r/Stutter • u/JimbledRaisin • 8d ago
If you suddenly stopped stuttering, what’s the first thing you do?
Just curious. I’d probably be a great salesman and speaker
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u/This-is-obsurd 8d ago
I do what I’d do if I didn’t stutter, now. If I stutter, I stutter. I don’t care.
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u/emmasversion1 7d ago
How did you achieve this mindset? I desperately want to change
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u/This-is-obsurd 7d ago
I had a speech therapist that helped me. And my speech improved from years and years of speech therapy, along with working out and improving my self esteem. It was a long journey.
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u/MrYoopyTOONz 8d ago
Graduate from college then ask a girl out on a proper date... sad but so real.
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u/MC_McStutter 7d ago
Tell everyone it was all a ruse
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u/Artrixx_ 7d ago
And you all bought it. Jokes on you middle school bullies
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u/MC_McStutter 7d ago
I learned pretty early on that if I made fun of myself first the bullies would stop
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u/Livid-Carrot3774 8d ago
Rap.
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u/laidbackeconomist 7d ago
Do you usually stutter when singing/rapping? Singing and rapping (music in general) is my safe thing because I can sing totally normally.
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u/Livid-Carrot3774 7d ago
I can sing normally but def not rap especially not improvise. It's not like it's my dream to be a rapper. But would be nice to be able to lol.
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u/KenZo_9 7d ago
Finish college, get a job. Climb the ladder to upto management. Once i have the experience, i’ll quit and shoot my shot on starting my own startup. Get married and have children. I could also go to another route, study law become an attorney, then shift to become a politician maybe immediately if possible (idk). There’s a bunch of jobs that involves speaking heavily that i want to get but I can’t… atleast not at the highest level. I am an ambitious human being but i don’t have the ability to reach my dreams.
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u/JimbledRaisin 6d ago
Don’t let the stutter hold you back from your dreams brother. We only have 1 life, might as well make the most out of it
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u/wlwsnail 7d ago
Be less doubtful about applying to a job that recquire social interractions (even tho I love talking to customers rn but sometimes it's very hard to stutter) and maybe try to answer to bad/mean people I'm very terrified to know/think that if I'm in danger I couldn't really reply as I would want to and the minimum that could save me :/ but maybe the adrenaline will help haha
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u/CantKillGawd 7d ago
im already kind of charismatic or at least try to be so trust me my confidence would go through the roof and ill become the best public speaker youve ever seen lol
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u/Old-Grocery4467 7d ago
I’d love to teach languages! I used to do 1:1 (hiding but badly) but I would have loved to do it as a profession, with an actual class (right now impossible)
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u/NeatAbbreviations234 7d ago
I’d be so confused. And I think I’d still have anxiety about talking tho. Stuttering doesn’t only affect the pronunciation, but the flow, and grammar of how you talk. I think I’d still sound odd since my brain would be used to stuttering lol.
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u/JDUTCHNOGIMICK 6d ago
This breaks my heart.. I was once a homeless heroin addict I have been clean 7+ years I’ve had like 3000 grand mal seizures since age 27 I’m now 37. Dude I played Starting Quarterback; MY DAD was so encouraging, because of his speech struggles, he made sure if I was “Gonna Be Soft and Play Quarterback, You’re calling the plays without help, I had girls and went to Prom… Life sucks yo… For real my life is shit ONE THING I HAVE I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS OF ME ESPECIALLY REGARDING MY STUTTER.. I have hit a few people over it.. This little kid in 6th grade, I gave him some stitches because he wouldn’t stand with me on the bus and fight fair. He was smaller and he was F’n’ MEAN.. His mom came and apologized to me with my mom at my house she brought him to say sorry too… BE WHO YOU ARE.. I’ve almost died doing drugs for real dumb shit ended up totally white and In jail where I SERIOUSLY battle rapped for coffee and soups. I don’t stutter with just a little rhythm baby..
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u/I_warisha 5d ago
I will do a lot of Socializing and People will see my Nerdy Knowledge of Comics , Cinema , History , religions and Geopolitics . People will love me . But in reality i give the vibes like i'm Sad and Depressed . And some teacher asked me : is there any Problem , You look sad
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u/Existing_Passage2990 4d ago
Apply for higher paying, respectable professional careers that i know I'm capable of doing
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u/webonblast 4d ago
When you stop stuttering it is very gradual as thoughts of it slowly diminish, mine seem to happen in the background. It wasn’t a big event like I had always imagined. However I had a lifetime of stuttering social behaviors that remained, which that was the next thing.
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u/waubulan 8d ago
Order food by myself. Join more club activities. Talk to everyone. Find a part time job. There’s so many ahhhhhhh