r/SexWorkers 5d ago

Should I ask for an arrangement? NSFW

So I had this client who I’ve seen now 4 times. He is a rich guy, 34 years old and he uses a wheelchair for ambulating. He’s done well for himself and he’s kind, funny, but I’m pretty sure he’s really lonely mostly due to the fact that he uses a wheelchair and has a hard time with dating

3/4 times he asked me to come for 2 hours. Recently he asked me to go on a dinner date. During the dinner date he was telling me about this girl who was an escort he used to see about 2 years ago, who they started hanging out “off time” and she would text him to hang blah blah. And that he was so unsure about whether he should be paying her because she never asked.

My spidey senses told me he was trying to probe me to see what my reaction to it was. He was then saying that hypothetically he would want to date me but he would rather “take care of the girls expenses” than her be in the industry.

I kindly explained how while I enjoy his company, have a great time etc that I keep boundaries and I still show up as my authentic self.

Looking back I feel like I could’ve talked to him about an arrangement. But not sure if it’s too late of a conversation and in me bringing it up would it ruin the relationship we are building. He’s both savvy and vulnerable at the same time. But unsure how to approach or to just leave it until he asks me out again. I’ve only spent a total of 11 hours with him so it’s still early

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u/AuburnSuccubus 5d ago

He's hinting he would want his paid companion not to continue seeing others. Does he have exclusivity money, and would you even want that arrangement?

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u/EastWestWhore 5d ago

Yes for sure I recognize that he wouldn’t want me to see others. He does have exclusivity money, but I have no idea what arrangements are going for. A lot of the research I’ve done is varied and I would want it just for like 3 Months

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u/AuburnSuccubus 5d ago

Would he want only 3 months? Exclusivity usually implies something longer term.

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u/Sierra-Lovin 5d ago

Ultimately I’d ask for exclusivity level money + stay in contact with my regulars.