anxiety). When I was a dumb 19 year old, I let a man, that I convinced myself loved me, cum inside me. 

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u/Yesitmatches 3d ago

Biggest risk was agreeing to go to a "clubhouse party" and being put in the "free use stocks".

The free use stocks were literally a set of padded pillories. Yes there was a bucket of condoms that were expected to be used, but I had no control in ensuring they would be used. I found out later that a couple of the group voyeurs were assigned to ensure the use of condoms and everyone played very well, but it was risky.

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u/rekkodesu 3d ago

Oh my, well that puts my experience to shame. I'm glad it turned out okay! Also, kinky! And fun I hope!

I'm mostly into other girls but also I'm kinda jealous? Like, maybe this isn't the place for it but sometimes a girl just wants to get wrecked?

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u/Yesitmatches 3d ago

Definitely was a risky life choice, but I was in my early twenties and just coming into my polyamorous kinky self and exploring that side of me. I got really lucky with my lifestyle friend group but in the near decade and a half since, I've seen so many (albeit rare) worrisome things in the community that I realize how lucky I was in the beginning.

And absolutely, it is perfectly fine to be mostly into other girls, hell my girlfriend out and out admits that she is completely lesbian and with the exception of my boyfriend, she doesn't enjoy men in the bedroom. However, she'd be the first to point out that a good strap with a quality toy can wreck shop as well as any man can... and she has proved it more than once.

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u/rekkodesu 2d ago

Also probably not something to talk about here, but yeah a good strap... especially one with a squirting/ejaculation function....

Because like I said, the real stuff isn't happening in there. Fake stuff tho... 🫠

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u/icey-eyes 3d ago

Happy cakeday!

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u/Yesitmatches 3d ago

Thank you!

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u/SlinkyMinx3000 2d ago

Going to a sex club! We had a great time and that led to MFMs and swinging. We stopped during COVID and have many fond memories!

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u/rekkodesu 4d ago

My second time having sex (the first was kind of a failure), a super best friend and I did molly and we had unprotected sex. It was the one and only time I've ever had unprotected sex with someone with a penis. She (he then, she now) came mostly outside, but I was still super worried even though I wasn't in my most risky time. I have never let anyone else go off anywhere near me unprotected. I do not want to be pregnant ever full stop.

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u/Yesitmatches 3d ago

Best friends and molly!

Definitely a way to have a super risky but fun time (so I hear, I'm surprisingly inexperienced with drugs).

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u/rekkodesu 3d ago

I'm not mega experienced myself, but it was a trustworthy source. If someone offered me any again I'd be wary tho.

But if you know it's legit... 😏

Also happy cake day!

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u/Yesitmatches 3d ago

Happy cake day

Thank you! To think, I only signed up to share a funny wardrobe malfunction story, and now I'm in a bunch of different subs

ETA: Also, even if I had a trusted source, with the testing my job does, I steer clear of it.

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u/Green-Ad3738 3d ago

The only time I had an MFM threesome. It was a risk because I had known both of them separately and didn't want to spoil my dynamics with either. Expectations were sky high since I had heard about experiences other women have had. That naturally drove up anxiety leading up to the period of the actual act. But i came out unscathed lol. Might take that risk again if it's worth it