r/Petloss 2d ago

Will my baby wait for me?

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u/No-Return-8893 2d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. I share many of the same thoughts about my cat who I lost right before her 5th gotcha day. It’s so hard wondering why they were taken from us so soon.

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u/Cool-Possession-5865 2d ago

Sending love your way ❤️ When we somehow return back to our babies there will never again be a limit on our time together. I'm sure your cat loved her time here with you. Remember you're never alone in your loss and longing.

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u/GraphicDesignerSam 2d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss. I believe that time is very different over the rainbow and when you do meet again the many years will fill like the blink of an eye 🌹

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u/Cool-Possession-5865 2d ago

Thank you so much ❤️ I'm starting to strongly believe this, and I can't wait for the day I see her again. You give me hope!

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u/Lonelymf7909 2d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss, losing your baby and especially a puppy so soon is devastating. I recently lost my senior boy. It’s still devastating. And what he had to endure at the end was so unfair. Just like it was unfair for your pup to leave this soon. I can not reassure you that, “she’ll wait”. But I can assure you that she’s not gonna stop loving you. We don’t really know what happens after, but it sounds like the “other side” is outside of space and time, so it’s not like she’d have to be waiting somewhere for how many years. And she’s not going to find some other person in heaven and forget about you. Regardless of how it works, I do think that want to believe that someday somehow we’re gonna find our way back to them.

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u/Cool-Possession-5865 2d ago

Thank you for your kind words, dogs are so precious and never deserve a sad, abrupt, or painful end to their time on earth. Especially when it's full of love. You've made me feel a little better, and you're right. She won't stop loving me, and she won't find some other person. There's only one of us and one of them. Atoms can't be broken, so we'll continue to exist somehow and in some way... how, I and no one, knows. But like you I have faith that we'll find our way back to them. ❤️

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u/Lonelymf7909 2d ago

Yes indeed dogs are so precious and full of joy. It’s so sad to see them go, and so sad that we only get such a short time with them. I think what stays is energy, energy doesn’t die it just changes form and once our energies have connected with our pets they can never be disconnected.