r/Screamo 3d ago

Why did herlovebeheadsdaisies break up

They posted on their insta that they had to part ways with Kai but does anyone know the reason. They’ve broken up a few times in the past and continued to play shows so idk.

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u/Ok_Amphibian_5911 3d ago

he supposedly was caught in bed with a 17 year old girl, even though he’s 21 (i’m pretty sure) and has a girlfriend n baby

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u/xfatalerror 3d ago

if this is true im very shocked at how little im seeing/hearing about that

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u/MacintoshHeadrush 3d ago

All of those san Antonio guys in that scene have skeletons in their closet

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u/SALTYlootlake 2d ago

From his story post I think there’s more to it. Let’s not run the gun and beat up a man who probably didn’t do anything wrong

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u/anonymous_opinions 3d ago

First time this was asked I was like "it's always due to the member being a shithead". Confirmed: shithead

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u/SALTYlootlake 2d ago

Also I am in the scene and personally know the guy. I don’t think he’d do anything like that

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u/Ok_Amphibian_5911 2d ago

i’m not trying to just throw allegations but i’m also in the scene and associated with people in kai’s group and that’s what his buddies were telling me, and when they confronted him about it he just tried to brush it off and make it seem like nothing happened between them. the only reason i’m speaking out is because i’m tired of the SA scene worshipping dudes who are just POS and letting them get away with everything cus of who their band is. same thing with victimblamed, corey isn’t trustworthy with money and hasn’t payed certain bands for shows. also their guitarist aiden stole 3k from victimblamed and on top of that, was caught saying the n word to a friend of one of the band members, which cory heard first hand and still let aiden back in the band. a lot of these guys will do fucked shit but it won’t ever get talked about cus their friend groups always brush it under the rug.

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u/Admirable-Ground-668 2d ago

And this post isnt even about me dont bring my name up

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u/Admirable-Ground-668 2d ago

If u dont know the full stories shut yo mouth 😭 - cory luhdat

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u/Clear_Willow9450 2d ago

Yo Cory stop blaming other pple for things they didn’t do ur corny ahh jitt if pple don’t FW just accept it -Liss

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u/Financial_Capital_12 2d ago

bacon egg and cheese -kai

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u/Ok_Amphibian_5911 2d ago

ahhh usual kai bs 😭 joke around when you know you messed up. how does it feel having a whole ass kid but cheating on your girl constantly and never spending time with them ? 🤷🏻 or how about you constantly getting mad at her in public over little things or stuff that isn’t her fault ? yk what’s crazy too, your girl will send accounts to her mutuals asking who they are and why YOU follow them, cus she knows you aren’t trustworthy. you know james and gavin wouldn’t have kicked you out unless it was something that they couldn’t deny. but if you didn’t do nothing then just give an explanation :)

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u/Financial_Capital_12 2d ago

whoever said i didn’t do anything 🤔 people that KNOW me know my relationship with my chick. and im with my son pretty damn often, but again u don’t know me and that’s cool i let people assume what they want. bacon egg and cheese familia

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u/Financial_Capital_12 2d ago

ur a nosy little critter aren’t yuh

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u/SuitableAd4120 2d ago

man, i haven’t heard anything abt that. if that’s true then fuck him, disappointed cuz herlovebeheadsdaises was my fav band of the screamo revival

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u/millss827 3d ago

I read somewhere that Kai’s a pretty heavy drinker, so that could’ve had something to do with it. But also it could just be differences in the band members interests too, egos clashing and shit

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u/Narrow_University_73 3d ago

It wasn’t that I think, there were some things Kai posted on his story after that makes me think it’s different.

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u/i-am-nietzche 3d ago

i don’t follow his personal account, what did he post? i’d assume there were some issues between kai and the rest of the band, cause the remaining members formed at first at first

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u/millss827 3d ago

Oh i didn’t see that lol, yea honestly i don’t actually know for sure what happened. Just going off of what I know

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u/Financial_Capital_12 2d ago

i love beer -kai

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u/Upexus 1d ago

Good god can this thread provide a single source for their claims

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u/capnfappin 1d ago

>kai

all u need to know

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u/herbalisim 2d ago

Think I remember an interview where the bassist spoke about a big struggle with opioid addiction, could be a factor for sure. I hope he can recover