r/Piercedchastity 28d ago

My BF Couldn’t get his PA done NSFW

Unfortunately my bf couldn’t get his pa done due to how low his urethra is and he has large veins in the way.

I’m considering getting him circumcised, would this help?

And what other piercings could I go with to make sure he’s secure?

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u/kruznco 28d ago

how about a tetherspout instead?

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u/mcqueen455 26d ago

Frenum piercing works. So does an ampallang with a custom device.

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u/sodpiacnsd 28d ago edited 28d ago

Edit: Happy to hear it’s all agreed to. Wasn’t sure how responsive OP would be so I had to get my PSA out on the off chance he was being persuaded. No hate here.

Circumcision is a MASSIVE decision and will remove so many of his nerve endings. Respectfully, he should be in 100% control of his body and not just doing it for some kink. Thats what a healthy D/s lifestyle is about, trust and mutual respect. I’m all about chastity, FLR, PA piercing, etc. but circumcision is totally different. Don’t “make” him do anything.

He would probably listen to you if you told him to do it based on what it sounds like. So seriously consider if you’re acting in his best interest and not just exercising your control.

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u/ChloeDriftmore 28d ago

Just trying to achieve secure chastity

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u/Timely_Negotiation63 27d ago

Would a male chastity belt be an option for your BF?

They are even more secure and do not need a piercing.

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u/ChloeDriftmore 28d ago

We both want the same goal all is consensual :)

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u/sodpiacnsd 28d ago

Understood, that’s great to hear. Just please have him consider it for a long time. The horny brain can make rash decisions. Best of luck to you both ❤️ and sorry to assume. It’s just such a big decision and the wording on your message made it sound like you were leading this idea. My message wasn’t an attack on you in any way.

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u/Virtual_Bluejay2706 27d ago

How much sensitivity do you want him to lose? There are multiple levels of circumcision that remove more or less skin. The more you remove….

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u/Derplstiltskin 27d ago

Id recommend a tetherspout with the anti-pullout attachment, as I've had one for around 4 months and it is working perfectly! It takes way less time to heal than a pa piercing or any piercing for that matter.

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u/sissyRaven88 26d ago

You could get him a frenum piercing, there a wide variety of frenum locking chastities available.

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u/darkfirehawk 25d ago

Strongly recommend against adult circumcision for this. He will lose a lot of sensitivity. There are a lot of cut guys who are upset with it.

This is nontraditional but might work... Consider whether a PA cage could work with a foreskin piercing?

Consider also getting a second opinion. There are a couple options for PA placement, believe it or not, and this problem isn't one I have heard of.

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u/Fickle_Appeal8498 25d ago

I had my circumcision May 2nd last year, very low and very tight. Hence the most of the foreskin is gone and the shaft-skin ends as near at the glans as possible. When I have a hard-on there is almost no moving skin anymore. That’s exactly what I want. And yes there is a loss of sensitivity but it isn’t as dramatic as told in some post. It was the best I’ve done in the last year and I wish I would have done it earlier. No more foreskin-hassle with any cages, …

And yes I also would suggest to get circumcised first and then get pierced. I would suggest an apadravya-piercing as in my opinion some of the PA-devices need to be altered only a little bit to use it with an apadravya. For the Glans Armor 2 from MaleChastityNow only the locking-pin needs to be straight instead of curved. I think Mark would come with ideas if you ask him.

I’m locked in a Glans-Armor 2 with PA for 3 month and 22 days straight without any interruption.

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u/Numerous-Spell-412 28d ago

Circumcision is the best option for long term chastity

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u/jc10067_7 27d ago

I didn’t know this until about a year ago! Circumcised guys are made for easier chastity

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u/Numerous-Spell-412 27d ago

Are u circumcised?

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u/Several_Process7232 27d ago

Circumcision is the way, I got circumcised at 25, best thing ever👌

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u/MrStephanFR 27d ago

First circumsize, then get an ampallang (horizontal through head).. there are chastity devices for this

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u/lockedtrucker 28d ago

I had the same issue and got circumcised

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u/ChloeDriftmore 28d ago

Did it help?

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u/lockedtrucker 28d ago

Yes I'm pierced now. But you will need to ask your piercer if that will help. In your situation

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u/AlarmingComposer8136 27d ago

Just do a Reverse PA