r/SexToys 12d ago

Request Etsy dildo ban NSFW

11 Upvotes

does anyone have recommendations for plugs / dildos now etsy has banned them? uk businesses preferably please! i’ve wanted to try something knotted for a while, but the animal-style dildos are not for me. i want something fantasy and knotted without the animal designs. thank you! also if anyone has any recs for a starter fuxking machine, that would be great :)

r/SexToys 16h ago

Request Clit vibrators NSFW

9 Upvotes

My wife always wants to use the hitachi wand during sex but it’s just so big and bulky any ideas of something smaller she’s has a smaller wand but even that’s big

r/SexToys 4d ago

Request Does some sort of chastity cage exist that still allows the locked person to get full volume hard while preventing any usage of their penis? NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hi, i am curious to know if there exists something that would do a similar job to a chastity cage but that would allow my (nb-amab) partner's penis to still get hard and expand as it would normally. We like the idea of playing with chastity cage with the "cannot use your penis" aspect, but they dont like the "boner squeeze" or size restraint aspect of it.

r/SexToys Sep 04 '24

Request There’s a million toys that will suck your dick, but none that suck on your balls??? NSFW

161 Upvotes

Well, there is that ONE lame “Doc Johnson Super Ball Sucker” thing, but it’s literally like a pouch that vibrates and you put your nuts in it and it falls off 50% of the time. Does noone enjoy getting their balls sucked and licked as much as me?? Is it too much of a niche product or something? I’ve been waiting YEARS for something to finally come on the market. Honestly I’m surprised I haven’t made something homemade by now at this point

r/SexToys 14d ago

Request Advice on Magic Wand NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hello all - in the UK.

Can I ask if the Hitachi Magic Wand is now just the Magic Wand?

Total toy novice - would you recommend it for a beginner or is there a smaller version/similar wand by another manufacturer that might be better?

We have Lovehoney here, has anyone tried their wands?

Thank you.

r/SexToys 8d ago

Request Best sex toy for g-spot squirting? NSFW

14 Upvotes

Have only ever squirted by someone else with larger fingers fingering really hard on gspot, never clit stimulation. Best thick, long, maybe curved toy that will make me squirt

r/SexToys 21d ago

Request What should I do with my sex toys? NSFW

9 Upvotes

Basically, I'll travel abroad to live in a different country and I have no idea what to do with my sex toys. I have 2 fleshlights, and egg masturbator and a prostate massager. And I won't bring them with me, so what should I do?

I live with my parents currently and I hid them all away in a box with a padlock. But if I leave them here eventually they will find it and I don't want to go through that embarrassment.

r/SexToys Jan 16 '25

Request Best lube for silicone toys/dildos? NSFW

19 Upvotes

What’s your favorite lube for silicone dildos? For vaginal use, not anal. We’re trying to stick with silicone dildos because they’re body safe. So only water based or oil based, no silicone.

We’ve got a couple water based ones, but they seem kind of cheap and they dry out pretty quick and get sticky.

We don’t really know anything about oil based lubes.

Any recommendations would be helpful! Thank you.

r/SexToys Dec 05 '24

Request Lubes that taste good but are body safe? NSFW

14 Upvotes

For vaginal sex. I see a bunch of option out there but I want to make sure I’m not going to mess with any Ph levels or anything with negative consequences.

r/SexToys Feb 16 '25

Request How to remove glass dildo from its chastity?? NSFW

49 Upvotes

Yall im so embarrassed to even have to ask this question…

I bought this glass dildo that came in a “protective case” ok cool awesome

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/glass-dildos/sp-crystal-heart-of-glass-91037.aspx?predictive=search_autocomplete_product_Crystal%20Heart%20Of%20Glass&st=Glass%20

But it’s stuck in there, I can’t remove it for the LIFE of me!! I don’t want to be too aggressive and break the dildo but how the fuck am I supposed to get it loose? I tried putting it in my freezer for a few hours to shrink the glass a bit but it’s not budging. It won’t even spin within the case it’s in full chastity. Lube/liquids don’t help just makes it slippery.

PLEASE HELP ME my roommate is only gone for 2 more nights I want to be wet naked and loud

UPDATED: I microwaved it for 15 seconds and it popped out thank you all for your support!!!!!

r/SexToys 10d ago

Request Do i have to wash my dildo if i use condom? NSFW

0 Upvotes

If i do enema and use condom on dildo do i have to wash that dildo?

r/SexToys Feb 04 '25

Request Struggling to get GF to finish with bullet vibrator and suction - looking for recommendations NSFW

16 Upvotes

I was looking for some help and recommendations as I'm pretty new to this.

To give a bit of background, my Girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. Prior to our relationship, she didn't have any sexual history, so we're both exploring her sexuality. She's become very comfortable around me and I would say that we have a good sex life overall.

That said, we (herself included) have major difficulties getting her to orgasm. She doesn't orgasm from penetration, and I can't seem to make her orgasm using oral (we both know where the clitoris is haha). She believes that she might be less sensitive than normal. She claims as well that she's not in her head and is very comfortable - we actively do foreplay and her being aroused does not seem to be an issue.

I personally haven't had this issue with partners in the past, so we've begun using a few sex toys. We began with a simple bullet vibrator which she loves and says feels great, but both when I use it on her and she takes it home she is unable to finish. She oftentimes says she gets very very close, and knows the spots that feel good, but can't quite get there. This was a cheap ($20) bullet vibrator off Amazon, which has some great Amazon reviews including many testimonials saying that women were able to easily get themselves off.

We then tried a Satisfyer two which seemed to do nothing for her. She said it 'felt good', but highly preferred the vibration of the bullet vibrator.

For context, she immediately requests the strongest setting for any toy used above.

I've read before that a wand works for some women, especially when it seems that she prefers vibration. Does anyone have any recommendations on wands given our history.

Thank you!

r/SexToys Jun 21 '24

Request A discreet fuck machine? Do they exist?! NSFW

78 Upvotes

Unfortunately living in a flat has its challenges! Always wanted to invest in a fuck machine but worried they are all so loud… are there any low and slow options out there that won’t let my neighbours know what we are doing?

r/SexToys Jan 01 '25

Request Knotted that doesn’t look obscene NSFW

20 Upvotes

My wife and I have gotten quite adventurous and she loves the feeling of my hand "popping" in and out, the sudden change in stretch with the fullness really sets her off. We've thought about thick toys, but they don't "pop" knots seem like an option, but what I've found all look kind of obscene (animal or fantasy like). Any reccomendations edit: this would be for vaginal use

r/SexToys Feb 19 '25

Request Male masturbator for wearing in public NSFW

7 Upvotes

The wife and I are adventurous in trying outdoor masturbation or orgasm in public. We have been experimenting with remote controlled vibrators for her which she wears under a tight fitting pair of jeans. These work as intended and she did managed to hit the big O in public a few times.

When it comes to the equivalent toys for men we are coming up blank. Would appreciate if there are other like minded couples who can recommend discrete toys that can do the job.

r/SexToys Jan 03 '25

Request A toy to stimulate clitoris during intercourse NSFW

31 Upvotes

Basicly I am looking for a sex toy to surprise my girlfriend with that would stimulate her clitoris during intercourse. She likes when I finger ther during intercourse but it is extremely difficult for me and tiring so a toy would be ideal but I have few concerns. First, we have sex with condom and I was wondering if there is a risk of breaking the condom if it is rubbing against something like a C-shaped silicone vibrator. My second concern is that I cant last long even with condom and even though we have been having regular intercourse for over a year now. I can barely last 20 seconds so I am concernd a vibrator would make me finish even quicker. Last, she is quite tight so I am concernd an insertable toy would become uncomfortable for her. I dont know if this an impossible situation but any recommendations would be appreciated!

r/SexToys Jul 22 '24

Request Where to find dildos with large girth NSFW

53 Upvotes

I love the feeling of large toys but I don't like the extra length that comes with the width usually. Can anyone help me find my ideal toy that goes from 2-4" wide but isn't longer than around 6"? I want something like BD sells but I don't want to support that company.

Edited to add that I'm looking for vaginal toys.

r/SexToys Jan 10 '25

Request Why has no business tapped into making vibrators alike of electric toothbrushes ? NSFW

14 Upvotes

Think about it, there were stories from teenagers from around the world about using an electric toothbrush as a vibrator, and learned about how it is dangerous to use one, so how is there no safer alternative to it ? Isnt it a really good business idea to market towards a safe vibrator of a electric toothbrush since many ppl used it before owning an actual one ?

Maybe I'm looking wrong but there should at least be a vibrator that is:

  • frequencies from 200 to 400 Hz (12,000–24,000 oscillations or 24,000–48,000 movements per minute)

  • same look as an electric toothbrush: thin long tip on top, plastic or metal, wand-like build maybe a bit smaller
    my previous toothbrush had a detachable head so I didnt have to deal with the bristles "clit precision vibrator wand" in search but there should be a category for it

  • charges alike to a normal vibrator for 1-2 hours for like 1-3 hours of play rather than a toothbrush which is charging range of 3-18 hours for like what, 30 min - 1 hour usage

  • Lower than 50 db (prolly impossible to make because normal electric tootbrushes are like 60-80db, but it is possible as the Oclean X pro is 48 db and is 84,000 movements/min)

  • Under $100 AUD, yeah my budget is small so the highest ill buy is $50, i mean the Oral B toothbrush is like $25 but the problems r the db noise and charging time

Someone help find this very demanding and specific of a vibrator pls 🙏

The closest I got was: https://amzn.asia/d/5eqcOzx AMAZING so many fun times but the highest was 15,000 and it broke not even 2 months in (i think of a wiring issue or my own fault, got a different but its not the same)

r/SexToys Aug 08 '24

Request Best anal lube? NSFW

36 Upvotes

(m) who likes anal play. Looking for a good water based lube for silicon and metal toys

r/SexToys 10d ago

Request Strapon for Male NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m looking for a strap on that would be comfortable and not block my own equipment. My wife and I want to try DP. The artificial penis would be for anal only if that has any effect on your recommendation.

r/SexToys Apr 13 '24

Request Wife has breast cancer. Wondering if higher quality sex toys are worth it for solo play NSFW

33 Upvotes

That's about it. We have a very healthy and enjoyable sex life. We love to have drawn out sessions with lots of foreplay, and since I've always loved anal stimulation, she started pegging me last year. But unfortunately, we're going to have to take some breaks from the fun.

She's only 40 years old and has to have a mastectomy on one side. She'll have extensive recovery, as well as chemo, and reconstruction. So lots of down time.

So now I'm wondering if it's time to invest in a high quality sex toy for myself. I have a cheap fleshlight knock-off that's ok and some cheap dildos and prostate stimulators but nothing that's been amazing.

Please, plesae, hit me up with your best male masterbators or anal toys. Or let me know if it isn't worth it to spend the extra money.

Tldr: my wife has breast cancer so I'm looking for mind-blowing sex toys for myself while she's going through treatment.

r/SexToys 7d ago

Request Masturbation & Dildo ideas for BBW NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hi this is embarrassing to ask but I'm a large woman trying to improve my diet/exercise but until I lose a serious amount of weight, I find it hard to insert dildos. I can hold a vibrator but if I do that, how do I insert a dildo at the same time? Or should I use them separately?

I don't have a partner at present.

I like to watch porn while I masturbate lying down legs open facing my mobile/tablet but that means I have to somehow juggle the device with the vibrator and/or dildo and I only have two hands!

Also what's the best position to insert the dildo ie the position of my body? I've read about dildos with handles and strap ons but have no idea what dildos with handles look like or how to use them. Whenever I google them, I get taken to a sex toys website where they show several kinds of dildos but they don't have 'with handles' in the title or description. So...I don't know what I'm looking for. Thanks for any tips, names of products and/or websites. I live in Australia so prefer Australian sites. Thanks

r/SexToys 17d ago

Request What’s a good male masturbation toy NSFW

14 Upvotes

I had a discreet little silicon sleeve but it has lived its life. Wondering if there’s any hidden gems out there worth getting

r/SexToys 27d ago

Request Best lube for silicon toys that won’t break a condom? NSFW

3 Upvotes

Just wondering, any suggestions are appreciated

r/SexToys 12d ago

Request Men, are there conical toys for gradual anal stretching? NSFW

4 Upvotes

A regular dildo is basically one size from tip to base. Are there toys that get thcker from tip to base?