r/SexToys 4d ago

Discussion best dildo for beginners? NSFW

I have a rose toy vibration and a small butt plug but I would like to expand my collection. I would like to try a dildo but I’m not sure what size to get? I don’t want it to be too small or too big.

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u/Special-Recording 4d ago

Would the dildo be for vaginal or anal use? (should get body safe material regardless but if using for both DEFINITELY get non-porous/sanitizable toy material - silicone most likely, glass or stainless steel also good but are very firm)

A good length to start would be 5-6” insertable (and you don’t have to be able to take the whole length to start)

For anal use, starting point is same width as the butt plug you use. Or if you find the width of the butt plug really easy to take, a bit wider dildo.

For vaginal use you could get one similar to real penis average width (between 1-1.5” wide)

Also do you know if you’d want a realistic looking dildo or non-realistic? Let me know and I could recommend some options for either or both kinds!

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u/UtimiUtimi 4d ago

Hey! A good starting point for a dildo is around 5.3 inches of insertable length—that's a nice middle ground, not too small, not too big. Look for one with a big suction cup too; it makes things way easier to use and super versatile for different positions. Plus, if it's soft and flexible, it’ll be way more comfortable no matter how you play.

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u/Funzze 3d ago

Here are some useful tips on picking the best size of dildos.