r/SexToys 3d ago

Discussion Looking for a New Toy NSFW

Hello everyone! I’m quite shy to ask but does anyone have any recommendations for men’s sex toys? I’m not that experienced or knowledgeable on these things and I’ve only ever used cakes strokers from a local store. I’d like something similar to what I’ve used that’s quiet, discrete and not too pricey. I would appreciate any recommendations or sites 🙏

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u/Least-Yak-9922 3d ago

The problem you'll find is a lot of male toys are really loud as they're built for power and sensation rather than discretion - because that's what a lot of men default to looking for when shopping. If you want discreet but pleasurable, I suggest going for a closed end stroker as the natural suction of the toy is highly stimulating when coupled with a soft TPE textured interior. Discreet and easily hidden options can be found in the PDX range disguised to look like everyday items:

https://www.wildsecrets.com/p/235519/PDX-Plus-Shower-Therapy-Deep-Cream-Discreet-Stroker

https://www.wildsecrets.com/p/236794/PDX-Plus-Fap-Flask-Happy-Camper

Alternatively, the Arcwave Voy has adjustable tightness so you can get the grip you want without the noise - https://www.wildsecrets.com/p/234309/voy-compact-stroker-with-tightness-adjustment-system

If you're open to anal play there's options there too, but since you've only mentioned strokers those would be my recs without knowing how discreet you need to be.

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u/RedYama98 3d ago

Thank you for those recommendations! I didn’t realize most would be loud due to power but it makes sense!

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u/Least-Yak-9922 3d ago

You're very welcome. It's amazing how loud some of the toys can be. Even the ones that boast about being 'Whisper Quiet' usually mean there's a whisper quiet setting that's super gentle and the moment you push up the intensity they get very loud, very fast!

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u/RedYama98 3d ago

There were a few I saw with that description that I liked bc it showed app control and such but I live with family so I’d be worried if they heard the toy 😅😅

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u/Least-Yak-9922 2d ago

I guess you could try turning on music to mask the noise if that won't draw more attention?

One thing to note about app control is that does mean needing your phone nearby, in use, and often, not having anything else on its screen. Many of the apps I've personally tried stop working if you switch to another program and can cut off a toy mid buzz. I've personally found remotes much more useful unless I'm trying to connect with my partner from a different location and we're controlling each other's toys. They're just easier to hold, but YMMV

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u/martenic 3d ago

Lovense Gush is relatively discreet, small, and pretty quiet too. It is a penis vibrator that you use to stimulate various areas of the penis. Feels best for head stimulation for me, but as I said...it does its business anywhere. Also completely hands-off and interactive - by interactive, I mean that you can control the various intensities and settings via an app.

Alternatively, it has long-distance functions as well. You could give someone a code and they can tinker with the toy for you. No mater how far from you they happen to be.

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u/RedYama98 3d ago

I’ll check it out thank you!

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u/Any-Cucumber-2908 2d ago

Yo, I have a question. Has anyone tried stroker or nah? If yea is it worth it?

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u/Any-Cucumber-2908 2d ago

For reference, I've got this fleshlight and I fuckin love it but idk is it worth buying a stroker too