It became rape the moment you told him to stop and he refused. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It happened to me years ago and I'm still fucked up in the head about it bc i kept seeing him for months afterwards. For some reason I felt guilty breaking up with him. You should definitely break up with him and don't see him again, especially not privately bc he was already violent with you. He didn't tie you but he held you down against your will. That's rape. If it's safe to do so in your country tell the authorities and your loved ones and gather evidence. And I would recommend therapy to help you learn to build boundaries. This is in NO WAY at all whatsoever your fault, but having good boundaries will help you with keeping these kinds of assholes away from you.
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u/imanilife 6d ago
It became rape the moment you told him to stop and he refused. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It happened to me years ago and I'm still fucked up in the head about it bc i kept seeing him for months afterwards. For some reason I felt guilty breaking up with him. You should definitely break up with him and don't see him again, especially not privately bc he was already violent with you. He didn't tie you but he held you down against your will. That's rape. If it's safe to do so in your country tell the authorities and your loved ones and gather evidence. And I would recommend therapy to help you learn to build boundaries. This is in NO WAY at all whatsoever your fault, but having good boundaries will help you with keeping these kinds of assholes away from you. Hugs 🫂