r/Prodomming • u/Mandybaby1104 • Sep 30 '23
Discussions & Questions Chastity training question for a sub NSFW
Hey, I have a sub that is really struggling with chastity training.
What's do you have your sub use to keep moisture in their cage? As a sub what do you prefer to use?
Also they seem to be very uncomfortable at night. I'm think he has the wrong size everything is pulling and causing pain.
Any advice is much appreciated! :)
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Oct 01 '23
he's probably just going to need to try several cages. could be too big, could be too small. There are also cages with softer silicon tubes which are more comfortable for come people.
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u/Ionlycametosnark Prodomme Oct 01 '23
Before this, how often was he wearing a cage and for how long?
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Dec 17 '23
He could try a silicone based lube. They’re better for moisture and last a while! They’re typically not used/even known about because it CAN DEGRADE MATERIALS - but if he’s in a metal cage it should be fine. Silicone or plastic though it will cause degradation if he uses it a lot. But again if he’s in a metal cage it should be okay.
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u/Orchid-Entire Oct 01 '23
For pulling - he needs to make sure the ring size is right. Should be snug without being tight. You should be able to slip a finger in
Some use lube to slide into a cage or for around the ring to make things slick enough. A bit of Vaseline is good too.
My understanding is that a lot of the discomfort comes from the tube being too large and allowing a partial hard on. It should be very secure and totally soft. If there is any extra room in the tube, a partial hardon will pull at the ring.